Izingane kufanele zidle kaningi kangakanani ubisi lwebele?

Amama omncane ngokuvamile anombuzo wokuthi umuntu udinga kangakanani ukondla umntwana osanda kuzalwa ngobisi lwebele. Ubisi lwebele lubumbwe esiswini somntwana ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, emva kwamahora angu-1,5-2 ngokoqobo, ingane ingadinga ingxenye entsha.

Kudingeka kaningi kangakanani ukondla umntwana osanda kuzalwa?

Ngokuvamile kubhekwa ukuthi ukondla izingane kusuka izikhathi ezingu-8 kuya kwezi-12 ngosuku kuyinto evamile. Noma kunjalo, leli xabiso liyakwazi ukuhluka, kokubili ngokukhulu nangokwesincanyana. Kuphela emva kwesikhathi esithile (amasonto amabili) noma yikuphi umbuso oyoguqulwa. Ngokuvamile, isikhathi esiphakathi kokuphakelayo ngamahora angu-2-3.

Uyazi kanjani ukuthi ingane ingekho ubisi obanele?

Oomama abaningi bavame ukucabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukondla umntwana osanda kuzalwa ngobisi lwebele. Ungazi njalo uma kugcwele noma cha. Izimpawu ezilandelayo zingabonisa ukuthi ingane ilambile:

• ukubonakala kokukhathazeka, ukuqonda, ukuqothula;
• ukuheha umama ngokushaya imisindo;
• I-baby dummy ehlongozwayo ayishintshi isimo.

Phakathi namasonto ambalwa okuqala okuphila, umntwana ubonisa izimpawu zokulamba hhayi njalo futhi hhayi njalo. Ngakho-ke, igebe phakathi kwezidingo lingashintsha phakathi kwamahora angu-2-6. Ngakho-ke, iningi labamama abalusisa, balandele isikhathi esithile samahora amathathu.

Njengoba ingane ikhula futhi ikhula, ingane ihamba ngezigaba eziningana ezihlukile emsebenzini. Ngakho-ke, phakathi kwezinsuku ezingu-7-10 zokuphila kukhona ukukhula okujulile, okuhambisana nokukhula kwenkanuko kwengane. Lokhu kubonakala nasemasontweni angama-4-6, amasonto angu-12, kanye nezinyanga eziyisithupha. Umzimba womama uguqukela ngokushesha kulezi zinguquko. Ngakho-ke, omama abanesihlengikazi abaningi bayabela isabelo esikhulu sebisi ngezikhathi ezithile.

Ngakho-ke, umama ngamunye kufanele azi ukuthi kungenzeka kangakanani ukondla umntwana osanda kuzalwa nobisi lwebele ukuze ugweme ukuphefumula.