Ukuxhumana kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwabantu.
Umuntu uyisimo sezenhlalakahle, ngakho-ke, esimweni sokuphila, abantu baphoqeleka ukuba bahlanganyele. Ukuxhumana kungenziwa emazingeni ahlukene, okunye okungukuthi ukuxhumana. Lena inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi, eningi ehlukene yokusungula nokuthuthukisa oxhumana nabo kanye nokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu (noma izidalwa ezingaphezulu noma ezihlakaniphile). Njengomthetho, ukuxhumana kuhambisana nokusebenzisana okusebenzayo kwabantu. Le nqubo iphelele kakhulu uma abantu bephazamiseka imigomo ejwayelekile kanye nemibono yokufeza kwabo. Imigomo nemibono evamile kuvumela indlela yokwethemba nokuqonda.
Ukuxhumana nokuxhumana
Ukuxhumana kuyindlela ekhethekile yokuxhumana, okungenzeka phakathi kokungenani izidalwa ezimbili ezihlakaniphile (akubona abantu), ngenxa yokuthi kukhona ukushintshaniswa kolwazi oluvezwe ngesimo esisodwa noma olunye. Kunezinhlelo eziningi zokudluliswa kolwazi okuhlukene, okunye okuyiwo ulimi, okungukuthi, inkulumo yomuntu. Kunezinye izinhlelo zokushintshanisa ngolwazi ezongeza ukuxhumana kwenkulumo (izenzo, imibala, iphunga, kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi emasikweni ahlukene incazelo yawo ihlukile). Ngakho-ke, kungashiwo ukuthi ukukhulumisana kuyindlela ekhethekile yokusebenza kwezidalwa eziningana, okuholela ekuboneni oxhumana nabo be-psychic kanye nokuxhumana okuqinisekisa ukushintshaniswa kolwazi ngokuhlanganyela. Ngokuvamile, ukukhulumisana kubonakala ngezibonakaliso ezihlukahlukene ezingokomzwelo, noma kunjalo, imizwelo ayiyona into ebalulekile yokuxhumana.
Ukuxhumana njengendlela yokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu kungenzeka kuphela phakathi kwezidalwa ezizwelayo. Isibonelo, kungaba ngabantu kanye / noma amanye ama-cetaceans. Kuze kube manje, kukholelwa ukuthi ezinye izinhlobo ezikwazi ukuzenza njengezihloko, azikwazi ukubhekwa njengenobuntu ngokugcwele. Lo mbuzo uphikisana futhi awufundiswanga ngokwanele, ikakhulukazi uma kungumbuzo wezimbongolo eziphakeme, kanye nokunye okuhlangene nokufunda, okuqondakalayo emazingeni abo.
Kucatshangwa ukuthi umbuzo wokuthi kungenzeka ukuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu kunomzimba kuxhomeke ekubeni khona kwesimiso sesibili sokusayina.
Isimo sokuxhumana ngaso sonke isikhathi sikhombisa isithakazelo ososayensi: izazi zengqondo zezinhlalo zomphakathi, izazi zezinto eziphilayo kanye namafilosofi. Esifundeni ngasinye, ukukhulumisana kuphathwa ngokuhlukile kumaphuzu okubuka ahlukene.
Izinqubo zokuxhumana ekukhulumisaneni
Impela isimo sokukhulumisana singenzeka ngenxa yokusebenza kwezinto ezibizwa ngokuthi izindlela zenhlalo nezengqondo. Ake sicabangele ezinye zazo.
- Ukutheleleka kwengqondo kuyindlela ekhethekile yokuthonya ukudluliswa kwemizwelo yengqondo nengqondo, iqoqa abantu ngamaqembu (ukudansa, imihlangano, ukwesaba, injabulo yemidlalo, ukujabula kwenkolo). Ukutheleleka akukwazi. Ukuze kuvele ukutheleleka kwengqondo kudinga inductor yokuqala yokuhumusha (okungukuthi, owokuqala). Ngemuva kokuphindaphindiwe okuphindaphindiwe, imvelaphi engokomzwelo ihlangene futhi iqiniswe.
- Ukusikisela kuwumthelela ongenjongo, ongeke uqiniseke (noma ongavumelekile) womuntu oyedwa kwenye (noma abanye). Ukwaziswa okuphoqelelwe kubonakala njengento engabalulekile, engaqondakali. Ukusikisela kugxile ekwakheni isimo sengqondo esikhethekile, kusebenza ukwenza izenzo ezithile. Kuqhutshwa kakhulu ngamazwi (ngokukhuluma), futhi nangokugesticulation. Abantu abaningi abangaphephile baningi kakhulu
isici esibusayo esimweni sengqondo se-situational. Ukuze ukhuthaze ngempumelelo umthombo wolwazi (okungukuthi, ukwethembeka kwawo) nokuntuleka kokumelana nomthelela. - Ukunyusa kuyinkqubo futhi ngasikhathi sinye umphumela womthelela ohlose uhlelo. Isistimu yobufakazi, izimpikiswano ezizwakalayo, ezibhekiswe kubuntu, zihlelwe ngokucophelela.
- Ukulingisa kuyisici esinikeza ukukhiqizwa komuntu ngamaphethini wokuziphatha kwalowo oxhumana naye. Amasiko namaqembu emiphakathini emphakathini avela ngenxa yesimo sokulingisa. Ukulingisa komphakathi kwenza imisebenzi yokuxhumana, yokubuyisela, yokusebenzisana nokuvikela. Ukulingisa kusekelwe endleleni yokuphila yokuphindaphinda.