Umsebenzi we-Psycho-corrective nezingane ezinezinkinga zokuziphatha

Akuyona njalo inqubo yokuba ngumuntu wengane ihamba kahle. Izinkinga zingavela nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngenxa yesimo sezulu esibi emndenini, imfundo engafanele noma izimo ezingaphezu kokulawulwa kwabazali: izenzakalo ezibuhlungu, ukucindezeleka, ithonya lontanga nabanye abantu abadala, njll. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ukusebenza kwengqondo nokulungisa izingane ezinephulwa ukuziphatha. Njengomthetho, kuqhutshwa ochwepheshe bezengqondo, kodwa omama nobaba kumele bazi futhi izimiso eziyisisekelo zokuxhumana okunjalo nomntwana.

Kusho ukuthini ukuphazamiseka kokuziphatha?

Ukuphulwa okuvamile kakhulu kokuziphatha kwezingane kuhlanganisa:

• ukungakwazi ukuxhumana ngokugcwele noothisha, abazali, abanye abadala, ukungabi nampendulo eyanele ezenzweni zabo;
• ukungqubuzana njalo neontanga;
• ukuhoxiswa ngokwakho, ukuvalwa njengoba umphumela wokuzizwa unesizungu esingaphakathi;
• ukuhlukunyezwa okungaxhunyiwe noma ukufutheka;
• ubunzima bokuqeqeshwa (kubantwana beminyaka yobudala besikoleni esiphakeme, ukulungiswa kwezimo ezinjalo zokuziphatha kuyinto ebalulekile, kungenjalo kungenzeka ukuthi ukhohlwe ngesitifiketi esinamabanga amahle);
• ukuzithoba, ukuthembela kwabanye;
• ukufuna inkululeko ngokunqatshwa kwemikhuba yokuziphatha evunyelwe ngokuvamile;
• ukungahlehlisi kahle.

Ukuziphatha kwengane kulungiswa kanjani?

Ngokuvamile umntwana onamazwi akhe nezenzo ngokwakhe ngokwakhe uyacela usizo kubantu abadala. Ukwelashwa kwengqondo kwabantwana abanezinkinga zokuziphatha kuhlanganisa:

1. Ukudala isimo sengqondo esihle ekukhulumisaneni. Ingane idinga uthando nokuqonda, ngakho umsebenzi we-psychologist ukubona izici zakhe ezinhle, ukuthi yini enamandla, futhi ufunde ukulalela nokuzwa.
2. Ukuqhuba ukuhlolwa nokuxoxwa okuthembekile kuyadingeka ukunquma ukuthi impela ukusiza ezinganeni ezinezinkinga zokuziphatha kuzofakazela kulesi simo esithile.
3. Yenza imishanguzo ekhethekile ukuze isiguli esincane sifunde ukuqaphela nokulungisa imicabango yakhe nemizwa yakhe. Isibonelo, lokhu: abahlanganyeli bahlala embuthanweni futhi ngamunye wabo uthi: "Uma ngiphenduka encwadini, ngabe ngizoba ... (isichazamazwi, umagazini, njll)", "Uma ngiphenduka ngaba ukudla, ngizoba ...", njll. Imiphumela emihle inikezwa umsebenzi "Shop Magic" , lapho abahlanganyeli bokuqeqeshwa, njengokungathi, bezishintsha izimfanelo zabo ezinolaka ezifana nokuthukuthela, ukucasuka, ukuphuthuma okusheshayo kubantu abafana nozwela, ukubekezela, umusa, njll.
4. Kuhle kakhulu ukuhlela ukwelashwa kwezifo zokuziphatha ezinganeni zasenkulisa ngosizo lwe -therapy-tale therapy, lapho ingane ithola khona ithuba lokuzikhomba komuntu kusuka kubalingiswa, noma ukwelapha ubuciko, lapho ingane iveza imizwelo yakhe.