Ngeshwa, ezinsukwini zethu kunezinhlangano eziningi ezizama ukukhokha kubantu. Enye yezinhlangano ezinjalo zobugebengu yizinhlelo ezihlukahlukene. Kuze kube manje, kunezinhlangano ezifanayo ezingaphezu kuka-50 ezifanayo. Ukuze bazivikele ngokwabo, umuntu kufanele azi izici eziyisisekelo zamacembu. Lokhu kuzosiza ukuthi ungabi yisisulu sokukhohliswa nemiphumela ebuhlungu kakhulu.
Izici eziyinhloko zehlelo
Zonke izinhlangano ezinjalo zinezici eziningana zezici.
- Okokuqala, ukukhangisa okungokwenkolo okweqile. Amasonto amaningi asekelwe ezinkolelweni ezahlukene. Imibono esemqoka isakazwe yizinhlangano ezinjalo kakhulu. Khumbula, uma abantu bekhuluma ngokweqile ngezinkolelo zabo futhi baqinisekise ukuthi kufanele uzame ukuvakashela okungenani umsebenzi owodwa wenhlangano echaza ngokuqondile lokho kubuka, kufanele uqaphele.
- Okwesibili, ukucwaninga kwengqondo kubonisa uphawu olunjalo lwehlelo njengengcindezi eqinile kulabo bantu abavele baqala ukuya emakilasini noma ezinkonzweni zenkolo. Enye inhlangano, le nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi "ukuqhunyiswa kwamabhomu ngothando." Abantu abaningi bathi okokuqala ngqa bevakashele umcimbi wehlelo, bamangala nje ukuthi abahleli kanye "nabadala" babebalalele futhi banakekela kanjani.
- Okwesithathu, imithetho eyisisekelo yalo mbuthano yukuthi ukugxekwa kwemfundiso nabaholi kumane kungavunyelwe. Lona uphawu oluphawulekayo lwehlelo, ngokusho ukuthi umuntu angaqonda kuphi lapho athola khona.
- Okwesine, izinhlangano ezinjalo zizama ukulawula ngokugcwele izimpilo zabafundi babo. Njengomthetho, abahlanganyeli nabaholi behlelo bayazi yonke imininingwane, ngisho nabathandekayo, mayelana nabalandeli babo. Abahleli baphazamisa kakhulu empilweni yabafundi bese bazama ukuyijika ibe yindlela efanele.
- Futhi, ekugcineni, imibuthano enjalo ihlale isakhiwo esinqunyiwe.
Kuwo, indoda iyithuluzi lokufeza umgomo wenhlangano uqobo. I-novice kumele ihambe ngezinyathelo ezithile ezithi ziholele ekukhanyiseni futhi zisize ukufeza imigomo ethile. Ulawula zonke izinqubo ngaphakathi kwenhlangano "othisha" nabasizi bakhe abasondelene kakhulu.
Lena yizici ezinhlanu eziyinhloko zehlelo. Kungenxa yabo ungakwazi ukunquma ukuthi wena, noma abantu abaseduze nawe, uphonswe kulolugibe. Uma umuntu ebona okungenani okunye okushiwo ngenhla, kufanele uhlole ukuthi ibandla alivakashelayo lihlelo.