Amandla amaningi angaphakathi asetshenziselwa izindaba eziningi zansuku zonke kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukahlukene. Futhi kaningi, ngokubhujiswa kwamandla okugcina amandla, ukungazweli kuqala, futhi umuntu akanakuqonda ukuthi kungani embi kakhulu emphefumulweni wakhe. Ngezibonakaliso zokuqala zaleso simo kudingeka uzame ukuzisiza, ngaphandle kwalokho kungase kube nokucindezeleka okude okuzokhubaza isikhathi eside.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma umphefumulo ubi kakhulu?
Uma kubi kakhulu emphefumulweni, umuntu uzizwa ecindezelwe, engajabuli, ebuthakathaka, engenamsebenzi. Ukuze uthole amandla okukhipha lesi simo, udinga ukuzithukuthelela, intukuthelo izothatha isinyathelo ngokumelene nobuthakathaka bakho kanye nokusebenza kahle. Uma isifiso sokuthatha isenzo sesivele sivele, futhi asikho isidingo sokuyihlanganisa, udinga ukulayisha umzimba wakho ngokwenyama - hamba ukugijima, ukudansa, uhlele ukuhlanza kwentwasahlobo, njll.
Isimo esimpofu somphefumulo cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi siholela ekuqubukeni kwemizwelo, futhi ukugcinwa kokuhlangenwe nakho okubi kuyingozi kakhulu. Ukuze uphumele ngaphandle, ungakhamuluka ngokuzwakalayo (mhlawumbe endaweni efihliwe emvelo), shaya umcamelo noma ikhasi elibusayo. Ukuzilibazisa okunjalo kusiza ngendlela entsha yokubheka izinkinga futhi uthole indlela yokuphuma yokuphila.
Isifiso sokuba yedwa esimweni esibi somphefumulo siyisifiso esingokwemvelo, esingasifaniswa nesifiso se-tortle ukuze sifihle kugobolondo laso. Noma kunjalo, ukuhoxiswa okunjalo akuholeli esixazululweni sezinkinga, kodwa kuyabangela. Ukuthuthukisa isimo somuntu siqu, udinga ukuxhumana nabangani, hamba ukuhamba, uhambo.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - uma kubi kakhulu enhliziyweni, awukwazi ukucabanga ukuthi lokhu kungunaphakade. Inkathi enzima ngeke ihlale kuze kube phakade, ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuyofika ngcono. Kusukela ezinkingeni okudingeka ufunde isifundo, zihlole ngokwakho ngokweqile, futhi izinkinga ezilandelayo zizobhekana nokulula okuningi.