Umshado ungenye yezenzakalo ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni komuntu wonke. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukucabanga ngokucophelela lapho uhlela umkhosi wakho. Futhi, eqinisweni, unikezwe ngezinhlobonhlobo nezinhlobo zezinhlangano zeholide, umakoti ngamunye uzocabangela ukuthi yini ezovela ngokuthakazelisa emshadweni.
Ukushada okuthakazelisayo
Ungakwazi ukuhlela umshado onguhlaza, isibonelo, ukuchitha iholidi lakho ngesitayela sezinhluzane, ama-stiligas, ama-Pirates, ama-bikers, ukuhlobisa umkhosi olwandle, i-apula noma yimuphi omunye isihloko - konke kuxhomeke emcabangweni wakho, futhi-ke, amathuba emali. Okubaluleke kakhulu - ungakhohlwa ukuxoxa ngezinketho zakho nomkhwenyana uphinde wenze isinqumo esivamile. Uma ungafuni ukuhlela umkhosi futhi uzizinakekele, ungacela ama-ejenti amaholide usizo - bayokutshela ukuthi kuyini okuthakazelisayo ukugubha umshado . Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungasesha iskripthi somshado esithakazelisayo kwi-Intanethi. Lapho ungathola inombolo enkulu yezinhlelo zomkhosi onjalo, kanye nohlu oluyisibonelo lwalokho okungakusiza kuwe.
Ungathatha njengengqikithi yemikhosi isakhiwo sefilimu ethandekayo, isibonelo, "Mnu noMnu Smith" - yenza izimemo ngezithombe zakho zalesi sitayela, ulungiselele amathrekhi abomvu, izikhali zokudlala - ungesabi ukubonisa ubuciko nesibindi, ngoba liholide, kuqala isikhathi sakho. Isihlengo kanye neqembu lezinkukhu lingabanjwa ngokuhambisana nesihloko esikhethiwe.
Futhi-ke, yimuphi umshado wendabuko owenziwa ngaphandle kwemincintiswano nomethuli ojabule? Uma unamathela emasikweni aseSlavic aminyaka eminyaka ubudala, ngokuqinisekile uzohlela "idili lomhlaba wonke", futhi lezi zivakashi ngeke zithukuthele, zizodinga uhlelo lokuzijabulisa, oluzokwenziwa yi-toastmaster oyikhethile. Sifuna ukukunikeza ezimbalwa ezithakazelisa kakhulu, ngokubona kwethu, imincintiswano yomshado.
Imincintiswano enesithakazelo emshadweni
Ukuze sishise, siphakamisa ukuqala ngomdlalo ozosiza ukuqeda umkhathi futhi ubeke izivakashi zibe mnandi. Qala ngomdlalo owaziwayo "Nginayo ebhulukwe yami". Kuyinto elula: zonke izivakashi zenza izikhala ezivela emaphakathini wezingane, futhi zithi: "Nginama-panties ..." futhi ufunda lokho okulotshwe ephepheni lakhe, isibonelo "elimnandi futhi elibushelelezi." Lo mdlalo ojabulisayo uzobe ubeke isimo sengqondo esifanele kusihlwa.
Kulungile, ngakho konke kuxhomeke ekucabangeni kwakho, kanye nangesikhathi nokukhululwa kwezivakashi zakho. Imincintiswano eminingi iqukethe izici zobulili, ngakho-ke qaphela lapho ukhetha ukuzijabulisa okunjalo, qiniseka ukuthi ucabangela ukuthi yiziphi izethameli lezi zincintiswano ezizobanjwa.
Ungahlukanisa izivakashi zibe imibhangqwana yama-gay futhi ubambe umncintiswano olandelayo: intombazane eboshwe amehlo ephethe i-spoon emlonyeni wakhe, futhi indoda igcina ingilazi ne-yogurt ezandleni zakhe. Ngakho, ngaphandle kokubona, kumele athole umlingani. Umbhangqwana obhekana ngokushesha kunanoma ubani omunye uzoba ngumnqobi.
Umncintiswano olandelayo, esiwuphakamisayo, ukukhuthazela kwamadoda. Ibizwa ngokuthi "Hareme". Khetha "ama-sultan" amabili bese bethayipha endaweni yabo yebesifazane abayithandayo futhi bawathathe ezandleni zabo ekupheleni kwehholo. Manje ukuthi bonke abesifazane abakhethiwe bahlala eHarrem ndawonye, kumnandi kuqala - ama-sultan kumele athathe abesifazane bawo ngesikhathi esifanayo. I-sultan iwina, ithatha isisindo esikhulu.
Omunye umncintiswano wemibhangqwana: abafana bahlezi phansi ezihlalweni, baguqa ngamaphephandaba iphephandaba eliveziwe. Amantombazane ahlala phansi ngenhla futhi kumele aphule iphephandaba ngaphandle kosizo lwezandla.
Futhi ungacela izivakashi zakho ukuthi zilungiselele kusengaphambili iholidi lakho futhi uhlele uhlobo lwekhonsathi olubandakanya ukwenza amateur. Vumela izivakashi zakho zilungiselele izithombe ezithakazelisayo noma izinombolo ezithakazelisayo zomshado. Ngokuqinisekile, omunye wabahlobo uzokumangaza ngamathalenta abo nendlela yokudala kulo msebenzi. Umoya omuhle kakhulu uzotholakala! Ngaphezu kwalokho, ikhonsathi nayo ingenziwa ngokwayo, into esemqoka ukuxwayisa izivakashi kusengaphambili ukuze zilungiselele kusengaphambili umcimbi omkhulu kangaka.
Ngendlela mayelana namasiko
Imishado yaseRussia okwesikhathi eside yayidume ngobubanzi bayo nobubanzi bayo. Uma uhlonipha amasiko, kufanelekile ukuphendukela emlandweni. Isibonelo, ekupheleni kokuhlwa, ungabamba umkhosi wokukhipha isembozo kumlobokazi. Umkhwenyana angasusa i-garter evela kumakoti futhi ayiphonse kubangane abangashadile, futhi intombazane ingayiphonsa abangane bayo abangashadile ukuze ifune ukuthi ngubani ozobe engowenhlanhla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, labo abasanda kushada endaweni yokudlela bangatholakala emnyango ngesinkwa nosawoti (njengomthetho, abazali bomkhwenyana bawenza), futhi babone ukuthi ngubani oyongena endlini.
Ungayinaki le nto, amanye amasiko ongayithanda, futhi uzofuna ukusebenzisa le mihango eholidini lakho.