Ngokushada abantu ikakhulukazi othandweni noma ngesifiso somunye. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu ongathwala imizwa phakathi neminyaka. Lokhu akumangalisi, ngoba umuntu uzimisele ukwenza amaphutha. Ngesikhathi somshado, isiphetho sezinto ezimbili ezandleni zombhalisi, ngesikhathi sesehlukaniso - kusukela kubameli bezingxabano zomndeni.
Uthando luyinto ephathekayo, futhi ngenxa yesizathu esithile ingase iphele ngenxa yesizathu esithile noma ingabhubhisa umlingani wakho. Ukuhlukaniswa okungajwayelekile ngokuhamba kahle, kufana nokungafani, ngokuvamile ukuxabana phakathi kwabashadile kuqala ngenxa yezingane, impahla noma ezinye izinkinga, noma ngabe imizwelo ishisa embhangqweni oshadile futhi iqondiswa imizwa kunokuba ikwazi ukucabanga. Ngenxa yalokho, ngenxa yezikhalazo nokungavumelani okuqoqiwe, indoda nomfazi abakwazi ukwamukela isinqumo esihle ngokubili. Futhi ngokuvamile kuvame ukuvela ezinkingeni ezinjalo izingane zihlupheka.
Izingxabano zomndeni zingxabano ezivela ebuhlotsheni bomthetho bomndeni.
Izingxabano zomndeni-zihlanganisa:
- ukuqedwa komshado / isahlukaniso sesahlukaniso;
- ukuqashelwa komshado ongavumelekile;
- isiphetho / ukuqedwa / izinguquko esivumelwaneni somshado;
- ukwabelana kwempahla etholakale ngokuhlanganyela;
- Izingxabano eziphathelene nokukhuliswa kwezingane;
- ukusungulwa kobunikazi;
- ukutakula kwe-alimony;
- ukuvikelwa / ukulahlwa / ukuvinjelwa kwamalungelo omzali.
Ikhodi Yomndeni ihlukanisa iqembu elilandelayo labantu abahlobene nomthetho womndeni:
- abazali, izingane, izingane ezamukelekayo, abazali abazitholayo;
- umshado;
- ugogo, umkhulu, umkhulu-ugogo, ugogo-ugogo, abazukulu, abazukulukazi;
- ubaba wesifazane, omama, omncane;
- umzukulu wesifazane, ingane encane.
Uhlangothi lwezomthetho izingxabano zomndeni
Izifundo zibonise ukuthi izingxabano ezivame kakhulu ziphathelene nezinqubo zesehlukaniso, ukwabiwa kwempahla yomshado, izingxabano ngokukhokha kokusekelwa kwengane. Uma izingxabano ezinkulu zivela phakathi kwabashade noma izingane kanye nabazali abangakwazi ukukhonjwa ngaphakathi komndeni, kufanele aphendule omeli ngemibango yomndeni ngokukhethekile ekuxazululeni izingxabano ezinjalo. Bazokusiza ukuba uqonde inkinga, unikeze izindlela zokuphuma kuzo futhi unikeze iseluleko esidingekayo. Izingxabano eziningi zomndeni zingalungiswa ngokuthula, okubandakanya ukusayina kwezivumelwano noma izivumelwano ezifanele. Isibonelo samaphepha anjalo siyoba inkontileka yomshado, isivumelwano sokukhokhwa kwemali yengane, ukwabiwa kwempahla. Uma kwenzeka isivumelwano singasebenzi, izingxabano zomndeni kuzodingeka zinqunywe enkantolo. Kukholelwa ukuthi ukucubungula izingxabano zomndeni enkantolo kuyabiza futhi kuyinkinga, kodwa ucabanga ukuthi isiphetho somntwana esilinganisweni somntwana noma ingxenye yendawo yakho, uzothola okungaphezu kwalokho ozolisebenzisa kummeli nommeli wezingxabano zomndeni.
Okumangalisa, kodwa amacala omndeni - uhlobo oluyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu lwamacala enkantolo lapho amancane, abonakala sengathi ayingane, imininingwane ebalulekile. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukukhetha ummeli ofanelekayo ngemibango yomndeni. Uchwepheshe onguchwepheshe empikiswaneni ezindabeni zomndeni kufanele aqondiswe hhayi kuphela ngezindaba zomthetho, kodwa futhi nasengqondweni, ukuze aqonde amaklayenti, ukusiza ngangokunokwenzeka ukuxazulula impikiswano futhi ahambe ngokushesha.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, isazi esihle siyosindisa isikhathi sakho futhi sikukhulule ezindabeni ezinjengokuthi:
- ukuqoqwa kolwazi nemibhalo;
- uxhumane neziphathimandla zikahulumeni;
- ukukhishwa kwamaphepha.
Kanti futhi, ngokubambisana nommeli, iklayenti ingase ingabi khona enkantolo, akudingekile ukuba ulahle amandla, impilo kanye nesikhathi sokulinda, nokuxhumana nomphikisi.
Uma kukhona ukungavumelani, kufanele kuxazululwe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukwehlisa ezimweni ezinjalo kungabangela ukuwohloka kobudlelwane phakathi kwamaqembu, ukuphelelwa amandla ngokomzwelo kanye nokuvela kwengqondo enganeni.
Ukuhlukanisa kungaba yindlela eya ekuphileni okungcono, uma nje uhlaziya amaphutha akho bese uthola iziphetho. Into esemqoka ukungavumeli amaphutha omthetho.