Naphezu kokuthi eminyakeni yamuva inani labesifazane abahlukumezekayo landa, ngubani olungele ukunikeza imali ukuze athole injabulo yokuba ngumama, kunabesifazane abakwazi ukushiya ingane esibhedlela. Abaningi balaba besifazane bavela emindenini eyincithakalo, lapho balahlekelwa khona imibono yendawo yonke nokuthi ingane iyisipho esiphezulu esingayithola. Ngezinye izikhathi owesifazane uphoqelelwa esenzweni esinjalo ngezinkinga ezinkulu zezezimali noma izinkinga zomuntu siqu. Ngokwezibalo, izingane zishiywe esibhedlela sokubeletha, ezazakhulela ngaphandle kokunakekelwa komama, ngokuvamile zilahla izingane zabo ngokwabo.
Ukwenqaba ingane esibhedlela
Uma lona wesifazane enquma ukushiya ingane esibhedlela, kufanele abhale isicelo esikhethekile ngesikhathi ehlala esibhedlela. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza ludluliselwa ku-ejensi yokugcinwa kanye ne-trusteeship, emva kwalokho ingane idluliselwa emnyangweni wezingane ezisanda kubhedlela esibhedlela, futhi emva kwezinsuku ezingu-28 zokuphila endlini yomntwana.
Ezinyangeni ezingu-6 owesifazane angashintsha ingqondo yakhe athathe ingane yakhe. Uma engakwenzi lokhu, ingane ingathunyelwa komunye umndeni ukukhuliswa noma ukwamukelwa. Noma yiliphi lamalungu omndeni womama wezinto eziphilayo lingabhalisa ukugcinwa kwengane esanda kuzalwa.
Ungathatha kanjani ingane esibhedlela?
Noma yikuphi umbhangqwana ongenabantwana oye wanquma ukwamukela ingane, ufuna ukuthatha inqatshulwa esibhedlela ukuze amnakekele kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe. Noma kunjalo, kunzima kakhulu ukwenza lokhu, ngoba izingane ezilahliwe zinomgqeni omude. Ukuze ube ohlwini lokulinda, umuntu kumele afake isicelo ku-ejensi yokugcinwa kanye ne-trusteeship ngenhloso yokuthola umntwana osanda kuzalwa. Ukuthola isinqumo esihle se-ejensi yokugcinwa kanye ne-trusteeship yisikhathi esinzima kunayo yonke inqubo yokwamukelwa.
Ukwamukelwa kwengane esibhedlela kudinga uhlu olulandelayo lwamadokhumenti:
- isitatimende senhloso yokuba abamukeli;
- i-autobiography;
- isitifiketi sezokwelapha esimweni sempilo;
- isitifiketi esivela endaweni yomsebenzi esesikhundleni esiphethwe kanye nesitifiketi somholo wezinyanga ezingu-6, kanye nabomabhizinisi - isimemezelo semali engenayo;
- isitifiketi serekhodi lobugebengu;
- isitifiketi esitshela ukuthi umlondolozi ongakhona ungumnikazi wendawo (noma ukukhishwa kwincwadi yasekhaya);
- kulabo abashadile - ikhophi yesitifiketi somshado, esisodwa - isitifiketi sokuzalwa komzali ozayo ozayo;
- imvume yesaziso somuntu oshade naye;
- izici zokuhlala kanye nomsebenzi.
Le mibhalo udinga ukuba nayo uma kufika isikhathi sakho sokubhalisa ukunakekelwa. Uma imvume yokwamukelwa yamukelwa, khona-ke ungaqhubeka nenqubo yokukhetha ingane. Uma bezingekho izingane ezilahliwe emakhaya okubeletha edolobheni lakho, khona-ke ingane ingathathwa kunoma yisiphi isibhedlela sokubeletha ngaphakathi ezweni.
Isigaba esilandelayo ukufakwa kwesicelo enkantolo endaweni yokuhlala ingane mayelana nenhloso yokwamukela ingane. Inqubo yokutholwa
Manje umntwana osalinde isikhathi eside ungowakho futhi ungayithatha esibhedlela. Umsebenzi oyinhloko ukuwuzungezile ngokufudumele, ukunakekelwa nothando, ukukhula nendoda yangempela kuye. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi iminyaka engama-3 kusukela ngesikhathi sokutholwa, ama-ejensi okugcinwa kanye ne-trusteeship angakwazi ukulawula izimo lapho umntwana ehlala khona futhi akhuliswe.
Ukwamukelwa kwengane kuyisinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu, esidinga isinqumo ngokuzithandela nesilinganiselwe. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi unomthwalo wemfanelo wengane eyamukelwe impilo yakho yonke.