Ngezinye izikhathi intsha ayinelisekile ngempendulo ethi "yebo" embuzweni othi "Uyamthatha yini kumadoda (abafazi)?" Ngokuqinisekile umakoti nomkhwenyana bafuna ukusho amazwi esifungo. Kodwa kaningi kangakenzeki, nokho isiko lesifungo somshado somakoti nomkhwenyana sisentshonalanga, futhi akuvamile kakhulu kithi. Yize kungavunyelwe ukwenza lokhu emshadweni, ngakho-ke ake sibone ukuthi singasho ukuthini lamagama abalulekile, nokuthi yini okufanele ibe yinto yesifungo somshado.
Isifungo somakoti nomkhwenyana emshadweni: lapho kufanele sisho?
Zonke izifungo zomshado zingahle zihlukaniswe ngokomthetho zibe mkhosi (kubandakanya izinkolo) kanye namahlaya. Iyokuqala ingabizwa kokubili ehhovisi lokubhalisa nasetafuleni lokugubha. Kodwa izifungo zama-comic, mhlawumbe, kungcono ukushiya inkampani efudumele, lapho ukuncintisana nokuzijabulisa kwezivakashi ziqala. Nakuba kungekho muntu ongakuvimbela ukuba ufunge isifungo esizobangela ukuthi izinyembezi zothando zivela kubazali nabangane, ehhovisi lokubhalisa futhi ziphinde ziphinde ziphinde ziphinde zenze ukushintshashintsha kwawo okuhlosiwe etafuleni lokugubha. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi isifungo siyinto esondelene nayo futhi awukwazi ukukusho ngesixuku esikhulu sabantu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi kuyiqiniso ngempela, kodwa ngubani okuvimbela ukuthi uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde ulandele wonke amazwi amathenda futhi wedwa? Umshado yilokho, ungasho ukuboniswa okubonakalayo kwemizwa yakho, futhi phakathi kwalabo abamenywe abalungele ukuba ujabule. Ngakho-ke banike ithuba elinjalo, vumela abomama nezintombi ukuba bathuthele, bakhale, futhi uzokhumbula lo mzuzwana, njengenye yehle kakhulu futhi yothando.
Izifungo zomshado zomkhwenyana nomkhwenyana: kufanele uthini?
Njengoba kukhulunywe ngenhla, umbhalo wesithembiso somshado womakoti nomkhwenyana ungaba yinto engathà sina futhi ehlekisa. Ngokuvamile izifungo, ikakhulukazi ama-comic, zenziwa ngendlela yenkondlo - futhi zizwakale zihlekisa futhi labo abasanda kushada bakhumbula kahle. Kodwa lokhu akuyona inketho engcono kakhulu. Ukuze ubuyekeze isifungo somunye umuntu, akukhathaleki kusuka kusayithi le-intanethi noma "ukumdonsa" emshadweni womngani, ngokuqinisekile kulula kunokuba aphule ikhanda ngamazwi. Kodwa, okokuqala, akekho ocela ukuthi ubhale izinkondlo, ngakho-ke uma kungekho muntu onamakhono okuqinisekisa, akudingeki uzame. Amazwi aqotho ayigugu kakhulu, ngisho noma athathwa ngaphandle kwemvumelwano. Futhi, okwesibili, umshado ungowakho, futhi ufuna konke okukuwo ukuba kukhunjulwe, konke okukuphela kwakho. Ingabe kuyoba mnandi ukuba ukhumbule, emva kwesikhashana, amanye amazwi abantu afunde esitokisini esingabonakali imizwa yakho ngokugcwele?
Indlela yokwenza isifungo somlobokazi nomkhwenyana?
Kuyacaca ukuthi amazwi esifungo kufanele abe aqotho futhi ahambe enhliziyweni, kodwa akulimazi ukubhala phansi. Umshado uyajabulisa, abantu ngezinye izikhathi bakhohlwe amagama abo, hhayi ukuthi umbhalo wesifungo. Ngakho-ke, isikhalazo ngeke sibe yinto engafanele neze. Yini ongayibhala? Lo mbuzo-ke, kungcono ukuxoxa nomlingani futhi wenze isifungo ukuze akuthande bobabili. Futhi ukwenza kube lula ukuyiloba, khumbula ukuthi yiziphi izingxenye okufanele zibe nazo.
- Ingxenye yokuqala ngokuvamile ihlanganisa isitatimende seqiniso - uthi umuntu uyathandeka kuwe, futhi uzohlala naye impilo ende futhi ejabulisayo. Futhi uhlela ukuqala kusukela namhlanje, kuhlangene nomshado wezomthetho.
- Esikhathini esilandelayo, kungokwezifiso ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho kumlingani wakho, lokho okuthandayo akumele kuqondwe nguye kuphela, kodwa wonke umuntu okhona. Lokhu cishe yingxenye elula - ubhala nje lokho ozizwayo.
- Ekugcineni, emva kokuthandana konke kuyisikhumbuzo seqiniso elibuhlungu lokuphila: umshado awuyena nje uzwela novuthayo, futhi yizibopho ohlangothini ngalunye oluzithatha ngalo. Okubhaliwe lapha, lokho okuzofungana komunye nomunye, kuxhomeke kuwe kuphela. Kungase kube nesithembiso sokuba khona lapho kokubili ukudabuka nenjabulo, nesithembiso sokuthi indodana uyihloniphe umkhulu womyeni, nesithembiso somkhwenyana ukuba angamangaze umkakhe ngenxa ye-bumper yemoto yakhe ephukile.