Kunoma yimuphi umuntu, indawo entsha, umlutha kwabanye abantu nezidingo zabo, njalo kubangela injabulo, ukungakhululeki, ngamanye amazwi - isimo sokucindezeleka. Ngakho ingane, lapho sijwayele ukuya enkulisa, isesimweni sokucindezeleka. Kusemandleni abazali ukujwayela ingane yabo enkulisa ngaphandle kokulahleka okukhulu kokuziphatha, ukwazi ukuthi ingayilungisa kanjani nokuthi ingasiza kanjani esikhathini sokuzivumelanisa.
Isikhathi sokuguquguquka enkulisa
Ukuguquguquka kuyaqondwa njengendlela yokulungisa isimo sengane endaweni yakhe entsha nemibandela yayo. Ngengane ngayinye, inqubo yokuzivumelanisa iyenzeka ngokuhlukile. Kodwa izazi zengqondo zihlukanisa izinhlobo ezintathu zazo:
- ukukhanya - kusuka emavikini amabili kuya kwenyanga eyodwa;
- isilinganiso - kusukela ngenyanga eyodwa kuya kwezintathu;
- esindayo - kusuka ezinyangeni ezintathu kuya kweziyisithupha.
Uma unquma izinga lokuzivumelanisa nezimo, kufanele uqaphele ukuxhumana kwengane yakho nezinye izingane nabanakekeli, ijubane lokushintsha, njengoba edla futhi elala ensimini.
Ngokuzivumelanisa kalula, ingane ayitholi ukukhathazeka njalo, ngisho noma ekhala lapho ehlukanisa nomama wayo, kodwa ngosizo lomnakekeli angashintsha kalula, adlale nezingane ngokujabula, adle ngokuthula futhi alele.
Ngokulinganisa okulinganiselwe - ingane ikhala lapho ihlukanisa nabazali izinyanga ezimbili, kodwa ingakwazi ukuphazamiseka okuthile, ukukholelwa ukudlala, ngezinye izikhathi ukudla kabi nokulala.
Ngokuzivumelanisa okukhulu - ingane ikhala usuku lonke enkulisa ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, iphazamiseke kakhulu yizinywana noma izingane, ayifuni ukudlala nanoma ubani, akalala futhi adle kabi. Kulesi simo, ungancoma ukuthi uthathe ingane ngaphambi kokuphela kwalonyaka bese uyiyisa ekulandelayo.
Ngokujwayelekile, ukujwayela i-enkulisa kulandela iphethini elilandelayo: ingane iqala ukuhamba enkulisa isikhathi esifushane (amahora angu-2-3), bese isetshenzisiwe futhi isikhathi sakhe enkulisa siyakhula ukuze silale, bese silala, bese siphelelwa usuku lonke.
Ungalungiselela kanjani ingane enkulisa?
Ukulungiselela i-kindergarten ukuthi abazali kufanele bafundise noma okungenani baqale ukubafundisa:
- ukudlala yedwa;
- ulale futhi udle ngesikhathi esifanayo (kuhle ukuba ukwazi kusengaphambili umbuso wensimu futhi ulungise kuwo);
- sebenzisa ngokuzenzekelayo imbiza;
- zidle wena uphuze emgodini;
- ukulala ngokuzimela ngaphandle kokugula ukuhamba kanye nokuba khona komama;
- okungenani igqoke elincane futhi uziqede;
- uxhumane nezingane ezingavamile nabantu abadala.
Ngaphezu kokuthuthukisa amakhono angenhla, lapho uthenga ingane izingubo nezicathulo ze-enkulisa, cabanga ukuthi kufanele ihambisane nenkathi nosayizi wengane, ibe nezibopho ezilula nezibophezelo.
I-Adaptation imithetho enkulisa
Ukuvumelanisa ingane ensimini kwakuphumelele, kunezincomo eziningi kubazali, kodwa okuyinhloko yizinto ezilandelayo:
- zama ukugcina umbuso we-enkulisa nasekhaya, ngezimpelasonto;
- Ungesabi insimu, kungcono ukukhuluma ngensimu kuphela ngokuhle;
- emva kokugula ngokushesha ungashiyi usuku lonke, unike ithuba lokuthola kancane kancane ukujwayela;
- ngikhulume ekhaya ngokuthi usuku ludlule kanjani engadini;
- qiniseka ukuthi ushilo ingane, ukuthi uyamthanda, ukuthi uzokwenzenjani ensimini, nokuthi uyombuyisela;
- Ungabonakali ukunganeliseki kwakho ngesimo sengqondo esibheke enkulisa enganeni;
- ungasheshi ukushiya ingane isikhathi eside ensimini, ingane ngayinye inezinga elihlukile lokujwayela;
- khathalela kakhulu ingane yakho, ikakhulukazi ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuvakasha: naye edlala, ehamba, ekhuluma;
- ake ingane ilale ngokwanele, idinga ukubuyisela amandla akhe, ngoba enkulisa uyisebenzisa amandla amaningi ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane kufanele izwe uthando lwakho, ukuzethemba ekuphumeleleni nasekusekeleni kule nkathi enzima ukuthi ikwazi ukujwayela enkulisa.