Kukhona izincomo jikelele ngezipho zosuku lokuzalwa olutsha kunazo zonke. Ingane iqala ngokusebenzisa amathoyizi afanele. Ezinhlobonhlobo ezihlukahlukene ezitolo zezingane, ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukukhetha ithoyizi efanelekile. Phela, akumelwe nje ukujabulisa ingane kuphela, kodwa futhi kuzuze ukuthuthukiswa kwayo: ukufundisa ingane ukuxhumana, ukufunda izinto ezintsha, ukuveza imizwa yabo. Kakade amathoyizi amalungiselelo akwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zokudala zengane. Ngakho-ke, kule minyaka, amathoyizi akha izinhlaka ezingokoqobo afanelekile.
Yini enye, ngaphandle kwamathoyizi, unganika umfana iminyaka engu-1 yokuzalwa? Zikhona izipho ingane engayithandi, kodwa abazali bayojabula. Izipho ezinjalo ezisebenzayo zihlanganisa iqoqo lelineni lebhedi labantwana, umatilasi, izitsha zomntwana, iqoqo lemikhiqizo yokuhlanzeka kwabantwana, izingubo noma izicathulo, njll. Abazali bomuntu wokuzalwa abafana nezipho ezingenakukhunjulwa, isibonelo, ubucwebe (abafana u-chain nge-pendant bazolandela), i-albhamu yezithombe, izithombe, izethulo zezithombe, isethi sokukhishwa (ngosizo lwakhe umuntu angenza amapayipi noma ubumba bezinhlamvu nemilenze yengane eneminyaka eyodwa), imitha yokukhula, njll. .
Sincoma ngaphambi kokukhetha isipho ukubonisana nabazali bomuntu wokuzalwa. Mhlawumbe banesifiso ngesipho noma bazokwazi ukukutshela ukuthi ingane ithanda ukuthini ukudlala. Uma abazali bebanikele ukukhetha isipho kuwe, ngezansi sizocabangela ukuthi yini ongayinika umfana iminyaka engu-1, ngakho-ke ukukhetha kwakho kuletha injabulo kanye nokubonakala okungenakulibaleka.
Izipho ngqo ezinganeni
Kule minyaka, izingane zithanda ukuqoqa nokushintsha okuthile. Ngakho-ke, amapulasitiki epulasitiki noma amapulangwe avela ezincane ezingxenyeni zezingxenye, izingqimba ezimibalabala, labyrinths engahlosiwe, ama-sorters azoba mnandi futhi awusizo kubo.
Abafana bavame ukudlala ngezimoto. Ukuzijabulisa okungenakuqhathaniswa kwengane kuzothatha isitulo sabakhubazekile, okungaba ngezinguqulo ezimbili: ngentambo noma ngentambo. Khumbula ukuthi i-crumb iheha izinto ezikhanyayo, ngakho khetha ithoyizi yombala ofanele noma ngezibani ezikhanyayo, umculo. Yebo, uma umshini uzoba nezingxenye ezihambayo umfana angakwazi ukuzenza, "hlola".
Ukuphendula umbuzo ukuthi yini ongayinika ingane iminyaka engu-1, ukuze lesi sipho sikhuthaze ukuthuthukiswa kokuhamba komfana, ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono, ngakho-ke sikhuthaza ukuthenga isihlalo esiqongayo. Isibonelo, amahhashi okugwedla amanje anemiphumela emihle futhi elula, angagulisa umsila wawo, avule imilomo yawo.
Isipho "sokukhula" sizoba nesihlalo sabakhubazekile-ibhayisikili. Abazali bangayilawula ngesibambo esiphenduka isondo langaphambili. Kodwa umntwana unomuzwa wokuthi yena ngokwakhe "uhamba." Lapho umntwana ekhula futhi efika ezinyaweni, khona-ke ipeni kanye neminye imininingwane engadingekile ingasuswa - kanti umfana uzovele egibele eyedwa.
Ngenkathi yasebusika, inyane lizoletha injabulo egibele emasongweni owawunikezile, futhi ngenkathi efudumele - lapho kuguqulwa khona. Namuhla ungakhetha ukujula kokubili indlu nomgwaqo.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwemvuthu isikhungo esithuthukayo singaba isipho esihle - itafula elinesethi yemidlalo ehlukahlukene: i- sorter, ipiramidi, umklami. Isipho esinjalo ngeke sijabulise umntwana kuphela, kodwa futhi sizokukhuthazela, ukusebenzisana kanye nokuqonda. Ungathenga imidlalo ehlukile ezosiza ingane ukuba ihlukanise imininingwane ngesayizi, umumo nombala, ifake ikhono lokubeka izinto zesepha zibe ezinkulu. Izipho ezinjalo ungakhetha ama-sorters, ama-pyramid, ama-dolls okugcoba, ama-puzzle, izinkomishi.
Isixazululo esihle semidlalo yangaphandle yi-Bowling yezingane. Ukudlala nezinye izingane, umfana uzokwakhiwa amakhono okuxhumana. Izikhonkwane, ezihlukile kumbala nokuma, zizothuthukisa umbono, ikhono lokuhlukanisa izinto komunye nomunye. Izikhonkwane zezingane zikulungele ukuthatha izimbambo ezincane, ezizosiza ekuthuthukiseni amakhono amakhono omntanakho.
Ngemva kokucabangela iseluleko ngokukhetha isipho somfana iminyaka engu-1, sifuna ukuxwayisa ngokumelene nokukhetha okungaphumelelanga. Unganiki izinto zokuhlanzeka kwansuku zonke, ngoba awuzi ukuthi isipho esinjalo ngeke sikonakalise umzimba womntwana. Ungabangeli isithakazelo kumathoyizi womfana, oklanyelwe izingane ezincane, noma, ngokuphambene, ubudala. Eyingozi empilweni yengane yizinto ezitholakala ezinganeni ezinamacici amancane - i-crumb ingabaphazamisa. Amathoyizi alawulwa ngomsakazo nawo anikezwa ekuqaleni.
Khumbula ukuthi ithoyizi elinikeziwe akudingeki libize. Into eyinhloko ukuthi isipho sakho siletha injabulo nokuhle.