Bobabili abalingani ebuhlotsheni obuningi noma obuncane babonisa ukunganeliseki kwabo kanye nomlingiswa wabo. Abesifazane abaningi bakhononda ngokuthi umyeni uvame ukuphikisana, uziphatha ngendlela engafanelekile, ahlukumeze, futhi kwezinye izimo aze aphakamise isandla sakhe. Ukuze ungazitholi, kubalulekile ukwazi ukubeka umyeni wakho endaweni yakho futhi ubuyele ubuhlobo obuvamile. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukukhuluma ngokuthula, futhi kungcono ukubhala phansi zonke izimangalo kumlingani wakho. Khona-ke udinga ukucabanga ukuthi yiziphi izimiso ezingalungile ezingahle ziphuthelwe, futhi yini okufanele ulwa nazo.
Indlela yokubeka umyeni endaweni - izeluleko zengqondo
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ama-scandals awaxazululi noma yikuphi ukuklabalaza ngezimangalo kuphela okwandisa inkinga, futhi amagama asisiza kancane kancane futhi isisombululo esihle kakhulu ukukwenza. Ake sibheke isibonelo sezindlela eziningana zokuxazulula inkinga:
- Uma umyeni engenzi lutho oluzungeze indlu, isibonelo, akhiphe udoti noma ahlanze izinto ezihlakazekile. Okokuqala ukungenzi lutho wena futhi uma umlingani eyeka ukuthola izinto zakhe enqwabeni enkulu, kuzodingeka aphinde acabange ngezikhundla zakhe.
- Iseluleko esiphumelelayo indlela yokubeka umyeni wesibindi - ukumphendula ngezwi. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane besaba ukwesaba, bonke bahlupheka, kodwa lokhu kuyisinqumo esingalungile. Esikhathini esilandelayo, lapho umlingani ezobonisa ukuhlukumezeka, memele kuye, futhi uma engasizi, ke unike i-slap. Ukuphendula okunjalo kufanele kuholele indoda. Uma lokhu kungaholela emiphumeleni oyifunayo, isixazululo kuphela ukuhlukanisa.
- Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungabeka kanjani umyeni endaweni ukuze ubuhlobo bungabe buwohloka ngokuphelele. Kwezinye izimo ukuhlukumeza kuyasiza, khona-ke umlingani ukhumbula ukuthi uyangenisa, futhi ubuhlobo kufanele bushintshe. Enye indlela ephumelelayo yinto ehlekisa ngayo, okuyinto eyenza umuntu onesihluku abe isimanga. Ungamnaki ngokuphelele umlingani wakho, uma eqala ukuziphatha kabi, uma kungekho ukusabela, akafuni ukuqhubeka nokuhlukumezeka.