Kungenzeka yini ukuwela ingane?

Ekuphileni, konke kwenzeka, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abanye abantu bangena empilweni yethu, kanti abanye bayishiya, bashintsha imigomo kanye nezinto eziza kuqala, izifiso namathuba. Ngakho-ke, uma unquma ukubhapathiza ingane yakho, abazali kufanele baqonde ukuthi lokhu kuyisinyathelo esibi kakhulu futhi esinomthwalo wemfanelo. Isakramente sokubhapathizwa empilweni yomuntu kuyisiko okwenziwa ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi kumbuzo wabazali: kungenzeka yini ukuwela umntwana, bonke abapristi banikeza impendulo engavamile: cha!

Ukukhethwa kukaNkulunkulu nonina kubalulekile, ngoba laba bantu, bacabanga ngalesi simo, bathatha umthwalo omkhulu. Imisebenzi yabo ayigcini ekukhoneni esontweni ngesikhathi se-sakramente, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi bakwazi ukusiza ekukhuliseni umntwana, abe ngabaqondisi bakhe, ukwabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho kokuphila futhi abe nesibopho sezenzo zakhe phambi kukaNkulunkulu. U-godfather uthathwa ngokuthi u-godfather oyinhloko, unina ungowokuthi intombazane, ngakho-ke ukuba khona kwalabo abathandana nabo akudingekile ingane.

Kuthiwani uma u-godfather engayifezi imisebenzi yakhe?

Kubuye kwenzeke nokuthi esikhathini esizayo abazali bayadumala ekukhethweni kwabo, noma omunye wabazali bakaNkulunkulu ngokwakhe wenqaba isimo sobukhosi. Indlela yokuwela kahle umuntu, ayikho, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthatha umsizi ekukhuliseni ingane. Uma ekhethile ummeleli ofanelekayo, kufanele acele isibusiso sakhe kulokhu okuvela kumqondisi wakhe ongokomoya. Abapristi babiza laba bantu "abalamukeli", futhi umsebenzi wabo wokuqala ukuletha umntwana empilweni yesonto: inhlanganyelo, izinsizakalo zokuvakashela.

Abanye abazali bakholelwa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuwela ingane kwelinye isonto, ukufihla kumpristi isenzo esisodwa esenziwa umkhuba. Kodwa lesi yisono esikhulu, esithathwe ngabazali bobabili kanye noNkulunkulu omusha. Ngaphandle kwalokho ungacabanga ngisho nesenzo esinjalo. Kubomama nabababa abacabanga ukuwela ingane, kukhona enye indlela ekhona - lokhu ukucela umfundisi ukuba abusise ingane yakho futhi abe umeluleki wakhe ongokomoya.

Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi omazintombi kumele babhapathizwe futhi babe okholweni lwakho. Abashadile abakwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi emntwaneni oyedwa - lokhu kuvunyelwe isonto.

Uma empilweni yakho kwenzeka ukuthi omunye wabazali bakaNkulunkulu washintsha ukholo, waphule umthetho, noma wamane nje wenqabela imisebenzi yakhe, futhi wazibuza ukuthi kufanele uwele kanjani umntwana, izinceku zesonto zinikeza iseluleko esisodwa esiwusizo: ukuthandaza kuNkulunkulu ukuba athethelelwe futhi ahlawulelwe lesi sono indoda, futhi ingane ikhetha umqeqeshi ongokomoya.