Umndeni ngamunye unemithetho nemithwalo yawo yemfanelo yelungu ngalinye lomndeni. Omunye unesibopho sokuhleleka endlini, omunye upheka ukudla, omunye uthola udoti, futhi othile uya esitolo ngenani lemikhiqizo. Yiqiniso, esiteji sokuqala sokudala umndeni, wonke lo msebenzi uwela kowesifazane, akunakugwemeka futhi kuyimvelo.
Imisebenzi yamadoda emndenini kufanele ihluke ngendlela ehlukile. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi amadoda "aphile kangcono". Bonisa inhlonipho, madodakazi othandekayo.
Kubantu ngenothi
Imithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni emndenini isekelwe ekudalweni kwezimo lapho abesifazane nabantwana abazozizwa bevikelekile. Lokhu akusho ukufakwa komnyango wokuzivikela kanye nama-grilles kumafasitela. Umndeni onobuciko obubonakalayo, izimo zokuphila ezikhululekile zidalwa, ukusebenzisana kubusa phakathi kwabashadile, nabantwana abajabulayo bagijima bezungeza indlu - lo ngumndeni ovikelwe. Kulandela ukuthi indoda idinga (Angiyithandi igama elithi "kumele"):
- ukuba abe yinhloko yomndeni, ukuba abe yindlalifa. Ukwenza izinqumo nokuhlinzekela umndeni ngokwezezimali kuwumsebenzi ofanelekayo onzima;
- ube "indoda". Lokho owesifazane oyoba khona emndenini, ukuziphatha kwakhe kuxhomeke ezimweni umuntu azenza azungeze umkakhe. Ukungena nokungahoxiswanga owesifazane, ukwehluleka komyeni wakhe ukwenza izinqumo futhi abe "indoda", ukungathandi ukuba yinhloko yomndeni ekugcineni kuzomnika owesifazane othokozelayo ozobheka okumele athathe izinto eziningi ezandleni zakhe, kuhlanganise nomyeni wakhe;
- ube "ubaba." Imisebenzi kaPapa emndenini ihlanganiswe ngokungenakuqhathaniswa nokudala igunya emehlweni abantwana. Ukuba yisibonelo esihle sokuthi indodana nekusasa "ukukholwa emadodeni" ngendodakazi yakhe akuyona into elula. Ukunakekela ingane kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe, ukufundisa nokuthanda ingane yakhe kuyisibopho esivamile sabazali. Ubaba kufanele anikeze ingane isikhathi futhi abonise ukukhathazeka, ngoba kuyamjabulisa kakhulu ukuzwa kusukela "ingane" kwengane kunokuba "umalume".
Abesifazane, banakekele amadoda futhi ube yisikhuthazo kubo.