Iminyaka iqhubekela phambili futhi isondele cishe eminyakeni eyikhulu leminyaka, lapho abesifazane behlangana nokukhathazeka, usizi nokukhathazeka - isisindo esinzima sigcwele amathuba angenakwenzeka, futhi ukucabangela esibukweni sithi intsha isemuva. Futhi ukuthi owesifazane ubukeka kanjani emva kweminyaka engu-50 ngamehlo abantu - kulesi sihloko.
I-Psychology yowesifazane emva kweminyaka engu-50
Omunye uthi eminyakeni engama-50, impilo iqala nje, futhi omunye ukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kungukuhleka okunjalo. Abesifazane abaye bawela uphawu lwaminyaka engu-50 bafaka izinguquko ezilandelayo:
- Khipha ukwehla kwesithakazelo kumuntu wakhe kusuka kobulili obuhlukile. Siyabonga ukuthi ugogo emgwaqweni akabizwanga futhi akagijimeli ukuhambisa ezokuthutha zomphakathi, kodwa akekho ozwa into yezocansi. Yiqiniso, lokhu akunakwenzeka kodwa kuthinta isimo sengqondo sowesifazane wesifazane: ukuzethemba kwakhe kuwela, njengoba kukuzethemba ekukhangeni kwakhe. Abaningi ngalesi sigaba ababoni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuzigcina bezinzimele futhi bazikhathalele ngokwabo, ngoba ukuguga sekuvele kusondela kumbundu futhi kakade kungenakulinganiswa ukuthi ngandlela-thile ikhule ngokweminyaka.
- Ukuwohloka kwesikhumba, izipikili, izinwele. Ukuvela kwezifo ezihlukahlukene ezingelapheki, okungeke kukhulise ukuzethemba. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, kuhlanganise konke lokhu, nomvuthwandaba odakiwe.
- Umona maqondana nabancane, ukuzisola ngeminyaka ephile kanye namathuba alahlekile. Ukwesaba ukuba yedwa.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba owesifazane ezwa, ngakho-ke le ndoda iyayibona, futhi lokhu kusebenza kunoma yimuphi ubudala. Ngemuva kokuba owesifazane ohlotshiswe kahle, emva kweminyaka engu-50, egqoke futhi egqoke ngokuhlakanipha, amadoda azophendukela, hhayi nje ontanga kuphela, kodwa kulabo abazophikisa futhi bathi indoda endala, umuntu omncane ubheka umngane wokuphila, umuntu angaphendula ukuthi lokhu kuyisignali enkulu izinkathazo nokungafuni ukuguga. Kumlingani onjalo, akaphatheli njengelingana naye, kodwa ubona nje ukuthi uyisici sokuphumelela kwakhe futhi uphawu lwentsha ephumayo.
Indoda ekhulile eduze komuntu othandekayo ayiqapheli ukuguqulwa kwenkathi owesifazane emva kweminyaka engama-50, ngoba uyibona njengento eyodwa, nazo zonke izinzuzo nezingozi, futhi uma ungagxili ekugcineni, bese ubonisa kuqala, khona-ke usengathola isikhathi eside kusuka kuye ukuncoma futhi ujabulele ukuphila.