Mhlawumbe, kuyo yonke iplanethi akunakwenzeka ukuhlangabezana nanoma ubani ongasoze aphikisana nanoma ubani. Wonke umuntu unokuziphatha kwakhe esimweni sokungqubuzana, kodwa ngazo zonke izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene, lezi zibonelo zilula ukuhlukanisa nokuhlola: ezinye ziphumelela kakhulu futhi ziholela ekubuyisaneni, kanti ezinye zikwazi ukugqugquzela impi yangempela.
Kusukela ekuziphatheni komuntu esimweni sokuphikisana okuxhomeke ekutheni ingxabano ingabhubhisa ubudlelwane noma ngokuphambene nalokho, bayofaka isitifiketi esisha sokuqonda kwabo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuziphatha kwakho okujwayelekile esimweni sokuphikisana futhi ukwazi ukuguqula ibe yinye ngenkathi isimo.
Kukhona ukuhlukaniswa kwezindlela zokuziphatha esimweni sokuphikisana:
- Ukuncintisana (umzamo wokwanelisa izithakazelo zomuntu ngezindleko zomunye). Lesi sinyathelo sokuziphatha kwabantu esimweni sokungqubuzana siholela ekutheni umuntu uthatha okwesikhashana isandla, kodwa hhayi isikhathi eside, futhi le ndlela ayisebenzi ebuhlotsheni besikhathi eside. kuholela ekubhujisweni kobudlelwano.
- Ukuguquguquka (isifiso sokudela izithakazelo zomuntu ukujabulisa omunye). Lokhu kuvunyelwe kuphela uma indaba yenkinga ingabaluleki ngempela kumhlanganyeli empini. Uhlangothi olwenzile ngokumelene nentando yalo luzoqhubeka luhlambalaza, lulahlekelwe inhlonipho ngomhlanganyeli wesibili empini.
- Gwema (zama ukuhlehlisa isinqumo isikhathi esithile). Lezi zindlela zokuziphatha ezimweni eziphikisanayo zisebenza kahle kuphela kulawo maqiniso uma indaba yezingxabano ayibalulekile kakhulu, noma uma kungekho ubuhlobo besikhathi eside neqembu lesibili eliphikisanayo. Ebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside, leli qhinga alisebenzisi, ngoba ukuphoqa ukuqoqa okungalungile futhi kuholele ekuqhumeni kwemizwelo.
- Ukuncintisana (ukwaneliseka okuncane kwezintshisekelo zalabo ababambe iqhaza). Naphezu kwakho konke okukhangayo, ukwehlisa isisombululo esisodwa esiphakathi kokuxazulula izingxabano, okuvumela ukunciphisa
ukushisa kuze kutholakale isisombululo esifanele wonke umuntu. - Ukubambisana (umzamo wokuxazulula impikiswano ukuze bonke bashiye ukunqoba). Lokhu mhlawumbe isimo esihle kunawo wonke, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ekusebenzeni kunzima ukufeza lokhu. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kukhetho kulungile kakhulu ubuhlobo besikhathi eside.
Kunoma yikuphi, ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuziphatha kokuziphatha ezimweni zokuphikisana: ungahambi kubuntu, ungaphakamisi izwi lakho, "ungakhumbuli" okwedlule, ungalaleli uhlangothi. Ukunciphisa ingxoxo iya, kulula ukuthola ikhambi elivamile.