Ubuhlobo obunothando abuhlali njalo buletha injabulo, ngezinye izikhathi kubangela ubuhlungu. Indlela yokuphila, uma umfana ephonsa - ngenkinga enjalo, ngeshwa, amantombazane ajwayelekile. Kulesi simo, izincomo zochwepheshe zingasiza.
Iseluleko sezengqondo: kanjani ukusinda isimo lapho umfana ephonsa?
- Ungazivali. Hlangana nabangani, thola ukuzijabulisa okuthakazelisayo okusha, uzicabange emsebenzini, uchithe isikhathi esiningi nomndeni wakho, thatha isikhathi okhululekile ngokuzijabulisa.
- Ungazicabangeli. Yebo, awuphelelanga, kodwa abazange bakulahle. Ngomunye umuntu, ngokuqinisekile uzoba inkanyezi eqondisayo, uzobe ulungiswa futhi uyakwazisa, ulindele lokhu futhi ukhumbule njalo ukuthi kuyoba njalo.
- Zama konke ukukhuluma nomthandi wakho wangaphambili, ukuthola ukuthi kungani ukwehlukana kwenzeka. Mhlawumbe uzokwazi ukuyibuyisela.
- Bheka nxazonke, uyazisa abantu abakuzungezile. Mhlawumbe usuvele ulindele uthando olusha olungakaqapheli ngaphambili, futhi ngalesi sikhathi kuyoba yinto yangempela futhi ijabule. Mvumele nje empilweni yakho.
- Ekugcineni, zizinakekele. Unesikhathi esiningi samahhala, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuyisebenzisa ekuthuthukiseni ukuzethemba. Buyekeza i-wardrobe, yezinwele zekhanda, uzenzele i-tattoo, eyake iphupha isikhathi eside, kodwa umfana wakho akuphikise.
Ungasinda kanjani ekuhlukaneni, uma umfana ekopela, esebenzisa futhi eyeka?
Njengoba kungase kuzwakale kuyingozi, kodwa isimo singaba sibi nakakhulu uma umfana engenayo imizwa ephindaphindiwe futhi wakunikhohlisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ngasebenzisa, isibonelo, ngahlala endlini yakho futhi ngidonsa imali kuwe. Kulokhu, impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ungaphila kanjani ukuhlukana, lapho umfana ephonsa, kungaba khona eyodwa kuphela: ukhohlwe. Kodwa yenza inothi esikhathini esizayo ukuthi ungathembeki kangako futhi ungaqhubeki ukuzwa imizwa yezinzwa, ngaphandle kokwazi ngomuntu okungenani ubuncane bokwaziswa.