Ukuze kuqondwe, kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngokucacile.
I-Demosthenes
Kunezizathu ezintathu ezibalulekile ukuthi kungani umuntu kufanele afunde ukukhuluma ngendlela efanele.
- Abantu bayakuhlulela ngalokho okukushoyo, futhi uma ungakwenza kahle, ungabathinta kakhulu. Yingakho izikhulumi zakha umkhuba wokubiza wonke amagama ngendlela efanele, nokukhuluma ngokuqapha nesithunzi yisisekelo senqubo yokukhuluma.
- Uma ungakwazi ukukhuluma, izilaleli zakho zingase zingakuqondi kahle. Ngezinye izikhathi amaphutha nokuhluleka ukubeka imicabango yabo ngamazwi kubangela imiphumela ebulalayo.
- Ikhono lokukhuluma ngeke likhulise kuphela inkulumo , kodwa lizokwenza kube lula futhi lihle ukuveza imicabango yakho ngokubhala. Isiko lokukhulumisana kwenkulumo ingumqondo oyinkimbinkimbi; ukuthuthukiswa kwengxenye eyodwa kusho ukuphelela komunye.
Isiko lokukhuluma sisiza amalungu omphakathi agcine inkhulumomphendvulwano kanye nokukhulumisana, ukuxazulula izinkinga ezikhulayo, ukushintshanisana imibono nokucebisa izimpilo zomunye nomunye. Yingakho ukwakhiwa kobuntu obucebile akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokwakhiwa kwesiko lokukhuluma.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa amakhono akho okukhuluma?
Okokuqala, funda izincwadi ngokubhala ngama-rhetoric. Manje manje kakhulu, kuzo zonke izintandokazi kanye nenani lesikhala samahhala. Ngenqubo yokufunda usebenzise amakhono atholakalayo, zama ukuqala ingxoxo ezithakazelisayo ngesihloko esifanayo ezilalelini ezihlukahlukene.
Yeka ukuhlazeka uma ucelwa ukwenza inkulumo; ungayithathi njengecala eliyingqayizivele, kodwa nje nje njengesinye isizathu sokuzijwayeza.
Ungasebenzisa amashidi okukopela, cabanga ngezimo zokukhuluma ezingavamile. Ekugcineni, khuluma nomngane wakho othandekayo ngento engalindelekile, mayelana nokungakhathaleli wena noma impilo yakho, kodwa kuyathakazelisa kokubili. Indlela enhle yokufudumala imizwa futhi ukhumbule izinsuku zokuqala ozoxoxa ngazo ukuze ugcwalise ezinye izinyathelo ezijabulisayo.
Funda kabanzi mayelana nolimi lwakho lwendabuko. Manje izincwadi eziningi ezinhle ngezilimi, ezilotshwe ngesitayela esilula. Ungabamba iqhaza emidlalweni yobuhlakani, ngaphandle kwalokho, lesi yisikhathi esingavamile sokuhlangana nomfundi ohlonishwayo nomngane nendlela yokuzama isandla sakho esimweni esingavamile, futhi mhlawumbe ukwenza abantu abajwayele ukuzijabulisa.
Into esemqoka ukuyiqonda ukuthi isiko lomuntu inkulumo akusiyo imfundo yesikole esithukuthele. Leli thuba lokusebenzisa ngokukhululekile ulimi lwendabuko, ukwandisa ukuzethemba, nokuningi - ithuba lokufunda okuningi kwezilimi zangaphandle. Ngakho, lokhu kungenye "umnyango" wezwe elithakazelisayo nelisha!