Wonke umuntu one-psyche evamile angakwazi ukufunda imizwa yabanye ngokungazi futhi athole umqondo wokuthi umuntu ulungile noma cha, omuhle noma omubi. Abanye abantu bayabonakala njengengaphakathi, abanye bathi "cha," kuyilapho abanye benza umbono onamandla. Lokhu kuyisimangaliso, kuyini - kulesi sihloko konke mayelana nezimfanelo zomuntu onjalo.
Kuyini ukushisa kumuntu?
Kunzima ukuchaza leli gama. Ukushiwo ngabaholi abanezimfanelo ezinjalo kuTestamende Elidala neNtsha. Kukhona umuntu onobuhle owaziwayo unguNkulunkulu onomusa, umusa okhethekile. Ezingqungqutheleni zamaGreki zakudala leli gama lisetshenziselwa maqondana nabantu abakwazi ukuheha abantu. Futhi amaHarithas ayebizwa ngokuthi onkulunkulukazi bomusa, umusa nobuhle. Ezweni lanamuhla, ukucabangela kungabizwa ngokuthi umuntu othakazelisayo, onokwethenjelwa onikezwe izimfanelo zomxhumanisi.
Labo abanamandla angaphezu kwemvelo nabo bawela ngaphansi kwale ncazelo. Yiba ngangokunokwenzeka, kungase kuqinisekiswe ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ubuntu obunomusa umuntu ongeyona encane enomuntu ovelele, ukukhanga okuqhathaniswa nomagnetism. Kubantu abanamakhono anjalo kanye nezifiso zomholi, abantu bendlala futhi bajabulele ngaphansi kwenjabulo yenkazimulo yabo.
I-Charisma - Psychology
Ubuntu bubonakala yizimfanelo nezakhiwo ezihola abantu ngemuva kwazo, zibenze zikhothamele, zithembe futhi zikholelwe ematheni angenamkhawulo. I-Charisma isendaweni yokusebenza kwengqondo ngokuqashelwa ngumphakathi jikelele, okwenzelwe umuntu. Nansi indlela asebenza ngayo, ecabanga, ekhuluma. I-Charisma njengekhwalithi yomuntu ibonakala ezingeni lemvelo. Umuntu akafaka umzamo omkhulu kulokhu, kodwa ukuzethemba kwakhe, ukuxhumana naye, amandla kanye nezinye izici banabantu, bayilandela eduze umholi onjalo futhi bazizwe bengenakuqedwa ukufisa ukuba khona.
Kuyini ukushiswa okubonakalayo?
Le ndawo yomuntu ayihlangene nohlobo lomsebenzi nokubukeka kokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Imvelo yobuhle ingaba nempumelelo elinganayo ibe yintanta kanye nobugebengu. Leli gama lisho amakhono angokomzwelo nangokwengqondo ikakhulukazi ukuzwelana, futhi lokhu kuvulwa amathuba okuhola ubuholi, ithonya kubantu. Yilokho okushiwo ukukhathazeka nokuziveza ngokwakho kusukela ebuntwaneni, ukuzihlanganisela ngokwezigaba zokuqala zokuphila, kube yikhwalithi engokwemvelo yomuntu ngamunye. Umuntu onjalo angabonakala njengokunye, asebenze kunoma ubani, kodwa ngeke aqaphele.
Uyini umehluko emkhatsini we-charisma wesifazane nomoya womuntu?
Kusobala ukuthi lo mgangatho wobuntu awuncike ebulili, kepha awubonakali ngokuhambisana nokuhlukana kobulili. Umqondo wokushisa ungathinteki ngokungahambisani nobukhombisi bokuthambekela kanye nekhono lokuthonya abantu, kodwa amadoda anjalo futhi athambekele ukuba abe ngowokuqala kukho konke. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba ibuse, ilawule futhi isebenzise. Enye into abesifazane. Ukucela, ukukhathazeka - kuyini nokuthi kubonakala kanjani nabo, ungaphendula ngokuthi lokhu kude nemikhuba yomholi. Uhlobo "olujwayelekile emkhongweni" alukwazi ukuhola abantu ngemuva kwakhe. Lapha kukhona okunye okunye.
Ubuhlungu besifazane
Mayelana nalabo abameleli bobulili obuhle bathi "manki". Akuzona amahle futhi abukeka ngokubukeka, kodwa ukuzithemba kwabo, ukukhanya okungaphakathi nokungashiyi kungashiyi muntu ongenandaba, ngezwi - okuyisimanga. Ngamunye unamazwi omusa neseluleko. Labo abanesithakazelo sokwesaba owesifazane kufanele baphendule ukuthi lo mqondo wokuziqhenya uhlanganiswe nenhlonipho yangempela kanye nesithakazelo kwabanye. Umuntu onjalo uvulekile futhi unemvelo, ujabule, ulula futhi uhlale ehle, nakuba kungenjalo umholi.
