Ukuzithiba yikhono lokuthatha isinyathelo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isifiso nesimo somzwelo somuntu. Cabanga ukuthi singakwenza kanjani futhi sifinyelele kangakanani ngokusebenzisa imithetho yenhlangano yomuntu siqu nokuzithiba ezindabeni zansuku zonke. Yisho, isibonelo, ufuna ukulahla amakhilogremu ambalwa bese uthi emzimbeni wakho: "Lahla ama-kilogram ayi-5, bese uthola into enzima kakhulu." Ingabe lokhu kungenzeka ngaphandle kokuzijezisa? Akunjalo!
Ukuzithiba kungenye yamathuluzi elula futhi afinyeleleka kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni komuntu siqu. Kungakunika amandla futhi usize ukunqoba ukuncika kwanoma yiliphi uhlamvu, ukubhubhisa imikhuba emibi , kuhlanganise nenkinga ekhona kuwo wonke umuntu - umkhuba wokuhweba ibhizinisi kusasa. Ekuxazululeni izinkinga, ukuzithiba akukho okulinganayo.
Indlela yokuhlakulela ukuzithiba?
Ukuthuthukisa ukuzithiba, lemithetho elandelayo kumele ilandelwe:
1. Funda ukwenza okuthile kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini. Lo mthetho uhlanganisa izici ezilandelayo eziyinhloko:
- Phila namhlanje. Esikhathini esidlule nekusasa asikwazi ukulawula, kepha singashintsha okwamanje, ngakho-ke sisebenzise;
- kufaka imibono. Ungesabi, eyodwa, ngisho noma ingagcwaliseki ngokuphelele, umqondo uhlale ungcono kunamakhulu wemibono enengqondo;
- yenza okuningi, kodwa khuluma kancane. Ungatsheli muntu ngezinhlelo zakho. Xoxa kuphela ngalokho okwenzile kakade;
- yenza, ungavumeli ukwesaba kuphumelele. Njengoba bethi: Amehlo ayesaba, kodwa izandla zabo zenza. Futhi lokhu kulungile, isenzo ngumuthi omuhle kakhulu ekulwa nokumesaba nokungaqiniseki;
- Ungavumi kuze kube kusasa lokho ongakwenza namhlanje. Khumbula, udinga ukwenza lapha futhi manje, hhayi "kamuva, ngolunye usuku"!
2. Vala imizwa lapho kudingeka. Ekuphileni kwethu kunezinombolo eziningi zezimo ezizimele. Isibonelo: sifinyelele engxenyeni yezimoto, saqala ukuwa, sasilahlekelwa isitimela, zonke lezi zimo azithembeki kithi, ngakho kwenzeka futhi ngosizo kwemizwelo awukwazi ukushintsha noma yini, ngakho unqamule. Kungani ulahlekelwa impilo yakho nemisipha yakho uma unamandla? Futhi uma ungashintsha izimo, futhi futhi, kungani uchitha imizwelo? Thatha futhi wenze!
3. Hlola isikhathi sakho, siholele ngesikhathi. Lokhu cishe kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokugxila . Yini eyosiza lo msebenzi othakazelisayo? Okungenani ukuthi ufunda ukukhumbula ngekhanda, lokho okuchitha isikhathi sakho esibalulekile, kunquma ukuthi udinge isikhathi esingakanani emndenini, emsebenzini, ngokuzilibazisa, ulawule kalula "abadli bezinsuku" abangadingekile futhi uthathe isikhathi esithile ukuze ugcine ibhizinisi lakho ozithandayo.
Ukuzibophezela ngokwezezimali kuyindlela eqondile futhi eqondile yokuziphatha ezindabeni eziphathelene nemali. Lithinta zonke izici zokuphila kwethu, ngoba lokho esikuchitha yonke imali esiyitholayo kuncike kuphela ekutheni isimo sethu sengqondo singaphakathi, izimiso kanye nokuzibophezela.
Kungani sidinga ukuzimela ngokwezimali?
- Ukuze ulawule konke ukugeleza kwezimali bese uqinisekisa ukuthi isimo sezimali esizinzile sabo kanye nabathandekayo babo.
- Ukuze uqoqe kalula imali, ungazishiyi lutho. Nakhu kubalulekile ukukhumbula: Abacebile ababa yibo abahola okuningi, kodwa labo abachitha imali ngokuhlakanipha!
- Ukuze uphile lo mpilo ngokukhanyayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhona
ukuthi uhola kangakanani, lapho uhlala khona nokuthi ubani osebenzelayo.
Yiqiniso, ukuzibophezela emkhakheni wokuzithiba, ukuthatha yonke injabulo yokuphila, akuyona inketho. Ngeke ukwazi ukubambelela isikhathi eside kule ndawo. Kungcono ukuguqula ukuzithiba ekunakekeleni owathandekayo. Indlela yokufunda ukuzijezisa? Qala ngezinto ezilula: ulale embhedeni, ususe isikhathi esithile kusuka emsebenzini onzima noma ohlala phansi, yenza umzimba futhi uhambe nsuku zonke emoyeni omusha. Ngokuvamile, hlela isikhathi sakho sokungcebeleka, bese uqala ukusebenza.