Kunezimbono ezimbili eziyinhloko zokubukela: ngokusho komunye wabo, umuntu wakha isiphetho sakhe, ngokusho kwesinye - zonke izenzakalo zihlelwe ngaphambilini. Kukhona okwesithathu, okuphakathi: imicimbi ethile ihlelwe ngaphambilini, kepha indlela umuntu angayifinyelele ngayo ngeke ihlelwe ngaphambilini. Umbuzo wokuthi kungenzeka yini ukushintsha isiphetho, isintu sikhathazekile iminyaka eminingi.
Kungenzeka yini ukuguqula isiphetho somuntu?
Izibonelo zokuthi ungashintsha isiphetho, ngaphezu kwalokho, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ungathola okuningi. Isibonelo, phakathi kwemifanekiso yabantu abadumile abazalwa ngobumpofu, futhi bangase bahlale behlupheka futhi bengazi lutho - kodwa, ngaphandle kokuthola usizo, ngokuzumayo bathola ibhizinisi labo lapho baphumelela khona .
Isibonelo esilula ukuthi wonke umuntu uyaqiniseka ukuthi abantu abakhulela ezindlini zezintandane kanye nemindeni ekhuthazayo abakwazi ukuthola umsebenzi empilweni. UNorma Jean, obuye naye uMarilyn Monroe, usemncane kakhulu, futhi waqala umsebenzi wakhe njengomsebenzi we-waitress. Kodwa esikhathini esizayo waba yinkanyezi enkulu ye-movie futhi into yokulingisa izizukulwane eziningana zabesifazane. Uma ubheka izithombe zakhe zakuqala, wayengenakho ukubonakala okungenakuqondakala, kodwa lokho akuzange kumvimbe.
Noma, isibonelo, uSanders, umlisa wezempi ohlala emhlalaphansi, umhlalaphansi oneminyaka engu-65 ubudala oneminyaka engu-65 kuphela onemoto epimped up and one recipe yenkukhu. Wayengaphila emhlalaphansi, kodwa wakhetha indlela ehlukile, futhi, ngemva kokuthola ukwenqaba okungaphezu kwenkulungwane kusuka kubanikazi bokudlela, wayesedayisa iresiphi yakhe. Kwabe sekukhona impumelelo eyengeziwe, futhi ngokushesha waba umholo. Manje imikhiqizo yayo ihlotshaniswa nenethiwekhi ye-KFC.
Lezi zibonelo zibonisa ngokucacile ukuthi kungenzeka ukushintsha isiphetho, kubalulekile kuphela ukwenza imizamo.
Ungashintsha kanjani i-destiny ukuze ibe ngcono?
Ngakho, ngokulandela izibonelo zamaqhawe ethu, abazange bahlale futhi bangalindeli inhlanhla, kodwa basebenze futhi benza, kungakhathaliseki lutho. Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, umuntu angacabanga
- Beka umgomo wena. Kumelwe kube yikhonkrithi, elinganiselwe futhi efinyelelekayo.
- Cabanga ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo ozodinga ukuzenza kulo mgomo , futhi ngcono - zibhale phansi.
- Cabanga ngalokho ongakwenza khona manje?
- Qala ukwenza.
- Ungayeki, ngisho noma izinto azizange zikhuphuke ngokushesha.
Awukwazi ukushintsha i-destiny uma unganathemba, noma ngemuva kokuhluleka kokuqala, wehlisa izandla zakho. Into esemqoka ukuphikelela nokuzama phambili. Kulesi simo, ngokuqinisekile uzofeza umgomo wakho futhi ushintshe isiphetho sakho.