Ubuhlungu besilisa
Ngaso sonke isikhathi kukhona isixuku - abangane, abathandekayo, ozakwabo. Iziphathimandla zithemba labo abangaphansi kwamaphrojekthi abaluleke kunazo zonke, futhi ozakwabo baqaphela ukuthi umholi uya ehhovisi lakhe ukuze aguqe, futhi nje asebenzise amandla. Indoda ethandekayo ihlale ihamba ngehhashi. Uyakwazi ukuveza ngokucacile imicabango yakhe, ukuziqhenya, umdlandla, ukulungele ukuba umholi futhi athathe ingozi. Ngomuntu othakazelisayo ufudumele, ujabule futhi ukhululekile. I-aura ephumayo isenza sibuye sijabule futhi sijabule ngokuthi kunomuntu onalezi zimfanelo esimweni esiseduze.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ubuhlungu?
Amakhono akhethekile angatholakali kwabanye abantu anikezwa kusukela ekuzalweni, kodwa kunombono wokuthi, uma ufisa, ungathuthukiswa ngokwawo, into esemqoka ukuqonda ukuthi isebenza kanjani. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani umuntu onesizotha, udinga ukuthuthukisa izimfanelo ezilandelayo:
- Ukuzimela. Njalo futhi kuzo zonke izinto zithembele kuwe, yiba nomthwalo wempilo yakho.
- Ukubukeka okungakhohlwa. Akudingekile ukuba wenze i-tattoo kumhlane wonke noma udayise izinwele zakho eziluhlaza, ukuze kuvele ukushisa, kodwa "i-zest" ekhethekile kufanele ihlale ikhona.
- Ukuqiniseka. Kubalulekile ukubona yonke into kukho konke okuhle kuphela futhi ukholelwe okungcono kakhulu.
- Ukuzithoba nokukhuthazela, ukuzethemba. Abantu abanesihawu kukhona.
- Kudingeka ukwazi ukulawula imizwelo nezenzo.
- Zihloniphe wena nabanye, okuhambisana nobuntu obuhle.
- Ukuthakazelelwa, inzalo kwabanye.
- I-Oratory ingenye "ihhashi" yabaholi abanesihe.
- Amandla okulalela nokuxoxisana ingenye yezimfanelo ezisemqoka zomuntu.
Lona yimfihlo ye-charisma. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ngokusho kuka-Olivia Fox Cubain, onguchwepheshe kule ndawo futhi waze wabhala incwadi ngakho, kubalulekile ukuveza ngobuqotho ukufudumala nesithakazelo kumxhumanisi. Ukufisa ukwazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani umxhwele, umuntu kufanele abe nesifiso esinamandla nokusikela kwangaphakathi, futhi isithiyo esikhulu endleleni eya emgomweni kuyoba ukunganeliseki, ukugxeka, ukungaqiniseki, ukunganaki ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ikhono elisha lizosiza kokubili emsebenzini nasemsebenzini.
Ukuthuthukiswa kobuhlungu - ukuzivocavoca
- Ungakha isithombe esihle esisha uma udweba umuntu ogcwele ubude obusweni ngamehlo avaliwe, ucabanga ngesimo sakhe sobuso, ukuzithokozisa namehlo, ukukhuluma ngezwi kanye nezinye izimfanelo ezithandayo, ezithakazelisayo nokuvusa uzwela. Yonke imininingwane ikhuluma, yonke imininingwane yesithombe somuntu onesihe. Ukuvula amehlo akho, ungabona ukuthi isithombe esicabangelayo sivela emcabangweni ngokungenasici, kodwa inhloso yalo msebenzi ukuhlaziywa okuningiliziwe, okuhlinzekela ukunikezwa kwezimfanelo eziyi-10 ezibaluleke kakhulu zomuntu owakhiwe.
- Ukuthuthukiswa kobuhlungu kuhilela ukuhlela uhlelo lwenhlanhla nenhlanhla. Udinga ukuphumula, vala amehlo akho bese uqala ukucabanga ngomgomo wakho, ukuwufinyelela kanjani nokuthi izinga lokuphila lizoshintsha kanjani emva kwalokho. Qinisekisa ukuphumelela kwalolu hlelo kungenziwa uma ucabanga bonke abantu abaphumelele kulo mgomo kuzophinde bazuze.
