Kusukela ekupholiseni kobudlelwane akuqinisekisiwe, akukho mbhangqwana oshadile, umkhuba ohloniphekile, umehluko wezinto ezithandayo kanye nezinye izici eziningi kungabangela ukuthi ukuziphatha komyeni onothando ngokuzumayo kushintshe. Uma ubona izimpawu zokuvikela nokungafaneleki kumyeni wakho, udinga ukuthatha izinyathelo zokugcina umshado wakho ngokushesha.
Izimpawu ukuthi umyeni akasayithandi umkakhe
Ukuqonda nokuzwa ukuthi umyeni usuka kude nawe akulula. Njengomthetho, amadoda, aze azame ukufihla ukupholisa imizwa, akhombise ngokucacile lokhu ngokuziphatha kwabo kwansuku zonke. Thola ukuthi umyeni wakho uyakuthanda nje ukubukeza isimo sakho sengqondo kuye nangomshado wakho. Qaphela futhi uhlaziye lezi zici:
- Ukuxhumana . Uma oshade naye ejwayele ukuxoxisana nawe yonke imininingwane yokuphila kwakhe, wabelane ngemibandela yakhe emsebenzini, ezithakazelisayo ezintsha, uzama ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nawe, futhi manje uvalwe futhi engenakuhlukaniseka, lokhu kungenye yezimpawu zokuqala ezesabekayo. Ngakho-ke, umbono wakho uyeke ukuba umtshwele futhi ukuxhumana naye kwalahlekelwa yinani langaphambili.
- Ukungabi khona njalo . Ukuncishiswa emsebenzini, izindaba ezibalulekile, ukuhamba kwebhizinisi kanye nemihlangano kaningi kumuntu kuphela isizathu sokubalekela ekhaya. Ukungabikho njalo ekhaya ngenxa yezizathu ezingabazayo - enye insimbi, ekhombisa ukulahlekelwa kwemizwa.
- Amagama abathandekayo, othinta . Yini engaba yendalo engaphezu kwe-caresses enobumnene nebonakalayo engabonakali, amagama kanye neminye imibukiso yemicabango engxenyeni yomuntu. Uma umyeni engakutsheli ukuthi uyakuthanda yini, ungafuni ukumbumbana, ukumanga noma ukulimaza ngengozi, kusho ukuthi ulahlekelwa uthando lwakhe.
- Ukuthungwa komndeni nokugxeka . Uma ngabe yiziphi izenzo zakho ezibangela ukucasuka nokunganaki kumlingani wakho, ukugxekwa okufihliwe noma okungaqondile, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukubheka eduze, mhlawumbe uthole into entsha yokubonga.
- Ukuqhathaniswa . Ubuhlobo obuseduze - lokhu kungenye yezici eziyinhloko ezingabonisa isimo sengqondo somyeni wakho kuwe. Ukwenqaba njalo
kusuka ocansini ngenxa yokukhathala, umsebenzi noma impilo engafanele ingaxhunyaniswa ngokuqiniseka nokuthi umyeni wakhe uthe akasithandi. Isifiso sobulili somuntu singenye yezinkomba ezithinta kakhulu zomzwelo womuntu, lapho kungekho muntu okufanele acabange ngokuzwakala komshado wakho.
Uma ukuziphatha komyeni wakho kuphakamisa ukungabaza, buza umbuzo - kungani umyeni wami engangithandi, ngokuvamile impendulo eqotho kulo mbuzo isiza ukugcina umshado nokubuyisela imizwa endala. Cabanga-mhlawumbe uthathwa yinkinga yesidleke semindeni ekukhokheni bayakhohlwa ukuthi kufanele bahlale kumyeni hhayi kuphela umsizi womuntu ekhishini, kodwa futhi nomphakathi othakazelisayo nomfazi othandekayo othandekayo.