Abesifazane abaningi babuza umama, izintombi, kanye nabantu abangabazi nje kwiNethiwekhi umbuzo ofanayo: "Ungamangaza kanjani umyeni wakho?". Izimpendulo zibe inombolo eningi, kuyilapho zizohambelana nezinhlelo ezahlukene zokuphila: kusukela nsuku zonke ukuze zithandane. Kodwa-ke, kuqala ngokuqaphela ukuthi umuntu uhlale engumntwana emphefumulweni, futhi uma efuna ukudla noma ukulala, akajabuli, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka yobudala kangakanani, nokuthi uyini isikhundla sakhe. Lokhu kuyinhloko. Ngakho kuyacaca ukuthi ungamangala kanjani indoda uma elambile.
Isiphi isidlo sokumangaza umuntu?
Ezweni kukhona inqwaba enkulu yokupheka okuwukuphela kwamehlo okugijima kanye nokugeleza kwamathe. Yini engingayikhetha ukuyithanda? Uma unquma ukuthi yisiphi isidlo okumangaze umyeni, kufaneleka ukukhumbula ukuthi izintandokazi zakhe zokuthandayo zingase zihluke kakhulu kweyakho. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nokucabangela ukuthi isifiso sokuthi "sishiye" u-1 kg we-broccoli kumlingani ompofu, uma ephupha ngesikhumba, kufanelekile ngokukhathazeka ngempilo yakhe, akunakunconywa ukuba aqhubeke nomoya ofanayo. Ngempela, umsebenzi wethu ukuphendula umbuzo othi "Kumnandi kanjani ukumangala umyeni?".
"Ukudla inyama" kuzothanda noma yikuphi ukudla okunambithekayo okulungiselelwe kulo mkhiqizo. Uma ukukhathazeka ngemifino okwamanje kungakunikeli ukuphumula, zama ukulungisa isidlo esihlangene, njengezipelepele ezigxishiwe .
Nsuku zonke
Yiqiniso, akunakwenzeka ukuthi owesimanje wesimanje unesikhathi esiningi namandla ukuze akhe ubuciko bokudla nsuku zonke. Nokho, ngezikhathi ezithile umcabango othi "Ngifuna ukumangaza umyeni wami" kodwa ufika emakhanda akhanyekayo omamakazi amahle. Futhi lokhu kuyamangalisa, ngoba akekho oye wakhansela indlela eya enhliziyweni yothando ngomzila womlomo. Ukukhetha ukuthi yini okumangaze umyeni wakhe ngedini, sicela uqaphele ukuthi ukuze umshaye, akudingekile ukuba uhlale njalo, amahora angahlali esitofu, uzame ukupheka isidlo esingavamile ngegama elingenakuqondakala. Kukhona imfihlo eyodwa encane. Umuntu, esesesikhundleni "samahhala" futhi ehlala yedwa, epheka, engathandi, ngokuvamile hhayi ngenxa yokuthi akazi, kodwa ngoba uvila futhi udla ikakhulu ukudla okusheshayo. Abesifazane, bephazamiseka ngokuthi bangamangala kanjani umyeni wakhe othandekayo, zama ukumphatha ngokudla kwakhe okwenziwe ekhaya. Ukuze ukwazi ukukhipha umlingani akuzange amdonse umlingani oyigugu "ohlangothini", okungukuthi, etendeni elinamapayipi "angacatshangwanga," yiphakamise nge- pizza eyenziwe ngokwenza noma ekulungiseleleni .
Ukwamukela okumnandi akugcini nje ukuba yisidlo esiyinkimbinkimbi, esidinga amakhono. Kunezimo lapho, ngokwesibonelo, ubuyela ekhaya ndawonye, futhi njengenhlanhla ingaba nayo, akukho lutho olulungile. Ungamangala kanjani umyeni wakhe kulokhu? Isivinini! Kunezindlela zokupheka, okwenziwa ngalo akudingi isikhathi esiningi, isibonelo, i- pasta enezinyosi .
Izikhathi ezinzima
Ukumangaza umyeni wakhe ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa kungenzeka ngosizo lwenhlanganisela ye "posh table kanye nomfazi omuhle". Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yamacala anjalo, khetha zokupheka ezivivinyelwe (zombili ekuphekeni kokusebenza, nangomyeni). Kungcono ukuthi "okushisayo" akudingeki ukuba ume njalo. Izitsha ezinhle eziphekwe kuhhavini. Ngenkathi idada, inkukhu, ihansi noma enye inyama iphenduka umhlobiso wetafula, kungenzeka ukuba wenze i-hairdo, i-make-up, igqoke ingubo enhle.
Umthetho ofanayo usebenza nakwamanye amaholidi - emva kwakho konke, ukuthi ungamangala kanjani umyeni, isibonelo, ngosuku lokugubha usuku, uma umfazi othakazelisayo kakhulu engazange azungeze ngisho nezitsha okumnandi?
Ngaphezu kokudla, amadoda amaningi anomunye ubuthakathaka obuthakathaka - isifiso sokuphuza kancane eholidini. Yebo, ingilazi yesiphuzo esihle sokuphuza utshwala ngeke ibuhlungu, ikakhulukazi ngoba kukhona isizathu. Futhi uma kwenzeka ukuthi ngesikhathi sokulungiselela isidlo sezinkondlo kwakukhona ukubambezeleka kunokuba kuhlushwa umyeni ngokulindela, ukuxuba ne-cocktail okumnandi njenge- mojito , isibonelo.
Kukhona enye indlela eyaziwa ukuthi ungamangala kanjani umyeni wakho othandekayo ngosuku oluhle, nakuba edinga ikhono elithile. Bhaka ikhekhe bese uyihlobisa ngendlela yangempela - akudingeki ube isiphephelo esikhulu sokwenza umbhalo obhalwe phansi owodwa.
Sithembele ukuthi manje, ngosizo lwezeluleko zethu, uyohlale unempendulo yombuzo othi: "Yini okufanele ngiyipheke ukumangala umyeni wami?"