Ngemuva kokuba abantu bakithi banethuba lokuhamba emhlabeni jikelele, futhi imingcele ivulekele izivakashi zakwamanye amazwe, imishado phakathi kwabameleli bezizwe ezihlukene iyaba ethandwa kakhulu.
Izibalo zemishado ye-interethnic ibonisa ukuthi abesifazane bangena okungenani kabili ngokuphindaphindiwe njengamadoda, nokuthi inombolo yabo ikhula njalo. Naphezu kwaleli qiniso, isimo sengqondo emishadweni yombumbulu siqaphele, senza ukwesaba okukhulu ngisho nokulahlwa kwabanye. Ake sizame ukubona ukuthi imishado ejabulisayo nabangaphandle kungenzeka, futhi wazi kangcono izici eziyinhloko zokubhalisa kwazo.
Izici zokushada
Isici esiyinhloko ukuthi umshado wezizwe ezihlukene, okokuqala, ubumbano lwamasiko amabili ahlukene ngokuphelele. Laba bantu bakhuliswa ngezimo ezihluke ngokuphelele, banemikhuba ehlukene, imibono yokuphila nesimo sengqondo ezicini ezibalulekile zokuphila. Isibonelo, nalabo abamele isiko laseYurophu ulimi oluvamile akulona lukhuni ukuthola, kepha abamele imiphakathi yasempumalanga, eningizimu nasenyakatho bahluke kakhulu. Futhi ezinye izizwe zakamuva zasikhulisa ezinganeni ngokuqondene nomusa wazo.
Ukungena emshadweni wamazwe omhlaba, khumbula ukuthi kuzodingeka ubhekane nezwe elihluke ngokuphelele, hhayi njalo lokungenisa izihambi. Emndenini wakho kungenzeka ukuthi ungahambisani nemibono yokulima, ukukhulisa izingane, isimo sengqondo ngezihlobo, amaholide, njll. Ngakho-ke lungele izinto ezimangazayo ezihlukahlukene kanye nokuyekethisa okuqhubekayo: ukubekezela, ukuqonda kanye nothando kuzosiza ukubhebhethekisa noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana. Uma abashadile behlala emazweni ahlukene, cishe, ukubhaliswa komshado nomuntu wezizwe kuzokufaka ngokufakazela ukuthuthwa komunye wabo. Futhi-ke kuzodingeka abhekane nokubunjwa okwesikhashana kokuzakhamuzi, izimo zokuphila ezihluke ngokuphelele, ukucabanga okuhlukile futhi, mhlawumbe, ukunqoba umkhawulo wolimi.
Indlela yokuhlela umshado nomfokazi?
Kuyinto efiselekayo ukubhalisa umshado nomfokazi ezweni ozohlala kulo ngemva kwalokho, ngoba umshado owenziwe ngokwemithetho yombuso owodwa awubonakali njalo kwenye.
Ukuze uqonde indlela yokwenza umshado nomfokazi ukuze kungabangeli ukungabaza kunoma yiliphi izwe emhlabeni, funda ngokucophelela umthetho futhi uqoqe yonke imibhalo edingekayo. Sicela uqaphele ukuthi kumele zihunyushwe ngolimi lwezwe ozobhalisa ngalo umshado futhi zenziwe ngokomthetho. Uhlu lwamadokhumenti adingekayo alufani emazweni ahlukene, kodwa nakanjani uzodinga ipasipoti, isitifiketi sokuzalwa, isitifiketi sokubhalisa indawo yokuhlala kanye nesitifiketi sokuhlukanisa uma ngabe ube yilungu lalo ngaphambili.
Qaphela ngokucophelela uma uzobhalisa umshado phesheya, ikakhulukazi emazweni anenkimbinkimbi
Ngakho-ke, imishado yezinkondlo, lo mcimbi uyingqayizivele. Kodwa akungabazeki ukuthi ukuzwana emndenini akuxhomeki ebuzwe bomuntu oshade naye, kodwa ngobuqotho nangomfudumalo ebuhlotsheni, ukuhlonipha, ukwethenjwa nezinye izingxenye ezibalulekile zobudlelwane obuvuthiwe.