Izingxabano zomndeni

Ukungqubuzana komndeni - lesi sizathu esivame kakhulu sokwelashwa kwemibhangqwana kumcwaningi wezengqondo. Izindlela zokuxazulula izingxabano zomndeni zixhomekeke ekutheni yiziphi izinkinga ezavela ngaphakathi kweseli elinikeziwe lomphakathi. Izingxabano emndenini lapho kunezingane zithinteka kakhulu ngombono wabo ngobuhlobo bomzali nomshado ngaleyo ndlela.

Izinhlobo zempi zomndeni

Cabanga ngesigaba esivame kakhulu sezingxabano:

1. Izingxabano ezakhayo. Kunezimpikiswano ezinjalo ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene, kepha isisombululo sabo senza umqondo wokwaneliseka kokubili okushiwo, ngamanye amazwi lokhu kuyisixazululo sokwekethisa, okwenziwa ngazo zonke izinhlangothi eziphikisanayo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungqubuzana emndenini osemusha, noma emndenini oneminyaka eminingi ubudala, umphumela wabo uhlale uphumelela.
2. Izingxabano ezibhubhisayo. Ukungqubuzana okunjalo kuyingozi kakhulu, ngoba umphumela wabo awunelisekile izinhlangothi zombili futhi ungakwazi, ukuhudula iminyaka eminingi, ukunciphisa umuzwa wokwaneliseka ngomshado wabo, emva kwabo isikhathi eside beshiya idiphozi engathandeki. Ukuphindaphindiwe kaningi kwezimpikiswano ezinjalo kungaholela ekuhlukaniseni.

Izimbangela zempi zomndeni

Zingahluka kakhulu. Izazi zengqondo zithi lezi zhlangothi zombili zinecala lokulwa. Izimbangela zezingxabano zingasetshenziswa futhi zixhase imikhuba yokuziphatha kumuntu ngamunye womshado. Kuncike kulokho okwenziwe ekuxabaneni okwenziwe yilowo nalowo mshado, kuvunyelwe ngokujwayelekile ukuhlukanisa izindlela zokuziphatha zibe ngamaqembu amaningana ama-semantic.

1. I-aspiration yokuzifakazela emndenini. Isifiso sokuziqinisa, njengomthetho, sihlanganisa zonke izigaba zobudlelwane, ngakho-ke ingxabano ingaqhuma nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Isifiso somunye womlingani ukuthatha isikhundla esiphambili emshadweni kuvame ukuqiniswa "iseluleko" somzali. Lesi sifiso siphikisana nemigomo eyisisekelo yomshado, phakathi kokubambisana nokuhloniphana. Ezimweni ezinjalo, noma yisiphi isicelo singabhekwa njengesiyaluyalu enkululeko yomuntu siqu, futhi senze isimo somkhathi emndenini.
2. I-Didactic. Umkhuba womunye wabalingani ukufundisa abanye okuthile. Le ndlela yokuziphatha iholela emiphakathini yomndeni kanye nemibango, ngenxa yokuthi inqanda noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kokuzimela futhi ifaka ukungavumelani okuqhubekayo kokubukwa empilweni.
3. Gxila kuphela ezindabeni zabo. Wonke umuntu omdala unomthwalo wemfanelo eminingi eziphathimandla, abazali, izingane, njll. Ngakho-ke, njengomthetho, akekho isikhathi namandla okubamba iqhaza noma ngisho nokuqapha intuthuko yezindaba zomlingani wakho. Lesi sibonelo sokuziphatha sivame ukulandelwa ikakhulukazi kwabashadile, ngoba akekho okulungele ukushintsha imikhuba yabo yokukhathala yokuphila, ngakho ukubeka imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe emahlombe abo kuholela ekuxabaneni.
4. "Iphazamisekile." Ekukhulumisaneni kwansuku zonke phakathi kwabashadile, kukhona njalo uhlobo oluthile lomkhuba nokukhathazeka ngezinkinga zomndeni, lokhu kuholela ekungabikho kokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangene okuhlangene futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukuvela kwezimo eziphikisanayo.

Izindlela zokuxazulula izingxabano zomndeni

Kunezindlela eziningi ezingenakuphumelela zokuxazulula izingxabano zomndeni, ukusetshenziswa okungeke kuthathe kuphela isikhathi esiyigugu kuwe, kepha kungabuye kukhulise ingxabano emndenini. Ukuze uxazululwe izimo zokungqubuzana emndenini wakho, kungcono ukufuna usizo kumaphologists wezengqondo zomndeni, futhi ungahlolisisi impilo yomndeni wakho iseluleko somakhelwane, abajwayele noma abazali. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi kwakungekho ukuphikisana emndenini nhlobo, ngoba ubuhlobo bobuhlobo bomndeni ukuthi abantu bobulili obuhlukile bashada ngezindaba ezahlukene zokuphila kanye nokukhuliswa okuhlukile, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kufanele bahlangane ngandlela-thile ngaphansi kwephahla olulodwa. Konke okungenziwa kule nkinga ukuvimbela izingxabano zomndeni.

Ungakugwema kanjani ukungqubuzana emndenini?

Nazi amathiphu ambalwa alula angakusiza ukugwema ukungqubuzana emndenini wakho.

1. Umndeni kufanele ube nobuhlobo bokuthembela. Uma omunye wabalingani engapheli okuthile noma ugcine imfihlo kwenye, lokhu ngokwayo kungabangela isimo esibucayi ebuhlotsheni, futhi ubukhulu bezingxabano ezavela ngenxa yalokhu kungase kube ukwesabeka okukhulu kunalokho okufihlekile.
2. Ikhono lokukhulumisana komunye nomunye. Njengoba sesixoxile ngenhla, esinye sezizathu zokuthi ukungqubuzana komndeni kungabonakala kungaba isifiso somunye womshado ukuba athathe isikhundla esiphezulu, okuholela ezimweni eziphikisanayo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi isiqinisekiso somshado ojabulisayo sisekulinganisweni kwamalungu ayo. Yazi ukuthi ungenza kanjani imvume ngenxa yothando lwakho.