Ingabe abesifazane abakhulelwe bangaba nobulili obufanayo?

Uma kungekho ukuphikisana kwezokwelapha, omama abaningi esikhathini esizayo bangakwazi ukujabulela ukusondelana cishe zonke izinyanga ezingu-9 ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Kodwa imibhangqwana eshadile iyaqonda ukuthi ubudlelwane bobulili esikhathini esinzima kakhulu kungaba nezinto eziningana. Ngakho-ke, abanye banesithakazelo ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe babe nobulili obufanayo. Lo mbuzo uphakama futhi kulabo abavame ukusebenzisa lolu hlobo lokuthakazelisa uthando ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, kanye nalabo okungenxa yokuthi kufanele babe nomkhawulo oxhumana nabo besifazane. Ayikho impendulo engavamile kulo mbuzo, ngakho-ke kungcono ukutadisha ngokucophelela ulwazi ngalesi sihloko.

Iziphakamiso zokuphikisa nokuphikisana

Ngesinye isikhathi abasekeli bezoxhumana nabo bathi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngokobulili obudala, kungenziwa, njengalesi sikhathi izicubu zithinta kakhulu, futhi lokhu kuholela ekungabikho kwemizwa ebuhlungu kule ndlela yesenzo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-rectum nayo iyindawo ehlukumezayo, futhi ngenxa yokweluka okwedlulele kweziphetho zesisu ngesikhathi sokubeletha, intombazane ingathola i-orgasm ecacile.

Kodwa zikhona nezizathu eziphoqelela ukuthi kungani impendulo yombuzo wokuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe bangaba nobulili obuncane yini:

• ngenxa yokwandiswa kwezitsha ze-anus nokucindezelwa kwesibeletho, lolu hlobo lwabaxhumene nabo bocansi lungadlala indima enkulu ekuthuthukiseni kwama-hemorrhoids;
• ukubonakala kokuphuma kwegazi kuyenzeka;
• ngokwemigomo yakamuva isenzo esinjalo singabangela ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi;
• kukhona ingozi ephezulu yokutheleleka emgodini, futhi lokhu kubhekene nezinkinga eziningana zomama nengane esizayo.

Ngemva kokufunda lezi zimpikiswano, owesifazane ngamunye angakwazi ukuzikhethela ukuthi ingabe ubulili be-anal kungenzeka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kodwa kufanele uhlole ngokucophelela zonke izingozi futhi ucabange ukuthi ungathanda yini ukujabulisa lokho noma ukuwasebenzisa ngemva kokuzalwa.

Ezinye izindlela zokuya ocansi

Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi imibhangqwana iphoqeleka ukushiya le nkathi ebalulekile hhayi kuphela kulabo abathintana nabo, kodwa nakubantu besifazane. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi abashadile bangalahlekelwa ngokuphelele ithuba lokuthola injabulo. Kunezinye izindlela ezihlukile:

• ucansi lomlomo;
• ukushaya nokushaya indlwabu;
• Ukuxhumana ngokobulili phakathi kwezigulane ezincelisayo, ngaphezu kwalokho, abomama besifuba sesikhathi esizayo baba nesibindi.

Ukuthatha isinqumo sokugcina mayelana nokuthi ungaba nesandulela ngculazi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, kungcono ukufuna impendulo kudokotela wakho. Uzokwazi ukunikeza izincomo nezeluleko eziningiliziwe.