Embuzweni wokuthi ungalungisa kanjani amaphutha ezedlule, okulandelayo kufanele kuphendulwe: kuyadingeka yini? Konke esikuhlangenwe nakho, ngisho noma kukhona amaphutha ethu okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu okuyigugu. Ngeke ukhubeke - ngeke ukwazi ukubhekana nesimo esifanayo. Umuntu kufanele afunde emaphutheni akhe, kungenjalo lokhu kungukubona okuvela ngaphandle.
Bangaki abantu - izindaba eziningi kangaka
Amaphutha eminyaka edlule angasenza "isiteleka" kithi ngokuphindaphindiwe, okwenza izinhlungu zasendle zikhumbule izinkumbulo ezingathandeki. Ngeshwa, ukhohlwe
- into eyayingenakwenzeka. Asizange siphume nephilisi lomlingo "sichitha" ezinye izingcezu ezisuka kwimemori yethu. Ngakho-ke, umbuzo wokuthi ungakhohlwa kanjani amaphutha odlule akufanelekile. Unganciphisa kalula umthwalo wakho ngokwenza lokhu okulandelayo:
- yamukela okwenzekile. Lokhu sekuvele kwenzeka futhi kuhlala esikhathini esedlule. Awukwazi ukulungisa noma yini;
- zama ukubona izinzuzo zalezo zenzakalo;
- ungabi nambi noma yimuphi umuntu futhi ungamangaleli muntu;
- ungazitshisi, ngeke ushintshe noma yini. Ufunde lesi sifundo;
- Phila futhi ujabule nsuku zonke.
Ukulungisa amaphutha eminyaka edlule kwezinye izimo kungase kubonakale kungokoqobo. Ngaki kaningi lapho amantombazane osemusha ebeletha izingane futhi enikeze izintandane. Esikhathini esizayo, ukuphakama ezinyaweni zabo, bakhumbula lokho abakwenzayo bese begijima behamba ngemuva kwekhanda labo. Futhi lo mntwana usemukele umndeni ohloniphekile, unempilo, uboshwe futhi unomphela ujabule. Kulesi simo, ukungenelela komama wezinto eziphilayo kuyamkhathaza ingane kuphela. Kungenzeka ukuthi konke lokhu kwenziwa ukuze "benze izilungiso" ngokwabo, ukuze bazinze. Kufana nobugovu. Cabanga, kodwa udinga leqiniso elibabayo kumuntu owake waphonsa? Manje yiba nesibopho salokho okwenzile. Futhi ukunakekelwa kuzobonisa ukungabikho kokuphazamiseka kwakho ekupheleni kwengane.
Uma ingane ihlala enqandaneni, isifiso sakho sokumuyisa ekhaya asivunyelwe. Kodwa-ke, ulungele ukuthi angeke akugijimele entanyeni yakhe, anikele ngezandla zakhe.
Enye "iphutha lesidlulile" yinto ejwayelekile yokusebenza kwezinye izindawo ezingekho kahle. Amantombazane amaningi asuswe ezindaweni ezingenasidlangalaleni ezingosini ze-inthanethi, omagazini kanye namanye amaphrojekthi afanayo. Esikhathini esizayo, iningi labo lizisola futhi lihlazo lalokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Ungakhathazeki ngokuzisola. Kwakuyini-bekuyikho. Ngakho, ngaleso sikhathi kwakulungile. Futhi akekho onelungelo lokukwahlulela.
Okudlule akukwazi ukulungiswa, kodwa ukusebenza ukuze kuzuze ikusasa lakho - sicela.