Ingabe bonke abantu bayashintsha? Ngokuqinisekile wonke owesifazane wazibuza ngokwakhe lo mbuzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usevele ebhekene nokukhashelwa noma cha. Phela, abesifazane abavame ukuxoxa nabo besilisa nabangani babo nokuthi bahlukumeza kangakanani amanye amantombazane abanemilenze ende, amabele aphezulu futhi aqhubeka phansi ohlwini. Phela, amadoda ayethanda amehlo, futhi amehlo abo avulekile kuzo zonke izinkomba. Kodwa ingabe kunjalo ngempela? Ingabe bonke abantu bayashintsha, njengoba kuvame ukukholelwa? Noma ingabe akunjalo? Ake sibheke lokhu ngokuningiliziwe.
Ingabe bonke abantu bashintsha abafazi?
Yiqiniso, ukukhuluma ngokuqondile ngokweqile, wonke umuntu angaba nenkani . Kodwa "ungazibophezela" futhi "uzibophezele" - lezi zinto zisehlukile ngokuphelele. Emva kwakho konke, kuyinto engavamile ukuthi ezinye izinto ezihlambalazayo zingase zifike ekhanda lakho, okwenza kamuva ube namahloni. Kodwa imicabango yinto eyodwa, ngezinye izikhathi ayengazi lutho. Kodwa izenzo zihlale ziqaphela. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi nakuba wonke umuntu angashintsha, akuwona wonke amadoda ashintsha omkawo.
Ngokuvamile, ukukhuluma ngokuthi bonke abantu bashintsha abafazi, kubalulekile ukubuka izibalo. Futhi, phakathi kwezinye izinto, izibalo zokuphinga zinjalo ukuthi abesifazane baningi amathuba okuba "baye ngakwesobunxele" kunabameleli bobulili obunamandla.
Ngokuyisisekelo, uma uhlala nomuntu isikhathi esithile, okungenani ingxenye uyayibona futhi uqale ukuqonda ukuthi uyakwazi yini, nokuthi yikuphi - akusobala neze. Yiqiniso, abantu ngezinye izikhathi bathanda ukwethula izinkumanga ezingalindelekile neze ezimnandi. Kodwa namanje, ngokuvamile umuntu wenza izenzo ngaphakathi kobuhle bakhe, uhlobo lwakhe lomuntu. Ukukhetha umlingani empilweni, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi abanye abantu abashintshi, futhi umthandi wamantombazane angase ahlale aze agugile.
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