Lokhu kungase kubonakale kungavamile, kodwa inani elibalulekile labamama abalindile lizwa ukungabikho kokugcwaliseka kwezifiso zabo zocansi kanye nezifiso zabo. Noma kunjalo, bambalwa abantu abakulungele ukuxoxa ngale nkinga ebucayi nomyeni wabo noma umuntu oseduze. Lapha kuhlala noma ukufuna impendulo kwi-intanethi, noma ukubekezela ukuthula ukunganeliseki.
Izizathu zokuthi owesifazane uqala ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ngokumangalisayo, ama-hormone ajwayelekile futhi, nakanjani, amadoda. Izinga leyokuqala ligijima njalo, elibonakala ekukhuleni okuqhubekayo noma kwehla ku-libido wesifazane okhulelwe. Yebo, labo abesabayo bayesaba ukulimaza ingane, ukuxhumana nocansi nowesifazane okhulelwe, noma abaqondiswa ezinye izinkolelo zabo. Kunoma yikuphi, owesifazane ovela kukho konke akulula, futhi uqala ukucabanga kaningi mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Sizozama ukucabangela isimo kuzo zonke izinhlangothi.
Ingabe abesifazane abakhulelwe bangakwazi ukushaya indlwabu?
Lo msebenzi ungazuza ngokulinganayo kokulimaza nokulimala. Kanye nobulili, ukushaya indlwabu kuletha ukuzwa okungenakulibaleka kwe-ogium nokwaneliseka, okubaluleke kakhulu esimweni sengqondo sesimame esesimweni. Kodwa ukushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane abakhulelwe kungenzeka kuphela uma kungabikho ukuphikisana, isisekelo esisodwa, esifanele, noma se-orgasm. Iqiniso liwukuthi uma kunesisindo sokukhulelwa kwesisu, i- orgasm ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ingabangela ukuvuthwa kwezindonga zesisu nokubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ikakhulukazi iphathelene nokushaya indlwabu kwe-clitoris ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ngoba izinzwa ezitholakalayo ngenxa yalokho zibukhali kakhulu futhi ziyingozi kakhulu kulokhu. Ngaphandle kwalokho, isifundo esinjalo esihle samukelekile kuphela.
Kuwusizo kangakanani ukushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane abakhulelwe?
Amandla okuya ocansini, okuba abesifazane abakhulelwe abanzi ngokwanele, kumele bathole indlela yokuphuma. Imiphumela emincane yokungabikho kwalokhu kungaba amaphupho okuqukethwe okweqile, ama-neuroses, ukucindezeleka nokuwohloka kwesimo sengqondo. Ngakho-ke, isifiso sokushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akufanele nje kubangele ukwesaba, kodwa kuyasiza. Uma umyeni evele ehlupha emisebenzini yakhe eqondile noma akekho ozobhapathizwa, kufanele umuntu athathe impilo yakhe yengqondo ezandleni zakhe, ngomqondo wangempela wezwi! Ukungabi nobulili nge-orgasm kuholela ekujuleni kwegazi ezingxenyeni zesikhumba esincane, esibuye sinezinkinga ezihlukahlukene. Mayelana nokuthi ukushaya indlwabu kuthinta kanjani ukukhulelwa, ungagweba okungenani ukuthi ukwandisa ukujikeleza kwegazi kuvumela oksijini kanye nezinto eziwusizo ukuba zigelekele emntwaneni ngokusebenzisa i-placenta.
Indlela yokushaya indlwabu kahle ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
Ungakholelwa, kodwa lapha kukhona ama-nuances athile afaneleke kakhulu ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngemva kokuthola "ukukhishwa", owesifazane uzwa ukuhlukumeza esiswini esingaphansi, okuyinto incazelo ye-post-orgasmic attack. Ukuze uyinqobe udinga ukuphumula futhi ulale ngakwesokudla sakho imizuzu engu-10-15. Ngakho kubalulekile ukuphefumula kancane kancane. Futhi, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi lapho esikhathini sokuya esikhathini siseduze futhi sinamathele ekuhlanzeni okuhlanzekile.
Ukwaneliseka ngokwemibandela ehlukene yokuthwala
Njengoba sekushiwo kakade, ukushaya indlwabu ezinkathini zokuqala zokukhulelwa kungabangela i-tonus eyengeziwe ye-womb nesisu sokukhulelwa, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukukhawulela imvamisa yayo. Zama ukuxhumana nomlingani wezocansi noma ulinde kuze kube yisikhathi esihle kakhulu. Ukushaya indlwabu ezinyangeni ezingu-9 zokukhulelwa kungaba yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuya ocansini evamile, okuyinto eba nzima ngenxa yesisu esikhulu nomfazi olungiselela isitezi sezintambo.
Umbuzo wokuthi kuyingozi yini ukushaya indlwabu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kufanele kuxazululwe ngokuzimela noma ngosizo lomuntu othandekayo. Kunoma ikuphi, asikho isidingo sokungazinaki inkinga yokunganeliseki ngokocansi.