Akuwona wonke umuntu ongaphupha ngomongameli wezwe lethu, yingakho amaphupho anjalo kufanele anikezwe ukubaluleka okukhulu, ngoba incazelo yawo inencazelo ethile. Uma ephusheni umongameli ufunda izinkulumo emihlanganweni, futhi futhi uthatha ingxenye ekhuthele ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezibalulekile zomhlaba wonke, lokhu kusho ukuthi imisebenzi eminingi emisha izovela maduzane. Kungase kudingeke uzibonakalise ohlangothini olungcono kakhulu.
Kungani ulahlekelwa ngumongameli wezwe?
Labo abaphupha ngaleli phupho bangaba nokuthula, ngoba ukubukeka kwenhloko yombuso kuwuphawu lokuzinza nokukhuthaza umuntu. Uma umongameli ephupha, futhi ehlanganyela ekusungulweni kwemithetho emisha, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi maduzane uzoshintsha isimo ekuphileni. Umuntu angakwazi ngisho nokushintsha kakhulu umbono wakhe wezwe. Kulesi simo, isimo kufanele siphathwe ngokuqapha, ngoba akuyona yonke into eguqukayo ukuze ibe ngcono. Uma ephusheni inhloko yombuso iqede ekuqedeni kwemithetho ekhona, lokhu kuchazwa njengokuthi maduzane uzodumazeka kubangani abahle.
Ukuhumusha, lokho okhethwe ukhetho likamongameli, kusho ukuthi maduzane umuntu uzokwenza ukhetho olunzima oluzoshintsha impilo yakhe, futhi okuzobe kuncike kulo. Kubalulekile ukubhekana nalolu daba ngokubaluleka okhethekile futhi ucabangisise ngakho konke.
Iphupho lapho umuntu azibona khona njengomengameli wezwe uthi ukuzimisela kwakhe ngokweqile maduze kuzotholakala. Mhlawumbe kuveza ukuthi maduzane iphupho lakhe elide lizobe liyiqiniso, futhi umgomo owawubonakala isikhathi eside uzokwenziwa ngokushesha kakhulu. Kodwa ungashiyi konke uqobo, ngoba ukufeza le njongo kubaluleke kakhulu izimfanelo zomuntu siqu njengokukhuthazela nokubekezela. Kuyafaneleka ukukhokha konke ukunaka konke, ngoba noma yisiphi isenzo esingalungile singesabisa kakhulu inzuzo. Kungcono ukuthi ungaqhubeki izinto ngendlela yokuthi yonke into iqhube njengenjwayelo.
Kungani umhlangano nomengameli iphupho?
Uma umuntu enomhlangano wakhe nomongameli wezwe, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso ukuthi ulindele ukuthuthuka esimweni sakhe sezezimali, mhlawumbe ngisho nokubonakala komsebenzi omusha ohloniphekile ozoletha imizwelo emihle kakhulu. Hlala umongameli wezwe endaweni ekhululekile, ngokwesibonelo eholidini kubonisa ukuthi maduzane umuntu obonile leli phupho uzothola ulimi oluvamile nalabo abaphikisana nabo ngaphambili, into esemqoka ukuziphatha ngokwemvelo. Uma kuyiphupho ababulala umongameli noma uma impilo yakhe isongelwa - ibonisa ukuthi idumela lakho lingadalwa futhi udinga ukuqaphela abantu ababi-abahlakaniphile nabantu abanomona.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi isithombe ephusheni sibonakale futhi siqondakala. Lokhu okufanekisela ukuthi zonke izibikezelo zizogcwaliseka ngamunye ngamunye. Ngokuvamile,
Uma umengameli wezwe ephupha intombazane - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi maduzane uzoshada ngempumelelo. Labo abazibuzayo ukuthi yini abaphuphayo mayelana nokuxhumana nomongameli kufanele bazi ukuthi inkulumo yomuntu siqu ezincwadini eziningi zephupho ibonisa izinkinga, kodwa ukumenywa ukuba sidle nomengameli futhi abe yinkampani yakhe ezenzakalweni ezijabulisayo.
Ibhuku lephupho le-esoteric lichaza ukukhulumisana nomongameli, uma umbona futhi unomuntu oxhumana nabo, njengemiphumela yokuthakazelisa ngokweqile ngesimo sezombangazwe. Ngokuhambisana nencwadi yephupho e-esoteric ukuze ngizibonele endaweni yomongameli, kuhunyushwa ngokuthi kunezinhloso eziningi ezinganelisekanga.