"Ngizothatha olunye ucezu, lokhu ngeke kushintshe noma yini." "Kusukela kokuqiniswa okukodwa, akukho lutho oluyokwenzeka kimi." "Enye ingilazi nakho konke." Ubani ongazi imishwana enjalo? Phela, kuwukuthi imikhuba emibi iqala ukuhlala. Kancane kancane futhi kungenakuqonda, sitholwa empilweni yethu futhi emva kweminyaka embalwa sithola ezinhliziyweni zethu ukuthi sisezinhlakeni eziqinile zesimiso esibi nesiyingozi, esingasakwazi ukusiqeda. Imikhuba yethu ithi ini futhi kukhona indlela yokuziqeda? Namuhla kunezimpendulo eziningi zemibuzo enjalo.
Imikhuba emibi futhi ewusizo
Uma ukholelwa ukuthi izazi zengqondo, ukuthola amakhono amabi kulula kakhulu kunokuhle. Uma lokhu kuvela emzimbeni wethu ngomsebenzi futhi kusebenza kithi, izimbangela zemikhuba emibi yizinto ezimbi nezilingo zethu. Utshwala nokubhema siphumule futhi sisize ukukhohlwa, izintaba zezidumbu ezizungezile kanye nokuhlukanisa zibangelwa ubuvila nokungafuni ukwenza noma yini, ngisho nezinkinga zomsebenzi zingabizwa ngokuthi umphumela wokucabanga ngendlela engafanele. Ngamanye amazwi, umthelela wemikhuba emibi empilweni yethu inkulu kakhulu. Abagcini nje ukuthi basenze sihluke, kepha bangathinta kakhulu isizukulwane sethu esizayo. Isibonelo, cabangela imikhuba eyingozi futhi engavamile yamantombazane nabesifazane:
- Uthando ukuya ezitolo. Izazi zengqondo ziphikisa ukuthi owesifazane othanda kakhulu ukuyothenga, uzimisele ngokwengeziwe ekuziphenduleleni.
- Izinwele eziqhubekayo zithukulula futhi zikhanda. Ngokuvamile abesifazane abanjalo abanandaba nabantu, kodwa banothando olukhulu kakhulu ngocansi.
- Ukulala kaningi nge-makeup hhayi ukuhlanza kusho ukuthi laba besifazane abancane bazolala embhedeni futhi bathandeka kubalingani babo.
- Abathandi baphendukela phambi kwesibuko babonakala njengabantu abaphuphayo abavame ukukhohlwa ngensimbi efakiwe, kanye nangomuntu wabo, impilo, umndeni kanye nobudlova.
- Izambatho zangaphansi ezithengisiwe zikhuluma ngesimo esithandekayo somnikazi wayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, laba bantu banombono ocebile kakhulu.
Imikhuba emibi nemiphumela yawo ngezinye izikhathi ingabi yingozi njengoba kubonakala ekuqaleni. Isibonelo, ukubhema, ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa nokusetshenziswa kotshwala, kungathinta kakhulu inzalo. Futhi akukhathaleki ukuthi ubani onomkhuba ofanayo - indoda noma owesifazane. Ingozi yokuzalwa kwengane enezinto ezingavamile iphezulu kakhulu. Futhi lokhu kuyincenye nje encane yobufakazi bokuthi inhlanganisela enjengempilo nemikhuba emibi akufanele ibe khona.
Ukulwa nemikhuba emibi
Ukuvimbela imikhuba emibi, namuhla, ngeshwa, cishe akukwenziwa. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, khona-ke ngesimo sama-posters angenangqondo, izimpawu kanye nokukhathazeka. Umphumela walezo zenzakalo uphansi kakhulu. Nasi sekuyisikhathi sokukhumbula inkulumo ngokulondoloza abantu abagcwala amanzi, ezandleni zabo ukusindiswa kwabo. Ukuqedwa kwemikhuba emibi kufanele kuqale ngokuqaphela kwabo. Inkinga kubantu abaningi ukuthi aboni umonakalo ezenzweni zabo. Bashaya izipikili zabo, bathathe izinyosi zabo, balinganise ngesisindo ngezinyawo zabo, baqhekeze iminwe yabo, njll. Kodwa ngenhlanhla kunezindlela eziningana eziphumelelayo zokuxazulula inkinga yokunqoba imikhuba emibi. Into esemqoka ukuthatha lokhu okubaluleke kakhulu:
- Kubalulekile ukuphazanyisa, ukuphumula kancane futhi ukhumbule ukuthi yiziphi izenzo phakathi nosuku ezenziwa ngokuzenzakalelayo futhi ngaphandle kokulawula. Futhi ziphindaphindiwe nsuku zonke. Ngemva kwesikhashana uzokwazi ukukhumbula ezimbalwa zazo. Lezi yizimiso ezidinga ukuthathwa ngaphansi kokulawula.
- Umbuzo wokuthi ungayeka kanjani imikhuba emibi incike ekuthandweni nasekulingeni komuntu. Omunye udinga izinsuku ezimbalwa, kanti abanye ngeke bahlale isigamu sonyaka. Indlela engcono kakhulu - usuku nosuku lwamaviki amathathu ukubuyisela umkhuba omubi luwusizo. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokubhema, udinga ukuphuza ingilazi yamanzi futhi wenze ukuphefumula okungama-5.
- Uma kunomuzwa wokungahambi kahle ngokungabikho komkhuba omubi,
udinga ukuthola amandla futhi ungayinaki. Kungcono ukufunda ukuthi ujabulele lokhu okungahambi kahle - ngoba uthi umkhuba uhamba. - Awukho futhi ngaphansi kwezinguquko ozimele uzenze. Abantu abaningi kakhulu baphula ngalesi sigaba. "Namuhla kwaba usuku olunzima, ugwayi owodwa ngeke ube yinto," njalo njalo.
Umthetho oyinhloko lapho ukuvimbela imikhuba emibi kuyokwenza khona ukuhambisana nombuso ezinsukwini ezingu-21 noma emavikini amathathu. Uma okungenani usuku olulodwa luphinde lugcwaliswe umkhuba omdala - ukubala konke kufanele kuqalwe futhi. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umzabalazo usuqalile kanjani, kuyafaneleka. Ukuphila ngaphandle kwemikhuba emibi kuyithakazelisa kakhulu futhi kungcono kunezinye izikhathi kubonakala.