Isikhumbuzo sobuhlobo buyisenzakalo esibalulekile empilweni yabathandi, ngoba bachitha unyaka bezama ukuhlobisa izimpilo zomunye nomunye, banqobe ubunzima, futhi babelane ngokujabula nezinkinga. Futhi kulabo abangazi ukuthi kungavamile kanjani ukugubha usuku lokukhumbula ubuhlobo babo, imibono elandelayo yokugubha ingaba usizo.
Kuphi ukugubha usuku lokukhumbula ubuhlobo?
Yiqiniso, isixazululo salolu daba sincike kakhulu ekungeneni kwezezimali. Uma izimali zivuma, khona-ke ungahamba ngohambo lothando. Futhi ungakwazi ukunqoba intaba yezintaba ndawonye, okungeke kube yinto ethakazelisayo kuphela, kodwa futhi ingokomfanekiso, ngoba unyaka ndawonye uyinhloko enkulu. Ngezinsizakalo zezimali ezinganiselwe, kunzima kakhulu ukucabanga ukuthi kuphi futhi kungavamile kanjani ukugubha usuku lokugcina ubuhlobo. Okokuqala, kungase kube nezindawo lapho kwenzeka khona izenzakalo ezibalulekile, isibonelo, ukujwayele, ukuqala kokuqala noma ukuvuma kokuqala. Kungcono ukwenza uhlu lwezindawo ezinjalo futhi ucabange ukuthi ungayigubha kuphi futhi kanjani ukugubha usuku lokukhumbula ubuhlobo obuhle nakakhulu. Kodwa kusukela ekugubheni kwendlu kungcono ukwenqaba, ikakhulukazi uma kungesiyo inkumbulo yokuqala, ngoba ngesikhathi esifanayo isimiso sasekhaya singenza kube nzima ukuhoxisa iholidi lonke. Kodwa uma izimo ziphoqa isikhumbuzo sokugubha ekhaya, khona-ke umuntu akufanele abe nobuvila futhi adale isimo sengqondo efulethini ngosizo lokuhlobisa, izimbali namakhandlela. Ukukhetha indawo yokugubha, ungaqala ukubhala umbhalo.
Indlela yokugubha usuku lokukhumbula ubuhlobo nabathandekayo bakho?
1. Ukuhamba ngezindleko
Lolu khetho lufanelekile kulabo abangakwazi ukugubha umkhosi wokugubha ubuhlobo bomshado, kodwa kakhulu ufuna ukuthi leli holide ligcwale inzwa. Okokuqala, kudingeka uhlele izingubo ezihambisana nomcimbi. Njengomthetho, izingubo zingabhalwa kumidlalo yeshashalazi yokugqoka noma inkampani ehlela imikhosi. Ezikhungweni zemfundo yezemidlalo kukhona izingubo eziningi, lapho, lapho uvumelene nokuphatha, ungakhetha izingubo ezidingekayo. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, izingubo zingashintshwa izingubo zangokwesimanje zakusihlwa, kodwa izingubo ezindala ezifaneleke kakhulu ukudala isimo somsondo. Ngaphandle kwezingubo, udinga ukuhleleka ukuthutha kanye namahhashi. Emadolobheni amaningi le nsizakalo itholakala ngezigxobo zangasese, kodwa uma lokhu kungenakwenzeka, amahhashi kuzodingeka athathe indawo ye-limousine noma imoto ehlosiwe ekuqaleni. Umzila wohambo ungahluka kakhulu, ungaba izindawo ezingakhohlwayo, noma uhambo oludolobheni ebusuku. I-Champagne ne-strawberry dessert phakathi nohambo ngeke ibe yinto engafaneleki. Futhi ukuqedela leli holide kungcono ekamelweni lehhotela, okuhlotshiswe ngesitayela esifanele.
2. Futhi futhi usuku lokuqala
Enye inguqulo yobusuku obuseduze - ukuvuselela isimo sosuku lokuqala. Kodwa hhayi kahle, kodwa ngokuthuthuka. Isibonelo, ukuhlobisa isitolo esingakhohlwayo epaki ngezikhala zezimbali, futhi uhlangabezane nomphefumulo wakho womshado nge-champagne nesipho esingavamile. Noma vele uhlele itafula nezihlalo, futhi uhlele isidlo ngakwesokudla phakathi nepaki, lapho, isibonelo, kwakukhona usuku lokuqala. Imininingwane ephoqelekile yalo mkhosi kufanele ibe yizembatho, leyo yonke eyaqala kuyo. Futhi uma izenzakalo ezingavamile zenzeka ngosuku lokuqala, kungenzeka ukuthi uzibuyisele kabusha, uma kungenzeka. Ukuqhubeka kosuku lokuqala kungadla esimweni esiseduze.
Ukuhamba nezithiyo
Ngenxa yalolu khetho oludlulele, usizo lwabangani luzodingeka. Uhambo lohambo, yiqiniso, izindawo ezingakhohlwa. Kodwa umqondo wokugubha wukuthi ezindaweni zonke kuyoba nesithiyo noma isimanga.
Zonke izithiyo kanye nokumangalisa kufanele kube okufanekisayo futhi kuxhunywe nezenzakalo eziye zahlala ndawonye.
4. Isidlo sothando
Lolu khetho luyinto elula, futhi kufanelekile kubo bonke abafuna ukugubha usuku lokukhumbula, kepha abanalo ithuba lokuhlela iholidi elingavamile. Futhi namanje, ngisho nokudla kwasekhaya kungenziwa okungavamile, futhi hhayi kuphela ngokuklama kwendawo yokuhlala. Okokuqala, udinga ukukhetha indawo ekhethekile endlini, lapho kungekho muntu owake wacabanga ngokusetha itafula. Kungaba umzila, ikona ngemuva kwekhabethe noma ngisho nokugeza. Kunoma yiliphi igumbi noma ngisho negumbi elincane kunendawo enjalo. Okulandelayo udinga ukuhlela indawo ekhethiwe, izithombe zesikhathi esidlule, kanye nezithombe ezifanekisela umbono wekusasa elihlangene. Isibonelo, uma kukhona iphupho mayelana nefulethi noma indlu, mayelana nokuhamba noma ibhizinisi elihlangene, ungalungisa izithombe ezifanele kusengaphambili nangesikhathi sokudla ndawonye ndawonye ukwakha ikusasa lakho ngokuhlanganisa izithombe nezithombe zakho.
Kubalulekile ukucabanga ngemenyu ye-dinner enjalo. Kunezinamba eziningi zokudla kwamaholidi anjalo, ahlanganisa imikhiqizo ye-aphrodisiacs, efaka izidlo zasolwandle, i-avocado, amantongomane, isilimo esidliwayo esinamagatsha anamanzi, izinongo kanye ne-ginger, futhi-ke, i-champagne ne-tshokoledi. Into eyinhloko ukuthi izitsha zilula, kusukela ekupheleni kwesidlo ngalolu suku kuyoba kuphela ukuqala kweholide. Isimo esilandelayo sincike kuphela kubathandi, kodwa ngosuku lokukhumbula ubuhlobo ngeke kube okungenakuqhathaniswa ukuletha ukuhlukahluka empilweni esondelene nayo.
Lapho uhlela isimo seholidi, kubalulekile ukucabangela izinto zokuzilibazisa kanye nezintandokazi zomlingani, kanye nezinhlelo ezihlangene. Lolu suku kufanele lukhumbuze abathandi balezo zikhathi ezimnandi lapho zonke zaqala khona, futhi, yiqiniso, ngalokho ababekuhlangene ngakho.