Kukhona isibonakaliso esisodwa kuphela sokufaneleka noma ukungalungi kwabalingiswa bethu - lokhu kuyinjabulo . Uma izenzo zethu ziholela enjabulweni, akukho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo. Kodwa-ke, okuncane kakhulu kuye kwaba emhlabeni wenjabulo. Manje kuyisiko ukuba abafana namantombazane bakhuliswe ngamanani ajwayelekile, futhi ngenxa yalokho, kutholakala abesifazane abesigamu nabesigamu. Futhi phakathi kwalabo abakhulile "isigamu senhliziyo" ngokungangabazeki kunezimpikiswano ekusatshalaliseni kwamalungelo nezibopho ekuhlotsheni kwabantu.
Kulokhu, abantu bazama ukunquma (futhi, ngokufaneleke, ukuthuthukisa) izimfanelo zendalo yomlingani nomfazi. Phela, indlela yodwa yokuvumelanisa ubuhlobo bakho ukuthatha isikhundla esinqunyiwe yi-psychology yomuntu.
Ukuhlukaniswa kwezinkanyezi
Ngokubhula ngezinkanyezi, ukungalingani kwabalingiswa bomlingani kuchazwa ukuthi umyeni nomfazi bangabobuntu obuhlukahlukene. Kunezinhlobo ezimbili kuphela ezinjalo ezinkanyezini - ngokomzwelo nangengqondo. Uhlobo lomzwelo lubalwa njengeCancer, Pisces, Scorpions, Aries, Streltsov, Lviv. Kuhlakaniphile, ngokulandelana, iCapricorn, i-Taurus, i-Gemini, i-Virgo, i-Libra, i-Aquarius. Inhlanganisela yabantu abaningana abavela "emazweni" ahlukene aholela ezingxabano.
Ngenxa yalokho, abesifazane bayakhalaza ngokungahloniphi kwabantu, uma umfazi ephuma emzimbeni, futhi umyeni unengqondo. Futhi ngokuphambene nalokho.
I-Psychology yokungafani
Lapho abantu bashada, sebevele sebeqalile, izici ezigxilile, imikhuba, imibono. Eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila okuhlanganyelwe, umehluko wombhangqwana ubonakala, futhi lokhu kungezwani, ngokwezinga elilodwa noma okunye, kukhona kuzo zonke, ngisho nabantu abathintekayo kakhulu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izinga lomlingani, umfazi nomyeni, abantu baqala ukuvumelanisa omunye nomunye ngempumelelo enkulu noma encane. Le nqubo kunoma yikuphi okuholela ekuxabaneni , ezihlambalaza, ezingxabano , futhi ngezinye izikhathi ehhovisi lika-psychologist.
Ezingqondweni zinezinkinga ezine kuphela ezijwayelekile zomshado ohlangene:
- ukungabi nokuqonda kokubili ukungakwazi kwabantu ukuqonda iphuzu lomunye, noma ukungakwazi ukufakazela ukufaneleka kwabo;
- ukuhlukana kwemibono ezindabeni ezidinga umbono ovamile emndenini - okokuqala, inkinga yokukhetha inhloko, eyinhloko yomndeni;
- ukungalingani kwabalingiswa - noma yiziphi izenzo, amagama omlingani akhathaza umngane wakhe;
- ukungahambisani nemikhuba kanye nezenzo zabalingani - izenzo nezenzo zomunye womlingani zivimbela (ngokuzithandela noma ngokungazi) ukufeza imigomo ebekwe omunye oshade naye.
I-Vedas
Kodwa i-Vedas ngokushesha ngokuhle: empumalanga ikhuluma ngokuthi yini okufanele ibe yizimfanelo ezinhle zohlobo lomlingani nomlingani wakho. Yilokho, yikuphi-ikhwalithi yowesifazane, nokuthi-indoda.
- Ukuziphendulela - okungukuthi, ukuxolisa. Ngokusho kweVedas, lokhu kuyimfanelo yamadoda kuphela. Ngokushesha nje lapho owesifazane ehlaselwa emanzini, amahomoni akhe asebesifazane abhujiswe. Abesifazane kufanele benze konke ngenjabulo (futhi baze bavuke ngo-5 ekuseni). Noma kunjalo, ukuhlukunyezwa kusiza ukuxazulula izinkinga. Isizathu sokuxoshwa komfazi kungenzeka kube yindoda. Uma oshade naye elele embhedeni usuku lonke, ebheke ebhokisini, lona wesifazane unomuzwa wokuthi umndeni usemgqeni we-tailspin, futhi uba umxhwele.
- Ukwethembeka nokuvuleka yizimpawu zobuntu besifazane. Kuvela ukuthi uma owesifazane evula imicabango yakhe kumyeni wakhe, ugcina umndeni. Oshade naye obonisa imicabango yakhe nokwesaba kwenza indoda ixhomeke kuye. Akakwazi ukuhamba ngakwesobunxele, amanga, abe nesivila, ngoba uzohlushwa umuzwa wecala ngaphambi kokuhlanzeka nokuthembeka komkakhe.
- Ubumnandi yikhwalithi yomlingani womyeni. Ukuzithoba kukhula ngaphandle kokuzethemba, lo mzwa obandayo.
- Ukuthula kungumfanekiso wesifazane wokuthula. I-Pacification iphuma injabulo, futhi isho ukuvumelana okuzungezile.