Wake wake wazizwa ukuthi impilo yakho yonke ingaphansi kwesimo esithile sasendle esabhalwa ngenyanga? Uma kunjalo, ke umbuzo wokuthi ungaqala kanjani ukuphila ngokugcwele, impilo yakho empeleni, awuzibuze kanye. Ngezinye izikhathi impendulo iyodwa, kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuthola isisombululo, impilo iyaqhubeka, futhi siqhubeka nokwenza uhlelo oluthuntekile lwe "ikhaya lekhaya", okwenza izenzo zalo zizenzeke ngokuzenzekelayo. Isimo, akuyona into emnandi, kodwa konke kungashintshwa, kodwa sizocubungula izindlela eziningana manje.
Ungaqala kanjani ukuphila ngokugcwele?
Kwenzeka ukuthi abantu banikezela impilo yabo kubhizinisi noma umuntu (isibonelo, abafazi abanamakhono abahlakaniphileyo nabososayensi), kodwa kunzima ukuthi noma ubani wabo abe nomuzwa wokungafani kweqiniso nezidingo zabo. Futhi konke ngenxa yokuzikhethela kwabo, bayazimela ngokuzimela futhi abazisoli. Kodwa azikho izibalo eziningi zobuqhawe, iningi lazo liphila ngaphandle kokwanelisa izifiso zabo ngoba abazi ukuthi bangaqala kanjani ukuphila. Cabanga ukuthi baye bakhetha yini isiphetho sabo noma bahambisane nezidingo zabanye abantu: abazali, abangane, umphakathi. Noma ngubani owayengumqeqeshi wakho, akakwazi ukukuqondisa endleleni efanele, omunye umuntu akakwazi nje ukuthi yini oyidingayo. Uma izifiso zakho zingavumelani neqiniso, zibuze umbuzo othi "Kungani ngenza lokhu"? Sizenza sizijabule thina ngokwethu, okusho ukuthi indlela yokwaneliseka isezandleni zethu: shintsha umkhakha womsebenzi, uye kwenye idolobha, funa omunye umyeni. Ungesabi ushintsho, ngaphandle kwabo, iqiniso elicindezelekile lizokhipha wonke amandla, kungakuvumeli ukuba uzizwe ukunambitheka kokuphila.
Kodwa izinqumo ezinjalo zekhadikhadi azidingeki ngaso sonke isikhathi, kuvamise kudingekile ukuthi uqonde ukuthi ungaqala kanjani ukuphila ngendlela entsha, futhi yini okudingeka yengezwe ohlelweni lwakho lwezinsuku zonke. Kwenzekani, konke kubonakala kuhle kokubili emsebenzini nasemakhaya, kodwa umuzwa wokuthi ingxenye ethile yokuphila idlulayo ayishiyi. Kulesi simo, ngokuvamile ukuzilibazisa okwanele kunokwanele, okuzofaka imibala emisha ezinkathazweni zansuku zonke. Kodwa ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungaqala kanjani ukuphila ngokuthakazelisayo, ngendlela entsha, ungakwazi wena kuphela, othile ubonakala sengathi uyintandokazi ekhetha amapuzzli, futhi omunye umuntu uzizwa ephila ngempela, kuphela eqa ngeparachute. Ukuze uzijabulise ukuletha izinzuzo zangempela, cabanga ngalokho okushiwo empilweni yakho.
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