Sonke sihlukile, kodwa ukucabanga kwengqondo kusho ukuthi ubuntu buhlukaniswe ngohlobo lwezinhlobo ezimbili ngokwendlela yobuntu: i-extroverts ne-introverts. Uhlobo lokuqala luhlanganisa abantu abavulekile ekukhulumisaneni, abanamandla, abanobungane, abakhuthele futhi abakulungele ukuhlanganyela ekuxazululeni izinkinga zokuphila komphakathi. Ngokuqondene nohlobo lwesibili - ukungenisa, konke okulapha kunzima kakhulu.
Ubani umuntu othungayo?
Isikhundla sokuphila kwabantu balolu hlobo luhluke kakhulu ekukhulumeni nasekuphumeni okuphumayo. Zivaliwe kakhulu, ngakho-ke zithandwa kakhulu ekufakeni ukungena. Izinkampani ezinkulu ezinomsindo azibakhanga, azijabuli ngokungenakuphika, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi abaxhasi futhi bahlaziye. Ngokwengqondo, kunezibonakaliso ze-introvert, ngokusho ukuthi ingahlukaniswa nobuntu obuhlukile. Zibonakaliswa yi:
- ukuthambekela ukucabanga, hhayi isenzo;
- umuzwa wokungahambi kahle nesixuku esikhulu sabantu;
- ingcebo yezwe langaphakathi kanye nesifiso sokuyiveza kuphela "abakhethiweyo";
- isifiso sokukhuluma kuphela ngezihloko ezithandekayo kubo;
- ngezinga elikhulu, ikhono nesifiso sokulalela, hhayi ukukhuluma;
- ukungathandi ukuqala ukuxhumana;
- ukukhetha ukuba yedwa futhi usebenze ngokuzimela, hhayi eqenjini.
Izinhlobo zezethulo
Ukubunzima kwama-introverts kuqinisekiswa yizici zabo ezihlukile ngisho nasemphakathini wabo. Izazi zengqondo zihlukanisa zibe amaqembu amabili amakhulu: inzwa futhi inembile. Ukubona okubonakalayo kubonisa izidingo eziphakeme zokucaca nokuchithwa hhayi emsebenzini kuphela, kodwa futhi ebuhlotsheni. Bayibophezele futhi bafeze umsebenzi, uma benemiyalelo ecacile.
Enembile - ngokuphambene nalokho, abafuni ukuqonda izinto ezincane, bakholelwa ukuthi kuyamangalisa futhi akuthandi. Bangacabanga kakhulu, baphuphe, kodwa benze lutho ukuze baqaphe amaphupho abo. Bangenza izinto eziningana ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngaphandle kokuqedela into eyodwa. Uma kuthinta ukhetho lomsebenzi, bangakwazi ukuthatha isikhathi esisodwa ngomunye, bese omunye, bekhetha okufanelekile.
Futhi, ukuhlukaniswa kwalolu hlobo lwabantu kubandakanya izinhlobo zezethulo, izincazelo zazo enikeza isithombe esiphelele kuzo. Isazi sezokwelapha esaziwayo kanye nesazi sezifo zengqondo uCarl Young senza izinhlobo eziyisishiyagalombili ezinjalo, kepha namuhla isigaba esijwayelekile esetshenziswayo. Ihlanganisa abantu abanezici ezifanayo zezici zobuntu, ezihlukaniswe zibe ezine eziyinhloko:
- enembile-enengqondo;
- inzwa enengqondo;
- enembile;
- thinta.
I-introvert enembile-enengqondo
Abantu abanjalo bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi abantu abahlukumezayo. Isibikezelo sabo esidabukisayo, njengomthetho, ngesizathu esithile sibe nempahla egcwaliseka. Lona ngumuntu ozwakalayo wokuziphendulela: uhlukaniswa yizici zezenzo, ukugcina isikhathi, ukuzethemba. Izinhlelo zakhe zicacile, kodwa uyazibona ngaphandle kokushesha, njengokungathi ziqinisekisa zonke izinyathelo. I-introvert enembile ayiyena umholi, kodwa ungumlandeli onomthwalo wemfanelo.
Uvame ukungathandwa eqenjini ngokuzikhethela ngokweqile nokufuna. Kodwa-ke, uyakwazi ukubala ngokunembile izinzuzo zesimo esithile futhi njalo angathola indlela efanele yokuphuma esimweni esinzima. Ngaphandle kubonakala sengathi kubanda futhi kuvaliwe. Ukusho ukuncoma, ukunciphisa, ukudumisa umuntu - hhayi emithethweni yakhe. Uthanda ukufunda nokuzindla.
