Umuntu uyingxenye yendawo yonke. Futhi ngaleli qiniso akekho muntu ozophikisana. Kodwa uma uqonda, khona-ke kukhona indawo ebonakalayo (okungenani kubadlali abafanayo), futhi kukhona indawo esingayiboni, kodwa sizizwa ngokwethu. Kumkhathi wesibili kukhona imicabango yethu, imizwa, amaphupho nezifiso zethu. Futhi indlela esilungiswa ngayo ekuphileni kwethu, ekugcineni kuncike kulokho okuyoba khona ngempela. Wake wake wazibuza ukuthi kungani abantu abangenangqondo ngezwe ngokuvamile bengenzi lutho? Noma, ngokuphambene, labo abasebenzisa amandla abalulekile bahlale behle futhi izinto zikhuphuka. Konke ngokuphathelene nokwenza izifiso, noma kunalokho, indlela efanele yokuqaliswa kwazo.
Ukwakheka kwemicabango: sebenzisa
Yonke imicabango engena engqondweni yethu iyakwazi ukuguqula impilo yethu kuze kube phakade. Umbuzo owodwa wendlela yokwenza kahle imicabango yethu? Umthetho wendawo yonke wukuthi ngisho noma singabuzi uhlobo oluthile lwezinzuzo kulo, kodwa sihlale siphindaphinda noma yisiphi isitatimende, khona-ke lokho esikucabangayo ngokuzayo kuzoqala ukukwenzeka empilweni yethu. Ngokuqinisekile abaningi baye babhekana nalesi simo lapho kwenzeka ukushayisana kwezindiza, futhi ngosuku olulandelayo ezindabeni bathi leli qembu liye laphazamiseka endaweni ethile. Noma uqobo usuku olulandelayo lwakhunjulwa owaziwayo ode kakhulu futhi ngosuku olulandelayo wahlangana ngokungazelelwe. Wonke lawo maqiniso aphinde akhombise ukuthi sonke siyizinsimu ezifanayo zenkcazelo, okuyinto esizibandakanya ngokuzibandakanya ngokucabangela kwethu. Futhi uma kunjalo, kuzomele ufunde ukuthi ungaphatha kanjani ukubonakala kwemicabango nezifiso, ukuze ukwazi ukuguqula impilo yakho kuze kube phakade.
Ikhono lokucabanga ngezinto ezibonakalayo
Ngaphambi kokuba ufunde ukuphatha imibono yakho bese uqala ukushintsha amaphupho, kubalulekile ukulungiselela izinguquko empilweni yakho. Kulokhu kuyadingeka ukuthi uhambe ngezigaba eziningana.- Ukuhlaziywa kwesikhathi esedlule. Okukwenzeke kuwe kuyo yonke iminyaka yokuphila kwakho kungumphumela walokho wena ngokwakho okholelwa kulokho okufunayo. Awunayo imali eyanele? Kuthengiswe umngane omkhulu noma uletha impilo? Ngakho, endaweni ethile ekujuleni komphefumulo wakho, yilokhu okufunayo. Ngalokhu, okokuqala bhala phansi okungahambisani nawe empilweni yakho. Emva kwalokho, vula izikhalazo zakho zibe imigomo. Ngenxa yalokho, uzothola indaba ngemigomo yakho yokuphila. Cabanga ngalokho ongathanda, uma unelungelo lokugcwalisa zonke izifiso zakho.
- Isithombe sekusasa. Ziphendule kumbuzo - yini oyilindele esikhathini esizayo, njengoba ucabanga. Kuzokwenzekani kuwe ngonyaka, iminyaka emihlanu, uzosebenzisa kanjani ukuguga kwakho? Manje vala amehlo akho futhi ucabange ikusasa lakho, okuyokwenza ujabule ngempela. Bese uvule amehlo akho bese ucabanga ukuthi wonke amaphupho akho asevele egcwaliseka. Ngemva kwalokhu, qiniseka ukubonga isiphetho noma indawo yonke into ezoba njengoba nje ucabanga.
- Funda ukucabanga kuphela okuhle. Kwabaningi kuyoba yisigaba esinzima. Kodwa ukuthola ikhono lokubona ngendlela enhle ngisho nezinto ezimbi kuzokwenza kube lula kakhulu impilo yakho. Funda ukunganaki konke okubi okubhekana nakho. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukushintsha isimo, shintsha isimo sengqondo kuso. Maduzane uzobona ukuthi ngesimo sengqondo esihle ngisho nezinkinga ezinkulu ozozixazulula ukuzixazulula kakhulu.
Uma usuzivumelanisa nezinguquko empilweni yakho, isinyathelo esilandelayo sizoba yindlela ngqo yokuzifisa izifiso nemicabango. Kunezinhlobonhlobo eziningi zazo. Umsebenzi wakho ukukhetha owuthande kakhulu futhi uvumelane nendlela yakho yokuphila.
- Imephu yezifiso. Isikhathi eside esaziwayo futhi esamukelekayo. Njengoba unesisindo, isiteji samamagazini nesithombe sakho, yakha iphephandaba lendonga lapho kuzungeze isithombe sakho unamathisele izithombe noma izinkomba ezithi, ngokubona kwakho, kufanele zifanane nokuphila kwakho. Kungaba isithombe se-yacht, imoto, indlu yezwe noma ukuhamba. Hangisa ikhadi lakho endaweni evelele kakhulu. Ngokuvamile uzombona ekhumbuze amaphupho akho, ukukhuthaza ukugcwalisa izifiso zakho kuzovela.
- I-wand wand. Thola u-wand, noma ingxenye encane yegatsha, okuyinto engqondweni kufanele inikezwe izakhiwo zemilingo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma unesifiso, yilobe ebhokisini elikhethekile, futhi ngaleyo ndlela, njengokungathi selivele lenziwa, isb. udinga ukubhala ngesikhathi samanje. Isibonelo: "Ngithenga imoto." Vzmahnite nge wand wakho magic bese uqedela ukubonakala kwakho izwi elithi plan kanje: "Ngifuna kube njalo." Futhi qiniseka ukuthi ungeze emazwini okugcina okubonga ngokugcwaliseka kwalesi sifiso.
- Okuncane kakhulu ngokubonga. Le ndlela yokuzicabangela imicabango nezifiso nayo ilula kakhulu ukusebenzisa. Kuhlongozwa ukwakha itshe lokubonga. Mthole lapho inhliziyo yakho ikutshela khona. Kufanele kukujabulise kuwe ngombala,
ubukhulu nokuma. Nsuku zonke, umshaye futhi uthi ngiyabonga kuye konke okwenzekile okuhle. Futhi ngosizo lwendatshana elinjalo, ungadonsela imicimbi engakaze yenzeke, njengokungathi isenzeke kakade. Isibonelo, uma ufuna umuntu oyithandayo ukukuhlangabeza endleleni, uphazamisa itshe lokuthi uthi: "Ngiyabonga, ukuthi ngizohlangana nalomuntu futhi futhi lapho." Futhi lo muntu uqinisekile ukukuhlangabeza. Into esemqoka ukukholelwa emandleni wamagama akho.
Ngokwayo, inqubo yokwenza izinto ezibonakalayo nezifiso ilula ngokulula ukuyisebenzisa. Into esemqoka lapha akukhona kuphela ukufuna okuthile, kodwa futhi ukucabanga ukuthi kuyoba kanjani ukuzibona esimweni lapho iphupho seligcwalisekile khona. Funda ukulindela izifiso zakho nokuthi bazokuzuzisa kanjani. Futhi kuphela lapho izinto ezibonakalayo ziyoba yingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila. Ukuphila kwakho okusha.