Nsuku zonke sibhekana nezinhlobo ezahlukene zabantu, abalingiswa abahlukene nezinkomba. Mhlawumbe kudingeke ukuba ubhekane nabantu abathukuthele kakhulu. I-incontinence iyisici esiyinhloko salowo muntu. Futhi akukho phuzu lokubahlupha ngenxa yalokhu. Abantu abanjalo bangaba nesihawu kuphela. Emva kwayo yonke isimiso sabo sezinzwa ezibuthakathaka sikwazi ukuvusa kubo ukuthuthukiswa kwesifo se-asthma, izifo zenhliziyo nokunye.
Ukungazinzi ngokomzwelo
Ngakho, ukungazenzisi ngokomzwelo kungakanani, hhayi isifo, kodwa isifo somuntu. Kubonakala ngokungathandeki ekuthatheni izinqumo, ukuphazamiseka kwemizwelo emibi, inkinga yokulawula izenzo zakho siqu, ukucasula ngokweqile.
Uma ubheka ohlangothini olunobuntu obungazinzile ngokomzwelo, umuntu uthola umbono wokuthi akakwazi ukuzilawula. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi izimpawu ezingenhla kulaba bantu zihlala njalo futhi azixhomeki ezimweni, izinto ezicindezelayo, njll.
Abantu abanokukhubazeka ngokomzwelo abakwazi ukulawula ukucasula kwabo ngalokho okwenzekayo nxazonke. Bazama ukuthola izizathu zokukhipha imizwelo yabo. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi abantu abanjalo abanesineke emibonweni yabanye futhi ababekezeleli ukugxekwa nokuphikisana.
Ukungathinteki ngokomzwelo kubonakala ngezimbangela ezihlukahlukene zenzeka. Lokhu kungaba ngenxa yomphumela wokuhlukunyezwa kwekhanda, izifo ezihlukahlukene (multiple sclerosis), noma ukucindezeleka komzwelo, ukuphazamiseka okubuhlungu, njll.
Ukuhlukaniswa
Ukungazibambi kuhlukaniswe ube ngumngcele futhi ungenasici.
- Ukungazenzisi ngokomzwelo okungokwemingcele kubonakala ukukhungatheka okukhulu, ukucabanga okucacile. Abantu abanjalo balolu hlobo basondelene kakhulu nenhliziyo yabo ukubona ukuhluleka noma izithiyo ezenzeka ekuphileni kwabo. Bavame ukuphangazela noma yiziphi izimo ezenzekile, futhi ngokuvamile lokhu kuholela ekucindezelekeni. Ukungazitholi okunjalo kuthola ukubonakaliswa kwasekuqaleni. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izifiso zengane zithatha phezu kwemithetho evunyelwe ngokuvamile, imithetho. Abantu abanjalo babhekene nokungazitholi, ukuguquka njalo kwemizwelo, okuyiyona imbangela yokungabi nalutho. Abantu abanokungaziphathi ngokomzwelo kwemingcele kubhekene nokwehluleka ukuziveza, ukubonakaliswa kobuthakathaka bomuntu siqu ekuxazululeni izinkinga zokuphila. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungaba imbangela yemikhuba emibi, icala, ukubonakala kokucindezeleka. I-incontinence, i-swagger ekuziphatheni isici sezinye zalezi zinhlobo zabantu. Izici eziyinhloko zokubonakaliswa kokungalingani ekuziphatheni kwabantu abanjalo: umhawu, okungafaneleki, ukungqubuzana nokuzibulala akukhipha.
- Ukungazenzisi ngokomzwelo ngokomzimba kubonakala ngokunyuka okukhulu kwesimiso sezinzwa. Abantu balolu hlobo baphendukela ezinkingeni ezincane, ezicasulayo njengokungathi ziqondiswa kubo. Izingane ezinokungabikho komzwelo okungenangqondo zibonisa ukufutheka, ukuhlukumezeka, ukuqonda, nokuzizwa. Uma umuntu onjalo engazange akwazi ukuba umholi, ukuthatha isikhundla esiphambili, uvalelwe ngaphakathi kwakhe, ukuvimbela ukuhlukunyezwa kwakhe ngokumelene nezwe elikuzungezile.
Izibonakaliso eziyinhloko zalolu hlobo ziyi: umdlalo wezimzwelo ezimbi "emphakathini", ukuvutha kwentukuthelo nokufutheka.
Ukuziphatha kwalabo bantu kubangcolisa kwabanye, futhi kulokhu, kubantu abanomqondo ongathandeki ngokomzwelo, umuntu okhwabanisa kakhulu owakwazi ukungakha ubudlelwane obuseduze nezwe elikuzungezile.
Ngakho-ke, ngezinye izikhathi umuntu ngamunye akakwazi ukubhekana nemizwelo eyamcindezela. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngaphezu kwemizwelo yakho, isimiso sezinzwa okufanele usebenze, ukuze ungathinti isimo sakho somzwelo.