Ukulibaziseka kwentuthuko yenkulumo kuyisimo esidabukisayo seminyaka yamuva. Yiqiniso, ayikho ibanga lobudala obucacile lapho ingane kufanele ikhulume. Kuwo wonke umuntu ukwakheka kwenkulumo kwenzeka ngabanye ngaphansi kwethonya lezinto ezihlukahlukene kakhulu. Kodwa uma ingane ingakhulumi eneminyaka engu-3, lokhu kufanele kuphawulwe.
Kungani ingane ingakhulumi?
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ingane yakho ingathula, okungukuthi:
- ukuhlukunyezwa kokubeletha kanye nezinkinga zezinzwa. Ngeshwa, ngesikhathi sokubeletha, kukhona ukulimala komqondo futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukuthuthukiswa okulandelayo kwezifo. Njengomthetho, lokhu kungabonakali uma ingane ihlolwa izivivinyo zokuvimbela izigwegwe nabachwepheshe. Kodwa nokho akuvimbeli ukuphinde uphinde uphinde ubhekane ne-neurologist ukuqinisekisa noma ukukhipha lesi sifo ngokwephrofayela yayo;
- I-Autism yisifo esingokomqondo esibonakala ngengqondo evaliwe yengane nokuphika ngokuphelele ukuxhumana;
- izinkinga ngokuzwa. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kuba isimanga esingathandeki kubazali abangazange basolwe ukugula okunjalo;
- "ukunganakekelwa" kokufundisa . Uma ingane iseneminyaka emithathu ubudala, futhi engakakhulumi, mhlawumbe ingane isuke ingenzi lutho. Futhi lapha asikhulumi ngamasu okuthuthukiswa okukhethekile, kodwa mayelana nokukhulumisana ngokomzwelo, izincwadi zokufunda, imidlalo ehlangene;
- ukukhuluma ukunganaki kwengane. Ingane ayifuni ukukhuluma uma ezwa ingcindezi eqhubekayo evela kubantu abadala, abahlala bemdonsa "etshela" futhi "baphinda". Uma ukungafuni ukukhuluma kwengane kufanele kujeziswe, isimo sokubambezeleka kokukhuluma singagxiliswa kuphela yi-neurosis eboshiwe.
Kuthiwani uma ingane ingakhulumi?
- Vakashela isazi sezengqondo, isifo sezinzwa zegazi kanye nodokotela wezinkulumo ukuze uthole isizathu sokubambezeleka kokukhuluma.
- Xhumana kabanzi nengane. Ngeshwa, abazali bavame ukuzama ukukhokhela ukungazinaki kwabo ngamathoyizi kanye nemifanekiso. I-oda elikhona lidinga ukuguqulwa ngokweqile, ukukhokha kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni okulula nokuzibandakanya okuhlangene.
- Thuthukisa ukuthuthukiswa komsebenzi wokukhuluma ngokufunda izincwadi, ukubheka izithombe, imibuzo ephakamisayo, kodwa ungacindezeli ingane.
- Sebenzisa ama-gymnastics esundu ukuze kuthuthukiswe amakhono emoto amnandi, ahlobene ngokuqondile nenkulumo.
- Sebenzisa le nqubo ukuthuthukisa ukunakekelwa kokuqondisisa kanye nokwelashwa kwenkulumo ukuqinisa imisipha yobuso.