I-sensical-sensory introvert
Lolu hlobo lwe-introverte luyabhekana nokuhlasela kwezwe lakhe, aluqapheli ukuzenzisa, ukuphikisana ezingxoxweni nasebudlelwaneni. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uyasabela futhi ulungele njalo ukusiza; lokhu kungomunye wama-comrades athembekile kakhulu. Akathandi izinkampani ezinomsindo, kodwa akakwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi i-recluse futhi ayihlanganisi. Ujabulela ingxoxo yokuzilibazisa, ukuxhumana nabantu abamnandi kuye.
I-Logic-Sensor ingenise ulwazi olunembile inekhono lokuzivumelanisa neqiniso, imithetho, izidingo kanye nemigodi yezemvelo ezizungezile - kumvumela ukuba aphile emhlabeni wakhe, hhayi "ukuphuma" komphakathi okufanele abe khona. Ubuthakathaka kakhulu futhi obuthakathaka, kodwa uyakwazi ukufihla kwabanye. Ukuqonda nokuqonda kwayo kubonakala ezimweni ezihlukahlukene:
- ihluke kakhulu - imali ayichithi;
- Unokuqonda okungavamile - abaduni nabaduni abakwazi ukuwugcina;
- Kuphela lokho okuphathisiwe kuzokwenza;
- Kuvame ukuguquka kwemizwelo: kusuka kubanda kanye namasosha ekukhuliseni okukhulayo, okuvela ezimweni ezibucayi.
Introvert enokwethenjelwa-enembile
Abantu balolu hlobo babhekwa ukuzithemba ngokweqile. Bakholelwa ukuthi abantu bahloniphekile futhi banokwethenjelwa, bayizikhulu futhi balungele ukuthethelela noma ubani oye wavuma amaphutha akhe futhi waphenduka. Baqaphela ngokunembile umlingisi nomzwelo wabangamazi, kodwa abazi okuningi ngalabo abasondelene nabo, bakholelwa ukuthi bangazungezwa kuphela ngabantu abahloniphekile, abahlelekile.
I-introductive ye-introductive enembile enokwethenjelwa inganika iseluleko esihle, esithinta ubudlelwane obuhlukile, eqondakala kalula ezimweni zokuphila ezinzima. Unesifiso sokwenza okusha nokungajwayelekile; ukuzifunda, isifiso sokwazi - isimo sakhe esivamile, futhi njalo ukucwiliswa ekutadisheni izinkolelo zefilosofi kanye nama-postulates enkolo.
Kuboniswa ukuvimbela okukhulu kanye nekhono lokugxila ezimweni ezinzima, ukucindezela injabulo nokwesaba okungase kuvele ngemuva kokuba inkinga isombululwe. Ikhathalela kakhulu abantu abanezimfanelo zobuholi ezigqugquzelayo futhi bamqhube esenzweni, ngenkathi engavumi ukubekezela nokuphoqelela. Ezimweni ezinjalo kungase kuthukuthele futhi kuphuthume.
I-ethical-sensory introvert
Uhlobo lwesine wobuntu luyi-introvert-ethical introverti, owazi kahle abantu futhi uyaqonda ukuthi "ngubani ophefumulayo." Awukwazi ukukucela, wenze i-aphoyintimenti nabangani: unquma ukuthi ngubani "ongowaso" futhi "ongaziwa". Ngabantu uyaqaphela futhi akavuli umphefumulo wakhe kumuntu wokuqala, kodwa nalabo ababa abangane bakhe, uzobe ethembekile, enakekelayo futhi enakekele. Kunzima ukuxhumana naye: kunzima ukumkholisa, unikeza ukwehlisa okwanele.
Ungumuntu onokuqonda okwazi ukuhlaziya isimo futhi enze isinqumo esilinganiselwe esivumelana ngokugcwele nesimo sezindaba zangempela. Ungakwamukela izidingo nemibandela yomphakathi lapho ekhona, efuna ukuqeda izinkinga ezingadingekile. Ayithandi izinkampani ezinkulu ezinomsindo, izenzakalo ezinkulu. Uyakujabulela ukuhlangana okungavamile, okungaxolisi, kodwa kucasula oxhumana nabo njalo nabantu abathandekayo.
Ngokungafani nezinye izinhlobo, u-introvert wezinzwa-ukuziphatha akuthandi ukugeleza okusheshayo kwezenzakalo, izinqumo ezinde. Isimo sokukhathazeka ngaye siyisici, ngesikhathi esifanayo ukhumbula ukwehluleka kwakhe, ukwehluleka kanye namaphutha futhi udonsela izifundo ezivela kubo. Akwenzeki ukumthatha ngokumangalisa: uhlale ekulungele noma yikuphi ukuphenduka kwezenzakalo. Kodwa-ke, uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubuhlungu ukubona amaphutha ayo kanye nokuhluleka.
