Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi amaJuda namaSulumane enza ukusoka kwabafana, kodwa akubona bonke abakwazi ukusoka kwabesifazane. Kungani ukusoka ngamantombazane, futhi ukuthi lokhu kuyisiko esingenakuqhathaniswa nenkolelo noma inkolo, okwenza kube yingozi enkulu empilweni yowesifazane?
Ukusoka kwabafazi kanjani?
Kunezinhlobo ezintathu zokusoka ukuthi amantombazane enza.
- Ukusoka kukaFaro . Le nqubo iqukethe ukususwa okuphelele kwe-clitoris, i-labia encane nokunciphisa ukungena kwesifazane. Futhi lokhu kungenziwa kakhulu kangangokuthi kuzophazamisa ukuvuthwa okujwayelekile nokuphuma kwegazi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngaphambi kokushada komshado wokuqala, le ntombazane kufanele futhi "ilale ngaphansi kommese" - ukwandisa ukungena kwesithombeni sobulili nokulala ngokobulili kungenzeka. Kodwa emva kwalokhu kusebenza, isikhumba silahlekelwa ukuqina kwayo, ngakho-ke, lapho ubeletha, owesifazane unikezwa isigaba se-cearean.
- Ukuziqhenya . Ukusebenza kufana nokusoka kukaFaro, kuphela kulokhu okungena emgodini akulula, intombazane isuswa yi-labia kanye ne-clitoris.
- Sunna (ukusoka okuncane) . Ukusebenza kuhilela ukukhishwa okuyingxenye yesikhumba ukubopha eduze kwe-clitoris - i-hood. Lolu hlobo lokusoka kwabesifazane lubhekwa njengengozi, kanti odokotela abaningi bayanconywa, ngoba i-clitoris ibe yimibala evulekile, okusho ukuthi izwela kakhulu. Lokhu kuvame ukuqhutshwa emazweni aseYurophu. Kodwa emazweni ase-Afrika (kanye nemiphakathi yobuhlanga emhlabeni wonke), ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, bakhetha izinhlobo ezimbili zokuqala.
Kungani ukusoka ngamantombazane?
Kunzima ukusho ukuthi kungani abesifazane besokwa, mhlawumbe konke kuxhomeke ezweni kanye namasiko. Nakuba abaningi baqala ukusola inkolo, okwenza amasiko namasiko amabi. Akufanelekile ukuphuthuma kanjalo, inkolo yenkolo ihlukile. Isibonelo, ukusoka kwabesifazane akuyona imbopho e-Islam, ngaphezu kwalokho, izazi ezingamaMuslim zithi ukuphela kwalesi senzo esiyingozi, ngoba kuyiKoran ayikho izwi elilodwa mayelana nesidingo sokusoka. Izazi ezingamaSulumane zaze zacela iziphathimandla kuzo zonke izizwe zomhlaba, ezibeka izicelo zokuvimbela umsebenzi wokusoka kwabesifazane, ngoba le nqubo ihlukumeza owesifazane kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Kodwa kungani abesifazane besokwa uma inkolo ihlangene nayo?
- Okokuqala, kufanele kuthiwe emazweni amaningi ase-Afrika imindeni ehlwempu ayinalo ithuba lokufundisa izingane zabo. Ngakho-ke, ulwazi mayelana nemikhuba namasiko ludluliselwa ngamazwi, okwenza kube khona ukubonakala kwamaphutha ahlukahlukene kanye nobandlululo. Isibonelo, ukusoka kwabesifazane kwenziwa eSomalia, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi kuyamukeleka kuNkulunkulu. Futhi amantombazane, abhekene nale nqubo, bayamangala ukuthola ukuthi inkolo ayidingi ukusoka kwabesifazane. E-hadeeth ("Mu'jam at-Tabarani al-Awsat") kukhona okukhulunywe kuphela (okuqinisekiswa kwakhe akuqinisekisiwe) kokusoka okuyingxenye, lapho abesifazane bexwayiswa khona "ukusika kakhulu".
- Ubandlululo oluhlukahlukene ludlala indima. Isibonelo, abazali abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi intombazane egcina i-clitoris izokwenziwa. Futhi ukuvimbela lokhu, intombazane isokwe. Futhi, amadoda amaningi ahlala emazweni ase-Afrika, kusukela ebuntwaneni, aphefumulelwe umqondo wokuthi uma owesifazane engasokile, uyaphambene futhi angeke abe ngumfazi nomama omuhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emva kwenqubo yokusoka, ubulili bulahlekelwa ikhono lokwelula futhi ngemuva kokubeletha ngeke lulahlekelwe ukuma kwalo, okunika umuntu injabulo.
- ENyakatho yeNigeria naseMali, amaqembu ezizwe abheka ukuthi izidakamizwa zesifazane zibi futhi zizisusa ngenxa yezizathu zokuzijabulisa.
Kuvela ukuthi ukusoka okugcwele kwabesifazane akuyona nje inqubo eyingozi empilweni, kodwa futhi isiko esingenabulungisa, esingenasisekelo. Phela, akukho ncazelo enengqondo yalokhu eyingozi (ngokuvamile ukusoka kwenziwa ngaphandle kokubheka izindinganiso eziyisisekelo zokunakekelwa kwemvelo - izikhali ezinomkhuhlane, ukuntuleka kwe-anesthesia, izandla ezingcolile, njll.) Akukho msebenzi, zonke izizathu zifana nokuzama ukubonisa owesifazane ophansi, uma kuqhathaniswa nendoda , isikhundla.