Ngenxa yokuthi indlela yokuphila phezu kwamakhulu eminyaka edlule ishintshile kakhulu, abesifazane abaningi bayazama ukufana nabantu. Amagama ahlukumezayo, afaneleka kakhulu kumlingiswa wamadoda, njengendlela yokuveza ukuhlukumeza kwabo. Esebenzisa izinkulumo ezifanayo enkulumweni yakhe, owesifazane uzama ukuthola igunya.
Ungamisa kanjani ukuthuka intombazane?
Enkulumweni enhle namasiko akufanele kube ngamazwi angenakuguqulwa, ngamanye amagama - amathebhu. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi yonke indawo: ehhovisi, ezokuthutha zomphakathi, epaki yedolobha, egcekeni lesikole. Uma le ntombazane inesithakazelo esijulile embuzweni wokuthi ungayeka kanjani ukufunga ukuthuka, okungukuthi, iseluleko esiwusizo. Okokuqala, udinga ukuthola isisusa. Mhlawumbe, le ntombazane inabantwana abancane futhi ngeke ifune ukuthi kuthiwa yizinhlamba. Noma nje ufuna ukuba intombazane efundisiwe futhi efundisiwe.
Izazi zengqondo kuleli cala zincoma ukuthi zisebenze ekutadisheni amagama okubhala, okunye okunye okunye okubhekise ekulimeni okubi.
Ungakuyeka kanjani ukungena?
Kusuka kunoma imuphi umkhuba omubi, kusuka emazwini amanyala udinga ukuqeda kancane kancane. Isinyathelo esibalulekile kulesi simo ukuqaphela ukuthi okuthile kudinga ukuguqulwa empilweni nasekuziphatheni. Qonda ukuthi umlingani uvala nje inkulumo futhi akenzi intombazane ibe mnandi kakhulu. Emicabangweni nasemagama kufanele kube khona okuhle, khona-ke ikusasa lizocaca kunamanje.
Funda ukuthi ukuveza imicabango yakho kunzima kangakanani kubantu abajwayele ukufunga ukuthuka, kepha uma ufuna, konke kulungiswa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulandela ingxoxo yakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungasebenzisa i-gum yezokwelapha, eboshwe esihlakaleni futhi njalo lapho usho igama elihlambalazayo ukulilibazisa. Ubuhlungu obuncane ngokuchofoza i-gum esikhumbeni kuzosiza ekwakheni ukucabangela futhi kusize ukuqeda inkinga yokumisa intombazane ukuthi ingafungi.