Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi amadoda angaphezu kwezingu-70% ashintsha noma okungenani uma ashintshe oshade naye. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abesifazane bashintsha kakhulu abayeni babo. Ukwazi lokhu, abesifazane bazama ukuqonda ukuthi kungani amadoda ashadile eqala abathandi.
Kungani umuntu ephendukela enkosikazi - ingqondo yengqondo yendoda eshadile
I-Psychology ichaza izizathu ezinjalo kungani amadoda ashadile eqala abathandi:
- Ukunganeliseki ngokocansi . Lesi sizathu sisokuqala ohlwini lwezizathu ezonakalisa impilo yomndeni. Inkinga ikhona eqinisweni ukuthi izifiso zesilisa nabesifazane ngokuvamile azihambisani nalolu daba. Kubantu, ubulili bungomunye wemisebenzi ebaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni . Kulabo besifazane, ubulili bungabaluleki noma bume ekugcineni kohlu lwezinto ezibalulekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umthwalo owela emahlombe abesifazane kanye nokukhathala okuqhubekayo, awunalo negalelo ekuthuthukiseni isifiso sobulili. Kule ndaba, owesifazane ongashadile ungumncintiswano onzima kumlingani ophelile. Kule ndawo, kungase kube nempendulo yombuzo othi kungani amadoda ashadile eqala abathandi emsebenzini. Ukunganeliseki ngokocansi nokuqashwa okukhulu emsebenzini kuholela ekutheni umuntu uthola indawo efana nendawo, emsebenzini.
- Ukunganeliseki kwengqondo . Induduzo yengqondo emshadweni iyisici esibalulekile senjabulo yomndeni. Uma kukhona izingxabano emndenini, izingxabano, abashadile abakwazi ukuthola ulimi oluvamile futhi baqonde, khona-ke indoda ingaya endaweni yokuthula. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, uzogcina umndeni.
- Ubunzima bomuntu noma iminyaka yobudala . Esinye isizathu esibalulekile sokuba amadoda aqale abathandi, yizikhathi ezibucayi. Ekuphileni komuntu, kungase kufike isikhathi lapho eqala ukungabaza amandla akhe kanye nokukhangisa ngokomzimba. Kule ndaba, inkosikazi iyinhlobo ye-simulator esiza ukubuyisela ibhalansi elahlekile. Ukungathembeki okunjalo kuvame kakhulu emadodeni angaphezu kweminyaka engama-45, ngoba kule minyaka yobudala umuntu uqala ukuzwa ukuguga komzimba futhi ufuna ukuzibonakalisa yena kanye nabanye ukuthi akusikho konke okulahlekile.
- Imikhuba emibi . Ubuqili ezweni elidakiwe livamile. Kodwa-ke, kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi izinguquko ezinjalo zivame ukubhekana nengozi futhi azikwenzekanga uma umuntu engacabangi.
- Ithonya lemvelo . Kwezinye izinkampani zamadoda kukholelwa ukuthi wonke umuntu ozihloniphayo kufanele abe nenkosikazi, mhlawumbe, hhayi ngisho nanye. Kulesi simo, lo muntu uyeka ukuhlola kahle isimo somndeni futhi uqondise amabutho akhe efuna ukuzijabulisa.