Ngesifiso sabo sokuxhumana futhi sibe emphakathini, abantu bahlukaniswe ngamaqembu amakhulu amabili: ama- extroverts nama-introverts . Isizathu salokhu umehluko kusekuhlelweni kwenqubo yesifo kanye namandla okusebenza. Ukuchithwa nokufaka isethulo kuhlobene nezimfanelo ezingenasici zomuntu ezingenakushintshwa nganoma iyiphi indlela, kodwa zingalungiswa kancane ngosizo lokukhulisa noma ukuzifundisa.
Ubani ongu-extrovert?
Izazi zengqondo, ukuphendula lo mbuzo ukuthi kusho ukuthini i-extrovert, ukhokhela ukunakekela okuyinhloko isidingo sangaphakathi somuntu ekusebenzelaneni nabantu abakuzungezile. Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, i-extrovert ngumuntu ohlose ukuxhumana nabanye oxhumana nabo abahlukahlukene nabanye abantu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abe nabantu abasendaweni yakhe abangabelana naye ngalokho okuhlangenwe nakho futhi basebenzise isikhathi sakhe samahhala. Umuntu onjalo akakwazi ukusebenza yedwa, ngoba udinga ukuhlala njalo kwabanye abantu. Kubalulekile ukuba axoxe nomunye umuntu, axoxe ngezinhlelo zakhe, akhulume ngalokho okwenzekayo. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga iseluleko somuntu noma akakwazi ukunquma ukuthi angaphila kanjani. Ngoba i-extrovert akuyona into ebalulekile kakhulu yokuxhumana, njengenqubo ngokwayo.
Ku-esoteric, kunokuqonda okuhlukile okushiwo yi-extrovert. Ngokwalesi sayensi, umuntu uthuthukisa amandla okuphila noma ngesikhathi sokulala, noma uthola enkulumweni yokuxhumana nabanye abantu. Ngethulo ebusuku, amandla akwanele akhiqizwa, ngakho-ke phakathi nosuku abadingi ukushaywa kabusha kwabanye. Ama-introverts azizwa ehle yedwa, kokubili ngesikhathi somsebenzi nangesikhathi sokuphumula. Okuphambene nalokho, ngokungafani nama-introverts, musa ukukhiqiza inani elidingekayo lamandla ngenkathi belele, ngakho-ke bavame ukukuthola ngaphandle. Kubonakala ukuthi kusukela ekubukeni kwe-esotericism, i-extrovert ngumuntu othola amandla amaningi adingekayo ekusebenzisaneni nabanye abantu.
Indlela yokuqonda - i-extrovert noma i-introvert?
Umuntu ungumuntu ovelele uma enezici ezinjalo:
- Uthanda ukusebenza eqenjini. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kungase kubonakale ukuthi akakhathazeki kakhulu ngalokho okwenzekayo nxazonke. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa ye-extrovert, into esemqoka ukuthi kukhona abantu abakuzungezile ukuthi bangaxhumana nabo uma efuna.
- Uthola wonke amathuba okuxhumana, angena kalula kubantu abangabazi.
- Uba yisisindo futhi unesizungu ngokulondeka isikhathi eside.
- Uthanda ukwenza emphakathini, uthanda amaqembu amnandi, ama-discos, amaholide.
- Ukunethezeka esixukwini.
- I-extrovert ihlale inabajwayele abaningi.
- Uthola amandla hhayi kuphela ekukhulumisaneni okuhle, kodwa futhi nasekukhulumisaneni okungalungile. Ngakho-ke, ingahlanganisa ezimweni ezinzima futhi ixazulule izinkinga.
- Tshela abanye okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo.
- Ngokuphendula kwe-extrovert, umuntu angakwazi njalo ukuqonda ukuthi uzizwa kanjani.
- Njengoba ukuzethemba kwangaphakathi kwe-extroverts kunzima, kubaluleke kakhulu kubo ukuthi abanye bacabangani ngabo.
Ingabe i-extrovert ne-introvert ingaba abangane?
Njengoba i-extrovert ingokwemvelo imnandi kakhulu, ingathola ulimi oluvamile cishe nanoma yimuphi umuntu, kufaka phakathi izethulo. Lezi zinhlobo ezimbili zobuntu zingaba nokuxhumana okugcwele nokucebile. I-extrovert ngenjabulo iyohlanganyela nokwethulwa okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nokubonakala kwayo, futhi i-introvert izojabula ukulalela. Kodwa-ke, njengoba i-extrovert ingakwazi ukulondoloza ubuhlobo obuseduze nomuntu oyedwa isikhathi eside, futhi isethulo sishaywa ngokushesha ngokuxhumana, othintana nabo isikhathi eside phakathi kwabo baningi. Ubuhlobo phakathi kwe-extrovert kanye ne-introvert kungenzeka kuphela esimweni sokuthi bacabangisisa izici zomunye nomunye.