Ukuhlukunyezwa kwenkulumo kungabonakala njengendlela ekhethekile, ebonakala ngokumangalela, enenzondo, engathandeki futhi ekhukhumezayo. Futhi sonke sihlangana naye ngaso sonke isikhathi emsebenzini, esikoleni, esitolo ngisho nabangani. Namuhla sizokwazi izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhlukunyezwa kwenkulumo ukuze esikhathini esizayo ukwazi kalula ukuthi uyayibona kanjani futhi uzivikele ngesikhathi.
Izinhlobo zokuhlukumeza amazwi
Ngokuvamile kunalokho, umuntu onobudlova ufuna ithuba elihle lokugxeka umphikisi wakhe, u-carp ezincane, futhi ugxile emagcekeni. Futhi, ukuhlukumeza inkulumo kubonakala ngokubukeka okusongelayo, isibonelo, ekusetshenzisweni kokusebenza okusebenzayo, ukushaya etafuleni, njll.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukukhulumisana okunengqondo kubonisa ukuphakanyiswa kwezidingo, ukusatshalaliswa okungafanelekile kwama-oda, ukwanda kwezwi, ukuguquguquka okunzima kumuntu, ukuchichima kwamazwi okukhathazeka enkulumweni nasenhlamba.
Ukuvikelwa kokuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi
Okokuqala, lapho uxazulula inkinga, udinga ukuqala ngokwakho, ngakho-ke ukuze unqobe ukuhlukumeza amazwi, qiniseka ukuthi awuvusi umxhumanisi ekuziphatheni okunjalo. Ukuzithiba nokuzithiba ngokuziphatha kwakho okukhulumayo bangabangani bakho abakhulu kakhulu ezimweni zokuphikisana. Kufanele uhlaziye inkulumo yakho ngokuhambisana nokuhlonipha.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuvikela ukuhlukunyezwa kwenkulumo ukuwukhathalela. Unganiki inani lamazwi angacacile kanye nezinkinga zabantu abangabazi. Kubalulekile ukukhohlwa ngezwi elithi "wangitshela igama, futhi ngamtshela ukuthi" ayishumi "futhi kunoma yikuphi okwenzayo angaphenduli kahle. Uma uxabisa ubudlelwano nomuntu onobudlova futhi ungakulungeli ukuphikisana, zama ukushintsha. Zama ukushintsha isimo sengqondo esinonya, ngokuphazanyiswa kwenkinga, isibonelo, ngosizo lwehlaya, ushintshe isimo sakhe sengqondo esibi. Ungase futhi uzame ukuthulisa ingxoxo ngendlela ehlukile, usebenzise izithakazelo zomphikisi wakho owaziwa kuwe.