Bathi umkhuba ungokwemvelo. Ngamanye amazwi, ukwazi kuphela imikhuba nokulutha, ungenza isiphetho esifanele ngomuntu, ngokubona okokuqala. Kodwa emphakathini wanamuhla, lapho bekhuluma khona njalo mayelana nokubhema, ukuphuza utshwala nokudakwa kwezidakamizwa, abaningi baye bakhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi akukhona nje kuphela imikhuba eyingozi kodwa futhi ewusizo. Yibo abangathanda ukukhokha ngokukhethekile.
Imikhuba ewusizo yomuntu
Imikhuba yakhe ifomu, kusukela ekubuntwaneni. Futhi kuhle uma kukhona omunye oseduzane obeka isibonelo esihle. Kodwa ngokuvamile ukukhuliswa kwengane kuphelela ekutheni kwenza lokho akunakwenzeka. Gnaw izipikili, udle ebusuku, ubukele i-TV sekwephuzile, njll. Konke lokhu kusebenza ezenzweni ezimbi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umuntu ngamunye uqala ukubona ukungalungi kwezinyathelo zabo futhi uqala ukuzibuza-ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani imikhuba yabo? Sonke silwela ukuphumelela, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi asiqapheli izenzo ezilula ezingeke zigcine kuphela impilo yethu, kodwa futhi zisenze abantu abacebile. Isibonelo, singakhuluma ngemikhuba eyishumi elula kakhulu yabantu abaphumelelayo:
- Ukugijima ekuseni (basiza umzimba ukuthi uvuke futhi uqale ukusebenza kobuchopho obusebenzayo).
- Ukuhambisana nombuso wosuku (kuthuthukisa inhlalakahle futhi kusiza ukulondoloza intsha).
- Ukuhambisana nokuhlanzeka (kusiza ukuqeda izifo eziningi).
- Izintaba ezemvelo, amapipiki, njll. (usizo lokuphumuza, ukuqoqa amandla, futhi uthole ukuvumelana ngokwakho kanye nemvelo).
- Ukuhlela isikhathi sakho (kusiza ukunciphisa ingozi ye-force majeure, ivikela imizwa yakho futhi ikuvumela ukuba ube yinkosi yokuphila kwakho).
- Ukucabanga okuhle (kungenziwa futhi umkhuba futhi ulahlekelwe yizinkinga eziningi ezikude kakhulu).
- Ukuzondla ngokwakho njalo (kuvumela ukuthi kube umuntu wanamuhla futhi ophumelelayo)
- Amakilasi anezintandokazi zobuciko kanye nezinye izinto zokuzilibazisa (kusiza ukuthola ukuthula kwengqondo nokuthula).
- Ukulondolozwa kwendawo yokuhlanzeka nokuhleleka (ukuhleleka endlini kuqinisekisa ukuhleleka empilweni)
- Ukuxhumana nabantu abaphumelelayo (ukuphishekela ukuphumelela njalo kuyoholela ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni okungokomoya).
Lena yingxenye encane yalokho okuye kwaba yinto evamile kubantu abaye baba yizinduna zempilo yabo isikhathi eside. Futhi uma ufuna ukujoyina, into yokuqala okudingayo ukuqala ukuthuthukisa umkhuba omuhle.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa imikhuba ewusizo?
Njengoba unqume ukushintsha indlela yakho yokuphila, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngalokho umkhuba onempilo. Ngokusho kwabantu abaningi, imikhuba ewusizo ukuthi ayibangeli umonakalo kumnikazi wayo kanye nezwe elibazungezile. Akukhona nje ngokuphatha indlela yokuphila enempilo. Ngisho nokwenqaba ukugqoka uboya bemvelo noma ukubuyisela udoti ngemuva kokuya emvelweni kubhekwa futhi njengezenzo ezifanele. Indlela yokuthuthukisa umkhuba omuhle kuwe?
Ngamazwi, kulula kakhulu. Kodwa ngokwenza, ukudala indlela entsha yokuphila ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma kuyindaba yokuhlukana nemikhuba endala futhi eseyithuthukile. Noma kunjalo, umkhuba omusha uzokuguqula kuze kube phakade wena nokuphila kwakho, ngakho-ke kufanelekile. Izazi zengqondo zithi kungenzeka ukuletha ukuthengiswa kokusebenza phakathi nosuku lwama-21. Ngamanye amazwi, kungakapheli amasonto amathathu udinga ukwenza isenzo esisodwa nesenzo nsuku zonke. Uma ukhumbula okungenani usuku olulodwa, udinga ukuqala ukubala amasonto amathathu kuqala. Dala uhlelo lwakho noma usakaze amaphilisi bese uphuma usuku ngalunye uma wenza lesi senzo.
- cwangcisa izinto nsuku zonke;
- funda okungenani imizuzu engu-30 ngosuku;
- Ukulala phansi kungakapheli ngo-11 ntambama bese uvuka ekuseni;
- ukuhambisana nokudla okunempilo;
- hamba ngaphambi kokulala;
- qala futhi uqede usuku ngeziqinisekiso ezinhle.
Khumbula ukuthi impilo yethu yonke ilwa nathi. Futhi vumela imikhuba yakho emihle ikusize ukuba uhlale unqoba.