Okhethiweyo wakho ushadile futhi awukwazi ukuthi ukwenze ngani? Njalo lapho uhlangana, bobabili nigcwele imizwa, futhi konke lokhu kwenzekile iminyaka eminingi. Ekuboneni kokuqala, kufanele uhlele konke, ngoba akuwona wonke umuntu ongaqhayisa injabulo ngenkathi eshadile, kodwa awujabuli futhi ucabanga ukuthi ungamyeka kanjani ukuthanda indoda eshadile, ngoba uma engayikushiya umndeni, akukhona nje ukuthi akukho mvelaphi yobuhlobo obunjalo. Izazi zengqondo zinikeza iseluleko ngalokhu.
Indlela yokuyeka iseluleko sothando - isazi sengqondo
Ukuze isimo sakho sengqondo sibe sesimo sonke siphenduke, uzicabange endaweni yowesifazane womthetho wakho. Ngempela, empeleni, ukuba sisesimweni sakhe - kunzima nakakhulu kunenkosikazi.
Kodwa lena yindlela elula, uma ingakusizi, kubalulekile ukuthatha izinyathelo ezingaphezulu. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukuba kuqala uqaphele iqiniso lokuhlukanisa futhi zithathele kusengaphambili, ngoba ngaphandle kokwenza lokhu kusengaphambili, ngokushesha ngesikhathi umzimba uzobe ususwe. Lokhu kugcwele iqiniso lokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwengqondo kuzothinta umzimba njalo futhi kungadonsela izinyanga noma ngisho neminyaka. Ukulungiselela kuzosiza ukucindezela inqubo yokubhekana nesikhathi. Uma ufuna ukuyeka ukuthanda indoda eshadile, iseluleko sezengqondo sinikeza umsebenzi osebenzayo kuwe. Zihlakulele, uzicabange ngokwakho, ikusasa lakho, wenze izinhlelo ngaphandle kwalena muntu, ufike nomgomo , isibonelo, uthole amalungelo futhi uthenge imoto eminyakeni embalwa, uqondise yonke imicabango yakho ekufaniseni kwalo mbono. Awunaso isikhathi sokukhathazeka futhi ucabanga ngokuhlukanisa, ushintsha, ugcwalisa okungekho eminye imibono.
Ungamyeka kanjani ukuthanda indoda eshadile?
Lo mbuzo uzibeka futhi abesifazane abaningi. Ekuboneni kokuqala kungase kubonakale ukuthi konke kubi kakhulu, kodwa ukubheka isimo kusuka kolunye uhlangothi, uzoqonda ukuthi umyeni uyisekelo lakho elithembekile futhi
Uma inkinga enkulu ukuyeka ukuthanda indoda eshadile ekuthandayo, ungavumeli imicabango embi ekhanda lakho-lena yiyona mithetho esemqoka yabangokwengqondo. Jabulela empilweni, cabanga ngezikhathi ezinhle zokuhlukanisa, futhi maduze uzobona ukuthi kunezikhathi eziningi ezinhle kulokhu. Indoda ethandwayo iyakwazi ukuhamba noma yini ngenxa yowesifazane, futhi uma ithola izizathu eziningi, igweme ukuhlukanisana nomkakhe, cabanga ukuthi kungani udinga lowo okhethiwe, ngoba akulona iqiniso lokuthi uzokwenza okufanayo nawe okwesikhashana.