Ungaba kanjani umholi onesihe?
UMax Weber, isazi sezenhlalakahle esaziwayo saseJalimane, wakhuluma ngomholi ngalezi zici zobuntu okokuqala ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20. Ngokwesibonelo, waletha abaholi abavelele bevela emazweni ahlukene. Kusukela kokungeniswa kwayo, izikhulu zikahulumeni zivame ukubizwa ngokuthi yi-charismatic, ngoba zimelele ngokuphawulekayo ngokumelene nobuningi babantu abaningi. Ukukhathazeka komholi ebhizinisini kuvame ukuveza impumelelo yabo, hhayi ulwazi namakhono ochwepheshe. Ukumamatheka okubanzi, izinkulumo ezikholisayo nezimfanelo ezinhle zomuntu, abantu bakulungele ukuthethelela konke futhi bahambe ukuze bavikeleke.
Ukuze ube umholi othakazelisayo, udinga ukuba nomqondo futhi ukholwe kuwo ngenhliziyo yakho yonke. Kuphela ngale ndlela kungenzeka ukuthi udlulisele umqondo kubo bonke abantu futhi ubakhokhise ngokungahambisani nabo. Umholi othandekayo uyazi ukuthi angathola kanjani ulimi oluvamile nge-interlocutor, ukuxhumana nomphakathi. Uhlale ezwa kahle isimo nesimo sengqondo sabanye, unabo, bathi, "ngokulinganisa okufanayo." Ezifundweni zobuciko bezenzo nezenzo, ungafunda ukukhanya nokuvezwa kwenkulumo kanye nezenzo ezithinta ubuntu nabantu abathandekayo. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuphatha imizwelo yakho.
I-Charisma e-Orthodoxy
Emasikweni okuqala angamaKrestu isipho esinjalo sasinabo abaprofethi, izisebenzi eziyisimangaliso. Lokhu kwakungumusa wabo, okushiwo namuhla yili gama, kungashiwo ukuthi umusa uthunyelwa kubo bonke abantu ekuhlanganisaneni okungokomoya noMoya oNgcwele, okungukuthi, ngesikhathi sokuthandaza. Lezi zinsuku zafika phezu kwabaphostoli bakaKristu ngosuku lwePhentekoste endlini yaseZiyoni futhi zanikeza izipho ezikhethekile ezingu-9 - ukukhwabanisa, okwabavumela ukuba bashumayele iVangeli emhlabeni wonke futhi baphendulele abantu ebuKristwini.
Izipho ezintathu zokuqala zihlanganisa ukuhlakanipha, ulwazi nokukwazi ukubona imimoya. Owesithathu - ukholo, izimangaliso kanye nokukwazi ukuphulukisa, nesiprofetho esilandelayo, isipho sezilimi kanye nokuchazwa kwazo. UbuKristu ebuKristwini buhlehlela kuwo wonke umuntu ogcina imiyalo kaNkulunkulu, ehambela ithempeli, ethandaza, ehlanganyela emidlalweni. Kubuntu obunjalo, ithunyelwa ngesimo sezipho zoMoya oNgcwele. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kumaPentecostal.
Abantu abathandekayo kakhulu emhlabeni
Zihlanganisa okujwayelekile kubo bonke abantu njengoNapoleon, uLenin, uHitler, uStalin, uTrotsky . Ubuntu obuhle obudumile besikhathi sethu - u- Maxim Galkin, u-Renata Litvinova, u-Andrey Malakhov, uSergei Lavrov, uVladimir Putin, i-Orlando Bloom, uJohnny Depp, uDonald Trump , njll. Bathandwa noma bangathandwa, kodwa abashiyi iziqu zamaphephandaba namaphephandaba. , ikhwalithi yabo ixoxwa futhi umuntu angaqiniseka ukuthi bazokhuluma ngisho nangemva kokufa.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa i-charisma - izincwadi
- "I-Charisma: Indlela yokuthonya, ukukhuthaza nokukhuthaza" ngumsebenzi ka-Olivia Fox Cubain. Encwadini, uhlaziya izinkolelo, ukhuluma ngezinhlobo nokuziphatha, uyasiza ukunqoba izithiyo ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo ezahlukene, njll.
- "Ubuhlungu bomholi . " Izincwadi ezinhle kakhulu mayelana ne-charisma zihlanganisa lo msebenzi we-Radislav Gandapas. Kulo, ukhuluma ngendlela ongahlakulela ngayo le mfanelo yobuntu, yiziphi izinzuzo zayo nokuqeda.