Izinzuzo zama-Introverts
Naphezu kwezinkinga ezibonakalayo, izethulo zinezici eziningana ezibalulekile ezibenza zibaluleke kakhulu enkonzweni. Into esemqoka yikhono lokufeza ibhizinisi kuze kube sekupheleni, ngokulandela imiyalelo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umsebenzi wenziwa ngendlela ephakeme futhi efike ngesikhathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi ulahle ezinye izinzuzo ze-introvert:
- hlukana nokuhlushwa, isimo sengqondo sokucabangela umsebenzi owenziwe, ikhono lokucabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi;
- ube nomcabango othuthukile kahle, ukucabanga okudala ;
- babe nezwe elicebile ngaphakathi, ikhono lokungena;
- ukubaluleka okubaluleke kakhulu ezintweni ezincane okungenzeka zibalulekile;
- labo ababa umngane wabo bangathembela kuzo zonke izinto;
- bayakwazi ukulalela nokuzwa i-interlocutor;
- angagxila ekusetshenzisweni kwesimo esithile, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka abanye.
Ukungalungi kwezethulo
Zonke izinzuzo okukhulunywe ngenhla zenza abantu abanjalo bangabi nakancane ekusebenzeni umsebenzi odinga ukunakekelwa kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo. Kodwa-ke, nabo banamaphutha, okuvimbela ukuxhumana nabo kuphela, kodwa ngokuvamile - futhi ngokwabo:
- ukubunzima kokusebenza eqenjini elikhulu;
- ukungathandi ukuyekethisa;
- ukucwiliswa okukhulu ezweni lomuntu wangaphakathi: okuhlangenwe nakho, ukungabaza, ukungabaza, ukwanda kokukhathazeka kanye nezinye izimfanelo zesethulo, okwenza kube nzima ukuxhumana.
Ungaba kanjani u-introvert?
Kuvame ukubuzwa ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba ube yi-introvert. Izazi zengqondo zithi akunakwenzeka ukushintsha ukuziphatha komuntu, kepha ukuhlola ukuthi ingabe ushintsho lomlingiswa lungenzeka ukufaka isethulo akunzima. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele uzame futhi uzihlole, udale izimo eziseduze nalabo okutholakala khona izethulo, isibonelo:
- ukusebenza ngedwa;
- hlala ngolunye usuku ngoLwesihlanu;
- khuluma kancane futhi ulalele okuningi;
- hlaziya izenzo zabo futhi bahlele noma yiliphi ibhizinisi;
- musa ukuya emicimbini yemisindo futhi ushiye izinkampani ezinomsindo.
Indlela yokuxhumana ne-introvert?
Uma usungula ubuhlobo obuhle ne-introvert, ungathola umngane onokwethenjelwa nomsebenzi onesibopho othembekile, kodwa kufanele ucabangele ama-nuances okuxhumana naye:
- akakwazi ukugijimela ukwenza izinqumo;
- kubalulekile ukuhlinzeka uhlelo olucacile lwesenzo, ukuchaza imigomo nezinhloso zomsebenzi;
- Ungafaki izinqumo zakho futhi ungafuni ukuhlangana njalo;
- ungakhohlwa ukuthi lo muntu usengozini kakhulu futhi uphuthele.
Kungani kunzima ukuxhumana nama-introverts?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo ikhona eziqakathekile zokubona umhlaba ngalaba bantu. Uma kufanele axoxe ne-extrovert, kuyoba nzima nakakhulu. Isizathu esiyinhloko sobunzima bokuxhumana naye sixhunywe neqiniso lokuthi isimo se-introvert sishintshelwe ekukhulumisaneni okukhethiwe kanye nezwe lomuntu wangaphakathi . Uphuza futhi unxusa, ukuzijabulisa kancane nokuzikhandla.
Ubani ongasebenzela i-introvertu?
Njengoba kunikezwe ubunzima bomlingiswa, kunomsebenzi abantu abanjalo abazobaluleka ngempela. Izisebenzi ezifanele kakhulu izethulo: i-accountant, umsizi we-laboratory, umklami, umlobi, umhumushi, udokotela wezilwane, umqambi wezinhlelo kanye nomphathi. Kulokhu, umholi-owethulwa iningi ubhekwa njengendlela ephumelela kakhulu, ekwazi ukuhlela umsebenzi ocacile wethimba.