Ukuxhumana kuyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke. Nsuku zonke sibheka izinkulungwane zamazwi, siwafaka emisho, futhi singacabangi ngisho namandla abo kanye nencazelo. Nakuba izenzakalo eziningi zihlobene nalokho, kubani nokuthi sikhuluma kanjani. Namuhla sizoqonda indlela yokukhuluma kahle nabantu.
Indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma kahle?
Masithembeke - sonke sizicabangela ukuthi sibafundi abanolwazi nabanolwazi. Futhi sihlale sifuna ukukhombisa izinga lethu lolwazi ngandlela-thile, ikakhulukazi lapho sihlangana kuqala nabantu abaxhumana nabo. Ngakho, iseluleko sokuqala - akufanele ukwenze lokhu. Zama ukuvinjelwa ngangokunokwenzeka engxoxweni, ulalele kabanzi kwabanye, uveze umbono wakho ngendlela eqondile, enamandla. Vumela abantu bakhulume, ngoba ngamunye wethu uthanda ukulalelwa. Okumangalisa ukuthi ikhono lokulalela ukukufundisa ukuthi ukhuluma kanjani ngokufanele nangendlela efanele nge-interlocutors. Ukulalela ama-interlocutors wakho, ungazithola iziphetho ezithile, kokubili ngokukhulumisana kokwakhiwa, nangokwakhe okuthandayo, okuzokutshela ukuthi yiziphi izihloko ongaqala ngazo ingxoxo ezithakazelisayo.
Ukuhlanzeka kwenkulumo
Khumbula ukuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abaxhumanisi bakho baxoxisana kanjani, banamathele enkulumweni ehlanzekile, enemakhono . Khohlwa ukuphendulela komngane nokuhlelwa emgwaqweni, lahla ama-word-parasites bese uzama ukungasebenzisi ubuchwepheshe, okungafihli kwabanye. Okokuqala, khombisa ukuthi inkulumo yamasiko ayiyona into ehlukile kuwe, ukuthi ukukhulumisana usebenzisa ulimi lwezincwadi yilokho okwenzayo nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde indlela yokukhuluma ngendlela efanele futhi kahle. Ngemuva kokungena ngemvume enkampanini yakho, ungakwazi ukuphumula isikhungo sakho solimi futhi usebenzise amagama ambalwa. Uma kungenjalo, ubungozi, okungenani, ungaqondwa kahle futhi ungamukeli.