Ukubamba iqhaza kukagogo nomkhulu ekukhulisweni kwengane, njengombuso, kunqunywe yizinto eziningana, phakathi kwazo esingakwazi ukuhlukanisa:
- ukuqashwa kukagogo (sizoxoxa ngakho, ngoba yizinkhulukazi eziningi lapho bekhulelwe) - uma ugogo esemncane, enamandla futhi engakulungeli ukushiya umsebenzi wakhe, ukukhulumisana nabazukulu bakhe, njengokungumthetho, kufana nokuhamba nokuqokwa ngezimpelasonto. Abagogo-abahola impesheni bangaqondisa abantwana isikhathi esiningi;
- ukuhlala - indima ebalulekile idlalwe lapho ukhulukazi behlala khona - kwelinye igumbi elinomndeni omncane noma kwenye idolobha. Ububanzi bendawo buqondana ngokuqondile namandla nokuqina kwethonya kubazukulu;
- ubudlelwane bezizukulwane - ngeshwa, ngezinye izikhathi ubudlelwane nabazali abafaki phezulu, ngoba bazihlukanisa noma baxoshwa empilweni yezingane zabo futhi, ngokufanele, izingane zabo;
- izithakazelo zomuntu siqu zikagogo. Ngakho-ke, ezweni lakithi kuvamile ukuthi okhulukazi bahlala beyingxenye ekhuthele kakhulu emfundweni yesizukulwane esincane - basiza ngokwezezimali, bathatha isonto lokugcina kanye namaholidi njalonjalo. Futhi, ngokwesibonelo, eYurophu ayamukelekile, kanti abanye besifazane basanda kudlulisela lo mkhuba emibandela yesiko lethu. Laba bigogogo ababoni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukudela impilo yabo kanye nemisebenzi yabo ukuze bazuze abazukulu babo.
Ngamunye walezi zici kunama-nuances amaningi kanye nezici kuhlelo lokusebenza kumndeni ngamunye ngabanye. Uma ugogo engahlanganyeli emfundweni yabazukulu, konke kulula lapha. Lena indaba yangasese kubo bonke abantu kanye nezingane abanalo ilungelo lokumemezela, akeke ulahleke. Masikhulume ngokuningiliziwe ngalezo zimo lapho ukubamba iqhaza kukagogo kungokuqondile nokusebenzayo.
Imikhuba nokuqeda imfundo ka "ugogo"
Njenganoma yikuphi isimo, emfundweni yabantwana ugogo bazinzuzo zabo. Ake siqale ngohlu lwezinhlangothi ezingenakuphikwa okuyiqiniso:
- ingane igcinwa njalo, ugogo ugxila ukumkhipha ngaphandle kwensimu, esikoleni, ahlale ezifundweni, ukudla nokunye okunjalo. Kulokhu, abazali bangasebenza ngokuphepha futhi bangakhathazeki. Ngaphezu kwalokho, asikho isidingo sokuqasha umntanakho futhi ukhokhe imali yakhe, ngakho-ke akusizi ngalutho kwisabelomali somndeni. Kodwa lezi zikhathi zonke ze-utilitarian;
- ngokusho kwezinye izazi ze-psychologists, ugogo awunaso umbono wokuhlola, ngokungafani nabazali abaqhathanisa njalo izingane zabo nabanye bese bebeka izidingo eziphakeme kubo;
- Unogogo angazifaka endaweni yengane futhi "akhulume" naye ngolimi olulodwa, ngoba bayakwazi ukwamukela njengoba bengaphandle ngaphandle kokuziphazamisa ezinkingeni zabo nasezimweni zabo;
- izingane ezikhuliswe ngugogo zihluke kontanga ezinokuzihlonipha okuphakeme, okubasiza ngokuqinisekile empilweni;
- ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo "abazukulu" bakaMgogo bavame ukuhamba phambili kunontanga yabo.
Kodwa akuzona zonke izinto ezibushelelezi, kunezikhathi ezimbi :
- ngokusho kocwaningo oluthile, izingane ezikhuliswa ngogogo ziwubugovu futhi ngezinye izikhathi zingalawulwa;
- ugogo - abamele isizukulwane esihluke ngokuphelele, ngakho-ke uma benza imfundo yabazukulu abadala, amathuba okungaqondakali ngisho nokuphikisana kuhle;
- Ingozi enkulu kakhulu ekulindeni umndeni lapho abazukulu abakhuliswa khona ugogo kukhona imibono ephikisanayo ekukhuliseni. Uma umntwana ehlala ekhishwa emuva, ebeka phambili engavumelani nomunye nomunye, kudingeka ukuthi ingane ikhule ivalwe futhi ingavuthi kahle.
Yiqiniso, embuzweni wokubamba iqhaza kukagogo ekukhulisweni kwengane, kunezinye izikhathi eziningi, ikakhulukazi, ezixhomeke emndenini nasezimpilweni zabantu. Ngakho-ke, zonke izinqumo eziphathelene nesilinganiso nesilinganiso salokhu kubamba iqhaza kufanele zibhekiswe ngabanye.