Abesifazane abaningi kulezi zimo bazama ukunamathela kuzo zonke izinkolelo-ze, futhi abanye baphenduke baze babe uhlobo lwe-mania. Kukhona omama abazayo abangeke bahlangane, musa ukuya ukusika izinwele futhi ungaboni ngisho namakati.
Esinye sezibonakaliso ezivame ukuchaza ukuthi ngabe abesifazane abakhulelwe bangabheka umuntu oshonile. Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, abantu bakholelwa ukuthi abesifazane besesimweni basesimweni esingavinjelwe futhi noma yikuphi okubi, futhi ukuxhumana nezwe elifile kungalimaza isimo sabo sempilo futhi kuthinte isimo somntwana.
Kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe bengabheka oshonile bese beya emathuneni?
Ugogo nomkhulu bethu bakholelwa ukuthi uma owesifazane okhulelwe efika emngcwabeni, ingane ephakathi kwayo izwa isimo esibuhlungu futhi izwa ukukhala kwabantu. Ezikhathini zasendulo abantu bakholelwa ukuthi uma umama ozayo ebuka oshonile, khona-ke kukhona ingozi enkulu ukuthi ingane ingazalwa ifile. Olunye ukwesaba, okwaholela ekuboneni isibonakaliso, ukuthi kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe bengaboni abafileyo, kubonisa ukuthi emangcwabeni umntwana ongakazalwa angakwazi ukunamathela umphefumulo womuntu oshonile, futhi lokhu kungashintsha isiphetho noma kuholele nasekufeni. Odokotela bayavuma ukuthi abesifazane abasesimweni akufanele babheke oshonile futhi babe khona emngcwabeni, ngoba ukucindezeleka okungadingekile akuthandi neze. Enye ingxabano ngokubangela ukuthi awukwazi ukubheka imingcwabo uye emathuneni ukuthi ezindaweni ezihlobene nokufa nakweminye imihlaba, amandla amaningi angalungile anqwabelene futhi abikezelwe
Ukuqonda isihloko kungaba noma akufanele ukhulelwe ukubuka oshonile, kufanelekile ukukhuluma umbono wesonto ngalolu daba. Abapristi bathi akukho ukuvinjelwa okuqondile kule ndaba, futhi wonke umuntu unelungelo lokunquma ukuthi uya emangcwabeni noma cha. Abaningi abomama esikhathini esizayo, ngokuphambene nalokho, bathi emathuneni bazizwa ukuqiniswa nokunakekelwa kwezihlobo, kodwa abantu abafile.
Ubufakazi obucacile balo mbonakaliso abukho, futhi konke kuxhomeke esimweni sengqondo somama esizayo. Kuhlale kudingeke ukhumbule ukuthi imicabango emibi kanye nokwesaba kungaba yinto engokoqobo. Uma kukhona ukwesaba ezingeni elingenasisekelo, ungayi emngcwabeni noma emangcwabeni. Akunconywa ukuba abe khona kumicimbi enjalo nabesifazane abathintekayo. Ungase futhi utshele umuntu othandekayo ngenye indlela - hamba esontweni bese ubeka ikhandlela noma uhlele inkonzo yomngcwabo.