Umshado umkhosi omuhle, imfihlakalo engcwele evumela ukuthi umbhangqwana ube nokuxhumana okungokomoya. Noma kunjalo, kuzokwenza lokhu kuphela ngokuveza isitifiketi somshado, ngakho-ke ngokuvamile abantu abasha baya ehhovisi lokubhalisa, bese beya esontweni futhi ngemuva kokuba baqale ukugubha umshado. Kodwa abaningi banquma ngomcimbi womshado hhayi ngosuku lomshado, kodwa emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa noma eminyakeni ngemva kwalokho. Indlela yokulungiselela umshado kulokhu futhi ngokuvamile, kungenzeka yini umbhangqwana womshado oye wahlala iminyaka eminingana emshadweni?
Ngezinye izikhathi akunakwenzeka ukushada ngosuku lomshado kanye nalabo abashadile abahlehlisiwe bephethe lolu hlelo isikhathi esithile. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi lo mbhangqwana uya emshadweni eminyakeni embalwa emva komshado. Isikhathi esinjalo sokulinda umbhangqwana ukuqonda ukufaneleka kwesinqumo sabo sichazwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubonakala sengathi kulungile - kubalulekile ukushada kuphela uma kunesidingo sangaphakathi (esingokomoya) salesi simiso, hhayi ngoba manje sekusemfashini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isonto liyaqaphela umshado kuphela uma lenziwa ngokuvumelana nemithetho yalo, umshado womphakathi awuyona nje ukuhlangana, ubufebe. Okusho ukuthi, udinga ukushada ngosuku lwakho lomshado? Uma unamathela ngokuqinile emithethweni yesonto, yebo yebo. Kodwa uma intombi engenacala ingashadi, isikhathi sokushada ngeke sidlale indima ekhethekile. Ngakho-ke, uma lo mbhangqwana unquma ukushada ngemva kwesikhathi somshado, khona-ke kusukela ekubukeni kwezinkambiso zanamuhla, akukho lutho olwesabekayo kulokhu.
Ungalungiselela kanjani umshado?
Umkhosi womshado wama-Orthodox udinga ukulungiswa futhi akulona nje kuphela uhlu lwabavakashi nezigqoko (nakuba lokhu kuyadingeka kucatshangelwe). Into eyinhloko ukuhlanza okungokomoya, yingakho ngaphambi komshado ngaphambi kokushaywa kweviki-eside, futhi ngaphambi kokuba umshado umbhangqwana ube khona enkonzweni, bavume futhi bathole inhlanganyelo. Manje amasiko omshado ashintshile kancane ukuze amjabulise izinhlanzi zanamuhla. Ngakho, ukuzila kuncishisiwe kube yizinsuku ezintathu, futhi ukuvuma nokwabelana okuvunyelwayo kuvunyelwe ekupheleni komshado.
Kumele uzinakekele isethi somshado - ungayithenga ezitolo zesonto noma uzilungiselele. Uzodinga izindandatho, ithawula, amakhandlela omshado, amashekhi amane ngaphansi kwamakhandlela (kusuka kwendwangu efanayo nethawula), imifanekiso yoMsindisi kanye neNdodana.
Kufanele ugqoke kanjani emshadweni?
Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi umakoti ubophekile ukuba abe khona emcimbini wesigqoko somshado, kodwa lokhu akulona iqiniso ngempela-kungenzeka ukuba agqoke noma yikuphi ukugqoka noma isambatho ngeketi ehlangabezana nalezi zidingo ezilandelayo.
- Umhlane namahlombe kuvaliwe;
- ubude benguketi abukho ngaphezu kwamadolo;
- izingubo ezimhlophe ziyadingeka.
Inhloko kufanele ihlanganiswe ne-mantilla, i-shawl, i-handkerchief noma iveli.
Ngokuqondene ne-makeup, akufanele kube nokukhanya kakhulu. Futhi ayikho i-lipstick (ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, ukusula ngaphambi kokungena esontweni) - akekho ozokuvumela ukuba ubange isiphambano ngezindebe ezidwetshiwe.
Ukubonakala komkhwenyana kufanele kuhambisane nesimo - izembatho ezihlanganisa umzimba (hhayi ama jeans noma i-tracksuit), okungcono kakhulu kwe-shades elula.
Izidingo ezifanayo ziyasebenza ezembatho zabafakazi emshadweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bonke abakhona emshadweni - umakoti nomkhwenyana, ofakazi nezivakashi kufanele bawele.
Isikhathi esihle somshado
Kuyaziwa ukuthi phakathi nokuthunyelwe, amaholide amahle futhi esonto, umshado awubanjwe. Futhi ungashadi umbhangqwana ngoLwesibili, ngoLwesine noma ngoMgqibelo. Futhi usuku oluhle lomshado yiSonto, futhi kukhona abaningi abafisa ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwane babo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuvumelanisa kusengaphambili ngosuku lomshado.
Izidingo zofakazi emshadweni
OFakazi kufanele babhapathizwe. Emva komkhosi, baba izihlobo ezingokomoya futhi uma kamuva befuna ukushada, khona-ke isonto ngeke livume umshado wabo. Kodwa-ke, kuvunyelwe ukuthi ofakazi basebevele bashadile. Indima yofakazi emshadweni ukubamba imiqhele phezu kwalabo abashadayo kulo mkhosi (cishe imizuzu engama-40). Kodwa emasontweni athile izimfanelo ezisemqoka zomshado zibeka phezu kwamakhanda omshado womshado wesikhathi esizayo. Ngakho-ke, zonke izinkomba kufanele zichazwe esontweni ohlela ukuqhuba ngalo.