Cishe wonke umuntu kithi unganandaba noma awunaki mayelana noshushisi kanye nama-transvestites. Nakuba, ngaphambi kokuba udwebe iminwe kubantu abanjalo, kungaba kuhle ukuqonda isizathu sokuziphatha okungavamile ngisho nokuphila, ngoba iphutha lonke liyi-dysphoria yobulili, noma kunalokho ifomu layo elijulile. Futhi, okokuqala, ukukhuluma ngabantu abangeke baqaphele ubulili babo, kodwa basebenzise ukungenelela kokuhlinzwa, kusuka kumuntu ophendukela ekubeni ngowesifazane futhi ngokuphambene nalokho, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi ngokwengqondo bonke baphilile ngokuphelele. Isizathu esilandelayo sisebuchosheni bobulili obubalwe ngenhla.
Izimbangela zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili
Kuze kube manje, imithi ayikude kakhulu ekutadisheni izimbangela zalesi sifo. Ngokuvamile bakholelwa ukuthi konke kufihlwe ezingeni lezinto eziphilayo. Ngakho-ke, imbangela yokubukeka kwesifo sobulili emntwaneni ingaba ukungalingani kwamama-hormonal komama noma isifo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, okwabangela ukuvela kwezinkinga ezingokwengqondo zengane.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphazamiseka kobulili, njengoba lokhu kubizwa, kungabuka ngenxa yokungafani phakathi kocansi lwe-chromosomal. Kanti futhi odokotela baveza esinye isizathu sezifo - i-hermaphroditism, enefomu efihliwe. Kodwa nokho isizathu esiyinhloko kubhekwa izinguquko ezingezansi ze-intrauterine.
Ukuhlukaniswa kwesifo
Bobabili kubantu besilisa nabesifazane, i-dysphoria ingathatha lezi zindlela ezilandelayo:
- i-pseudo-transvertism;
- ukuziphatha okubi kobulili obuqinile;
- i-transvertism yeqiniso;
- ukuguqulwa kwesisu;
- ukuxhasana ngokobulili okungewona op.
Izimpawu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili
Ukwenqaba ukugoba komuntu siqu. Umzimba nomqondo womuntu kukhona emzabalazweni ongunaphakade. Kunzima umuntu ukuba azibuke esibukweni futhi abone kuye igobolondo ehluke ngokuphelele.
Ukuziqhenya wena nobulili obuhlukile. Ngisho nasebuntwaneni, umfana noma intombazane ingaqala ukugqoka hhayi njengokusho komphakathi, akuvamile ukuthi ubulili bakhe buziphatha.
Ukunganeliseki kwengqondo nge "I" yakhe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kunzima kumuntu ukucacisa indlela yakhe yokuziphatha ngokocansi, ngenxa yalokhu, iziqhwaga ziqala ukumhlupha. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi akayona nje into ekhethekile, kodwa umphakathi okhishiwe, isikhala esimhlophe. Ngenxa yalokho, ingaba isifo sengqondo, ihambisane nokucindezeleka okuvamile, ukunganaki, imicabango yokuzibulala.
Umoya ocindezelekile njalo. Kubangelwa okokuqala, ngumphakathi ongenamqondo ngokumelene nomuntu onjalo, ngokungamukeleki kobulili bakhe.
Indlela yokuphatha ubuhlungu besifo sobulili?
Indlela evame kakhulu yokwelapha lesi sifo inguquko yezocansi ezikodwa. Abantu abahlukunyezwa ngokobulili, ukuze bangabe behlupheka kakhulu esikhathini esizayo, indlela ewukuphela kokuphatha isifo sofuba ngesifo sobulili ukulala ngaphansi komese wokuhlinza. Ngaphandle kokusebenza, ukwelashwa kwama-hormonal kwenziwa, ngenxa yalokho ama-hormone abesilisa aqala ukuqala, isifuba sikhula, inani lezinwele emzimbeni liyancipha, futhi-ke abesifazane besilisa.
Enye indlela, indlela yokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezisiza ukunciphisa ukubonakaliswa kwe-neurosis, ukucindezeleka . Ngenxa yalokho, kunokwenzeka ukunciphisa izimpawu zobulili besifo sobulili, kuyilapho abantu kungenzeka bakwazi ukuzivumelanisa nabantu.
Ukuze uzisize ukuthola i-"I" yeqiniso, kubalulekile ukufuna iseluleko ku-sexologist, ngoba izingxoxo ezingenangqondo ngalesi sihloko nabathandekayo bakho ezimweni eziningi zingangcwina nje isimo futhi zishukumise umuntu ukuba avalwe ezweni langaphandle.